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13/f

i have been friends with this guy for about a year. he's really cool and all, and i consider him my guy best friend, and i guess he considers me his girl best friend. we have a lot of things in common, and we talk about all anything. from sports to music to girls and all that stuff. one time we talked in AIM for 8 hours straight! the last time i talked to him, before he left for vacation, we talked about how we talked for 8 hours straight. [[it's always been random things that we talk about]] and somewhere along the line of conversation, i said something like, "well, i wouldn't wanna waste your time talking to me."
here's a quick scene from that conversation::
HIM: oh come on. you're one of the only people i could talk to for 8 hours and love it
ME: uh-huh
HIM: yeaah. why do you think that it would be a waste of time for me?
ME: i don't know... maybe you have better things 2 do?
HIM: now why would i talk to you for so long if i had better things to do? i talked to you for 8 hours because i love talking to you
ME: i guess... lol... this is turning into one of those "aw" moments
HIM: hahahahahaha. sure i guess. just being
honest

i thought it was REALLLY sweet of him to say that. since then i've been feeling like i like him more than a friend. i heard that he kinda likes someone, but i'm not sure who it is. i don't really wanna tell him that i like him, because i don't wanna put our friendship in jeopardy. i'm thinking of just waiting to see if he'll ask me out. maybe not anytime soon, but hopefully when i still like him. should i? we don't go to the same school anymore. we used to, but his parents wants him to go to this other school so that he has a better chance of him getting into this high school that i'm hoping to get into, too. i really miss him, and even though i talk to him more than anybody else, i still feel like it's not enough. what should i do?

Well I think you should wait till he asks you out. Maybe you should flirt a little so he gets the picture.


~Lucky

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in your opinion, is "pissed" a curse word? i am 15/f and my friends and teachers say it, and i was just curious. for example, "that really pissed me off."

I dont think it is. i say it all the time, but it can be for some people.


~Lucky

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does crying burn calories, if so how many

I dont think crying burns calories, but if you want 2 burn some, walk, jog, and baciclly if your moving you burn them



~Lucky

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16/F,this girl who use to bully me so badly in 5th grade continues to gossip and say all of this crap about me in high school. Because of her actions, I've had a low self-esteem.

I could care less about what she says or thinks about me cause her opinions don't matter to me at all. Usually, I'll just ignore her and I won't let it bother me. I was willing to forget about the past and forgive her but she just refuses. I think that she is really immature for holding a grudge against me for so long. My best friend told me that she could be jealous or she needs to pick on someone to make herself feel better. But, I'm wondering what is her problem and why do you think she continues to do this?

Your best friend is right. Just ignore her.


~Lucky

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ok.. like.. i get really hyper. & like yesterday, i was at the carnival, & i was like idno, fulling around. & like, my one friend is so quiet, & shy. & im more outgoing & everything. soo, should i change? & be more like her? or should i stay the way i am? i dont want to like annoy someone. & how can i stop acting so hyper sometimes?

Dont change who you are. If shes your friend, she'll like you the way you are. I have a lot of friends who are different from me.


~Lucky

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okay, i'm 14/f and there's someone that i like, but he's 2 years younger than me. is it okay to like or date someone 2 years younger? it seems kind of weird, but it's not that big of a difference and in fact i think my parents are 2 years apart. thanks

Well if he's 12, it kinda matters now, but when your older it doesnt really matter. but do whatever you want because it's your choice,and if you like him go for it.


~Lucky

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hi i was wandering if anyone could help me find a cute middle name.... my daughters first name is gonna be Kylee ( pernounced like (kigh leigh) and i need a cute middle name to match with it. i appreaciate it! Thanks!!
*sarah*

Try not to do a common name. I like Kylee Mae, or Kylee Lynn.



~Lucky

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Is there a way to find pictures, documents, files, etc., after you delete them from the recycle bin?

no they are gone forever, sorry, unless you saved them on a disk. :'(



~Lucky

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Tonight me and my best friend hailey were planning on going ice skating. Hailey has been hvaing problems with her ex boyfriend and some girl he used to date. This girls name is Kimberly, and shes always talking trash about Hailey. Well shes getting a whole bunch of girls to go down to the ice skating rink tonight to fight hailey. Should we still go and just ignore their BS, or stay home and be scared? its such a hard decision.

Go to the rink to stand by Hailey. if your there, she might not get hurt because there are other people with her. No one has any right to push around your friend.


~Lucky

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in this school year, i got very popular, i have so many more frineds and everything, but my old friends are getting really pissed at me.. i dont even feel like a part of them any more .. what shud i do? :(

Set some time for your old friends, so they'll fell like you havent desserted them. It's okay to have new friends, but make sure that you spend time with both because then they'll get mad at you.



~Lucky

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tonight when i was with my boyfriend i suddenly got bored and didnt wanna be with him anymore. i started having thoughts of breaking up with him. but then like 10 minutes later he was holding me and i felt so happy! i LOVE the physical attraction we have and hes really funny but im not sure if hes right for me cause i cant always be the crazy, hyper person that i am. is it bad that i was having those negative thoughts or is it normal? any advice will be appreciated!

Well i think those thoughts are normal. Everyone thinks about that kind of stuff. U have nothing 2 worry about!


~Lucky

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out of opinion, would you say that 5'4'' was tall or short for a 15 year old girl?

im 5'4 and im 13, so idk. Im just really tall for my age, but I thk thats average for a 15 year old.


~Lucky

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Me and my boyfriend are getting closer ..I think i love him because everytime i am around him i am very very nervous about what i will sya how i look and how i act and i get butterflies in my stomache and when i tell him i love him he says it bak and it feels right with everyother guy that tiold me tha ti felt really weird but i never said it bak to them if i did i said it fast so do i love him????I am 13 and a girl..

