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My boyfriend now and me and him

Question Posted Friday July 21 2006, 5:16 am

Me and my boyfriend are getting closer ..I think i love him because everytime i am around him i am very very nervous about what i will sya how i look and how i act and i get butterflies in my stomache and when i tell him i love him he says it bak and it feels right with everyother guy that tiold me tha ti felt really weird but i never said it bak to them if i did i said it fast so do i love him????I am 13 and a girl..

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hannahd answered Friday July 21 2006, 8:04 pm:
No, that's infatuation. When you love someone, you don't need to question it; you know for a fact when you do. And when you're with the person you love, you aren't nervous about being yourself. So in my opinion, from what you told me, that's not love.

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*Kate* answered Friday July 21 2006, 5:22 pm:
I usually send this to people who aren't sure about their feelings:

Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing and is your voice caught within your chest?
It isn't love, it's like.

You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them.
It isn't love, it's lust.

Are you proud, and eager to show them off?
It isn't love, it's luck.

Do you want them because you know they're there?
It isn't love, it's lonliness.

Are you there because it's what everyone wants?
It isn't love, it's loyalty.

Are you there because he kisses you or holds your hand?
It isn't love, its low confidents.

Do you stay for their confessions of love, because you don't want to hurt them?
It isn't love, it's pity.

Do you belong to them because their sight makes you heart skip a beat?
It isn't love, it's infatuation.

Do you pardon their faults becuase you care about them?
It isn't love, it's friendship.

Do you tell them everyday that they are the only one you think of?
It isn't love, it's a lie.

Are you willing to give your favorite things to them?
It isn't love, its charity.

Does your heart ache and break when they're sad?
Then it's love.

Do you cry their pain even though your strong?
Than it's love.

Do their eyes see your true heart and touch your soul so deeply it hurts?
Then it's love.

Do you stay because a blinded uncomprehensible mix of pain and realtion pulls you close and keeps you there?
Than it's love.

Do you accept their faults because they're a part of who they are?
Then it's love.

Would you give them your heart, your life and your dealth?
Then it's love.

Now if love is painful and tortures us than why do we love? Why is it that all we search for in life is love and agony? Why is it all we long for? w . h . y ? The answer is simple: because its love.

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queenhearts answered Friday July 21 2006, 4:21 pm:
Sounds like puppy love?

All these people are telling you.. you can't question love. They most likely don't know what it is.

You may love him... have really strong feelings for him

But you may not be "In love with him"

Something a little more serious though.

If that makes sense.

Just show him you care.
Be aware you might get hurt.

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Melody answered Friday July 21 2006, 3:45 pm:
If you have to question whether or not you love someone, then you don't. Love isn't something that you question, and if you are questioning it, then no; You don't love him.

Not trying to be mean, but i'm just telling you like it is.

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beachbarbie721 answered Friday July 21 2006, 12:32 pm:
Well...i kinda went through the same thing with my boyfriend when we first started dating.And here's what i learned. People say we're too young to know what love is, but you cant put an age limit on love. It just...happens when it happens. And you'll know it. You dont need to ask other people. Because no matter what people tell you....they dont know what's inside you're heart. So if YOU think you love him...then i would say...yes. You do. It took me a while to realize that but i've been with my boyfriend for over a year now. I knew i loved him, no matter what anyone else told me. And it turned out perfect. Just listen to your heart.
Hope that helped.
♥ Me

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H0PELESS_R0MANTiC. answered Friday July 21 2006, 11:43 am:
If you can't tell yourself that you love him on your own without asking other people then no, you don't love him. Sorry to say it so bluntly. Hope I helped. xx H0PELESS.

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Lucky answered Friday July 21 2006, 9:57 am:
I dont thk u love him because if you loved him, you wouldnt be asking, u would no. Srry, but you mite love him someday.


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royalprincess answered Friday July 21 2006, 9:56 am:
that happened to me to the boy um with now is the best boyfriend um been with... i never felt right when i said it to other boys to... i think you do love him... how long have you been with him though...

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hottie411 answered Friday July 21 2006, 9:43 am:
if you really love him, then you would know that you love him and wouldnt have to ask this.

dont worry, if you love someone, then you'll know you love them.


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jazelock answered Friday July 21 2006, 8:03 am:
I don't think anyone other than you yourself can truly say whether you love your boyfriend or not. However, although it may not help, but it did for me, my former teacher once told me, "There's one question that can test whether you truly love someone. Imagine if a situation arose where the best thing for your boyfriend/girlfriend would be to give him/her up and never see him/her again for the rest of your life. If you're truly, TRULY willing to do this, it's love."

Not sure if that'll help, but hope it does.

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Exquisitechick answered Friday July 21 2006, 7:51 am:
When somebody loves someone. They know its love. They dont question it. So, therefore if you loved him you would "know" and you wouldnt be asking if you do or not. So, you dont.


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