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where do we go from here
16/m a couple of days ago i asked this girl out and she said that she only liked me as a friend and she wanted us to get to know each other better first and then maybe we could try it. i'm ok with that but i dont really know how to get to know her better or anything i dont know what to do. any ideas?
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For a girl, you must ask questions. Questions, questions, questions!!! Many women love a guy to be romantic and listen to them. Be interested what she says and have fun. If you aren't, pretend!
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Ask her to go out and do something with her, say it isn't a date it is 2 friends hanging out, and just talk to her ask her questions about her life tell her things about your life. I think face to face conversations are better when you are trying to get to know sombody. Go bowling, eat dinner, roller skate, ice skate, something, i wouldn't recomend a movie as you can't talk while you are watching it, but maybe at the end of the date that isn't really a date you can ask her out again. Hope i helped
~Ash
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hangaround with her.
talk to her online.
casually call her
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Just ask her to hang out with you sometime wether it be the mall, the movies, etc. And while you're sitting there and just hanging out, just ask her about herself and what she's interested in and what she likes to do and everything. It will show you're interested in her and what she has to say. Open doors for her, offer to help pay for food and such, and just be curteous cause it will show you care and you're polite. And while you're talking with her, just share previous experience and show her you can relate to her and what she's going through/ went through and try to find some things in common. And of course, try and make her laugh. And you can try and flirt with her a little, and see if she flirts back. :] And then if you don't already have it, ask her for your number so you guys can talk more on the phone and improve your guy's friendship, which will hopefully later turn into a relationship. And also, after you hang out with her, the next time you see her, you already would then have a conversation starter about what she thought of the movie, or wasn't the mall a blast and the funny thing that might've happend at the mall, etc. I hope I helped.
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Well you need to ask her to hang out. Take her out and pay for her and open doors for her and be polite. Dont take it too seriously but do things to let her know you care about ehr and you're not giving up. Tell her things you would tell your guy friends and include her in your life. When she's having a bad day or something is wrong, be there for her. You dont want to move in too close but you want to let her know that you are there for her and that you can be more than just a friend. Hope that helped. Asked if you have anything you want to add.
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Ask her if she wants to hang out so you guys can talk and learn more about eachother. You could go to the mall movies bowling ice skating wherever you think she would like to go. Make sure your really nice to her and be confident don't act all nervous around her. Become best friends with her and tell eachother all your secrets and talk on the phone 24/7. Compliment her alot but dont sound obsessed. Help her when shes sad and comfort her. Invite her over to your house to watch movies and just hang out. Just be yourself and maybe even hug her every once in a while to let her know that you really do care about hwr. Don't rush into this relationship yet. When you feel you guys are really close then make another move. If you have more questions then ask.
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