I dont thk u love him because if you loved him, you wouldnt be asking, u would no. Srry, but you mite love him someday.


~Lucky

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OK. Well people are always telling me they wish they were me and im sorry if this sounds vain, but i think im fat and ugly. Are there any ways to make me feel better about myself i school.

By the way im sorry if this is in the wrong catagory....i couldnt pick one.

Well, if people want 2 be you, it means that you have to be good at something. Like soccer, or math. take it from there. You might be better at thoose things than other people, so I would feel good if someone told me they wish they were me. but looks dont always count. please take the time to consider that maybe you're smart, or athletic. and in the long run, thats way better than being pretty.


~Lucky

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What exactly do you consider "making out"

Kissing a lot or french kissing.


~Lucky

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I need help on how to forget about a little event that occurred between my friend and me. We were just playing around and he bet me that I wouldn't kiss him because I was a wuss. Well, I did, and then later could not stop thinking about it. We kissed again another day, but then we both decided that it was wrong and now it's two days later and I still can't stop thinking about it. How do I get over this? How can I move on?

Well if you dont have feelings 4 him, you should think about other guys. if you think about other guys, you'll stop thinking about the kiss. Yuo were just playing around.


~Lucky

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Hey, i was just wondering if anyone knows of any hair products that can make your hair look like you have just been swimming in ocean water..becuase i love how my hair looks when i get out of the ocean..i've tried all the surf hair products by garnier fructis..but they don't achieve the look i want. Btw, i have really thick very curly hair..thanks!

Put some gel, or baby oil

Tht otta do it =]

~lucky

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me and my boyfriend have been dating on and off for the past 2 years.I recently found out he cheated on me 3 times with some girls from Johnston.Now he asked me if we were dating about 2 days ago and i stupidly said "Yea,I guesss".Today he came to my house and told me that he has a new girlfriend. I said "i thought me and you were together" and he said "O well shes hotter".5 minutes later he tried kissing me.What should I do about all of this???Now im stuck the single one!



PLEASE HELP ME FAST!:(

find someone who respects you, and wont cheat. If your gonna keep with the other guy, he'll just cheat on you again. What you need is a true boyfriend. And that guy was WAY lame to say O well shes hotter" that's really mean. and then 5 min later tries 2 kiss u!!! I think you can do better. any guy who doesnt respect you, is not worthy 2 be your boyfriend.


~lucky

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Hi,
I'm with my boyfriend for close to 4 years now. We met when I was 15 years old and been dating more on and then off. We've had our fair share of problems; my parents didn't approove of him before 1 year ago (he was into drugs, blablabla.). Anywho, we've been on now for more than a year but have serious issues.
When he broke up with me at first, we both went with someone else. Thing is, when he asked me if I'd been with anyone else, I told him the truth. When I asked him tho, he denied it until 2 years AFTER, when I found out by someone else. That really hurt me and affected my trust issues with him.
Now, he's turn into this big possessive guy. Meaning, I can't even talk to guys when he's around or else he freaks out. He says I flirt with eveyrbody but I've always been social even when I was without him. I feel like I'm ignoring a ton of people whenever he's around because I don't want to get him mad. If I talk to a guy ( A FRIEND ), he gives me these dirty looks that make me feel very unconfortable. Once, I was talking to a 30year old man, we were kidding around and my boyfriend got really mad so I stopped talking to that man for the whole weekend. My boyfriend, although, receives phonecalls from one of his 'female friends' almost twice a week but I can't say anything about that. She's only his friend (I'm sure, too) but it bothers me also. Whatever he does, it's always less important than what I do. I talk to a guy and it's the end of the world but when he talks to a girl, I can't say anything or else we get into an argument.
We argue almost every week but I really love him - he's my first real love. He doesn't like when I go out with the girls into bars or that I dance at a club because he says I want some attention and I shouldn't want some since I'm with him. When I dance or go out, it's certainly not to cheat on him or to flirt and I need to reassure him every time. I can't chat on MSN because he get's paranoid that I might be two-timing him and that I might find someone else... (I still do it but without him knowing it.) Once, I wore a padded bra and he found out and wasn't happy about it. He just doesn't understand why I would want to wear it but I don't see anything wrong with it - I didn't even have a cleavage with that shirt. Also, he doesn't like me to wear low shirts or short shorts.. that I can understand.
He says he reacts that way about guys, clothes, whatever because he's scared of loosing me and he doesn't want me to go with anyone else. By the way he's acting... it isn't going well.
We've had some deep discussions about that and we always agree that we'd both change.... but that's what we do. We fight - we talk - we make up and then it starts over again.
I don't wanna end my relationship with him - I truly love him... but I need some advice.

I'm afraid his jealousy will tear us apart...
Tell me what I should do!!!

If you really love him, I think you should stay with him. but if this happends ALL THE TIME i think you should have a serios talk with him. because he shouldnt get mad when you go out into clubs, and hang out with your friends. Or when you talk in MSN because, your probably just talking 2 FRIENDS. If he really loves you, he'll let you do those things. but when he gets mad cuz your hanging out with other guys, guys get mad because they think your going 2 break up wit them. but he just doesnt want 2 lose you. So talk 2 him, and tell him your the only guy for me dont worry, those other guys are just my friends, and ONLY MY FRIENDS. If you cant trust me, maybe we shouldnt be 2gether, but I really care about u. If that doest work maybe you should break up with him.

~Lucky

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Alright, i just got a puppy, and hes 7 weeks old, hes a golden doodle mix (golden retriever/poodle), and he humps his blanket...and other random objects...hes only 7 WEEKS old...is that normal?

any advice you have, i'd appreciate!
thanks

lol, yea that's normal. My dog used 2 do it, but now he's old, and he doesnt do it anymore. He might grow out of it tho.

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