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i think i may like my boy best friend...?
13/f
i have been friends with this guy for about a year. he's really cool and all, and i consider him my guy best friend, and i guess he considers me his girl best friend. we have a lot of things in common, and we talk about all anything. from sports to music to girls and all that stuff. one time we talked in AIM for 8 hours straight! the last time i talked to him, before he left for vacation, we talked about how we talked for 8 hours straight. [[it's always been random things that we talk about]] and somewhere along the line of conversation, i said something like, "well, i wouldn't wanna waste your time talking to me."
here's a quick scene from that conversation::
HIM: oh come on. you're one of the only people i could talk to for 8 hours and love it
ME: uh-huh
HIM: yeaah. why do you think that it would be a waste of time for me?
ME: i don't know... maybe you have better things 2 do?
HIM: now why would i talk to you for so long if i had better things to do? i talked to you for 8 hours because i love talking to you
ME: i guess... lol... this is turning into one of those "aw" moments
HIM: hahahahahaha. sure i guess. just being
honest
i thought it was REALLLY sweet of him to say that. since then i've been feeling like i like him more than a friend. i heard that he kinda likes someone, but i'm not sure who it is. i don't really wanna tell him that i like him, because i don't wanna put our friendship in jeopardy. i'm thinking of just waiting to see if he'll ask me out. maybe not anytime soon, but hopefully when i still like him. should i? we don't go to the same school anymore. we used to, but his parents wants him to go to this other school so that he has a better chance of him getting into this high school that i'm hoping to get into, too. i really miss him, and even though i talk to him more than anybody else, i still feel like it's not enough. what should i do?
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well a little thing to do is when your around him drop little hints but not big ones if you want to drop big ones start out really small, he probably likes you too but just is to shy to ask you out after you drop a few hints after a while if he doesn't get the picture and ask you out just try to ask him out cause there is nothing to lose, your friend ship might get a little jumbled but hopefully after it will go back in place i hope it helps
>>> SparkleAngel
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wow i went thru this exact same problem.
me and my boyfriend were best of friends in 8th grade we always flirted and talked on the phone. but neverr would admit that we liked eachother. even tho i knew he did.
then one day i just asked him on the way to class. i said "john, idk if you like me, but i really like you" and then i just went to class. then when i came back. he told me he had feelings for me. and this was back in april 2005. and if i never told him how i felt, i honestly dont know what would have happend.
so i think that you should just express your feelings to him. i know what you meant tho. i thought going out with my best friend would complicate things, buts its turned out to be the best desicion of my life.
i hope that helped. =]
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Well I think you should wait till he asks you out. Maybe you should flirt a little so he gets the picture.
~Lucky
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Aw, thats cute, anywho, he really actually kinda sounds like he likes you! All I gotta say is flirt with him as much as possible, maybe give him some hints!Ask him who he likes! =] Good luck! Much love && sunshine! Neelz
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