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Howdy!! I'm NEELY!! You can call me Neelz for short!! =] I am a very sweet girl that has been through.. quite A LOT! I do give good advice and I would be so freaking happy if you ask me for some advice!! I ADORE my friends!! Can't live without them. I may be 14 but I have been through a lot of things in life maybe not "ALL" of them but some! I love to give advice its my specialty and dont hesitate to ask me something because I will do all I can to answer you!

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hey theres this boy and he is 2 grades higher than me and hes really sweet and smart,cute,and funny. Should I ask him out? Please help from thinker101.

Well, if your confident enough to then go ahead! Theres nothing wrong with the girls asking the guys out these days so GO FOR IT GIRL! I hope everything turns out great!!

Much love && sunshine

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In the song London Bridge by Fergie, does the term "London Bridge" mean something bad? Because I was listening to the song with my Dad and he said, "This song is innapropriate."

The word "london bridge" means booty, haha at least thats what it said on my radio station. Yeah there is a lot of language and sexuality in this song so thats probably why its inapropriate.

Much love && sunshine!!
Neely

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im 5'5 and weigh 145 lb. im not fat at all. and very muscular. but am i overweight?

Muscle weighs more than fat so your perfectly fine!!

Much love && sunshine!

Neely

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okay well im having a back-to-school party. what are some good ideas of decorations, games, stuff like that, with out being like an all-out-theme-party like i had when i was 7??

I think a REALLY fun back-to-school party would be a pool party, if no pool then some fun in the back yard! Get a bunch of cold drinks and play music and maybe a barbeque!! A fun activity would be water baloons or volleyball or basketball, etc!!! Just be creative!! If you don't want something outside then maybe rent a place and have a school dance or skating party.

Anything you can think of will be fun for anyone, just no clowns and all that kid stuff haha.

Hope I helped ya!

Much love && sunshine!
♥Neelz

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i've been going out with my gf for a wile now and i dont now how to make the first move to make out with her can someoen plz help me

Okay, haha since I'm a girl I will tell you what i've noticed guys do to me.

Normally they put their arm around me and hold me close. Then they grab my hand and just lean in really slowly waiting for me to do the same and then we kiss, then you can get a little more rapid and hott!! haha

Much love && sunshine
♥ Neelz

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my friend doesnt change her underwear for like, 2 weeks, and besides being incredibly gross, is it harmful?

Ew,yes this is quite harmful!!!
She could get some serious problems doing that.
Make sure she goes to a doctor, and PLEASE make her CLEAN her underwear!!

Much Love && sunshine
♥ Neelz

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is there anyway to get rid of bacterial vaginosis besides going to the doctor. i'm very embarrased to show the doctor "down there" so is there anyways to treat it at home??? THANKS

Well, this could be a serious matter but maybe you should get a woman doctor. It made me feel better about the whole thing then I was better before I knew it!! You need to see a doctor in order to know if its serious or not.

Much love && sunshine

Neely

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I have had discharge for a very long time. About two day ago I started getting some werid brown stuff on my underware am I getting my period or is it an infection or something?

More then likely its your period! When I first started it was like that too, its just old blood. Welcome to womanhood!! Make sure you take showers regularly and wear pads and maybe try tampons for the first time. Avoid Toxic Shock Syndrome please! haha!

Much love && sunshine!

Neely

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Okay so I have had my period for almost 2 years and it has always been completely regular, every 30 days, that type of thing. The last time I was supposed to get it though, it was 18 days late. I don't know if I should be worrying it about it or not because it was only one time. But the thing is I don't eat very well. Would it have something to do with that? I only consume about 600-1000 calories a day and you are supposed to have around 2000. I also never get protein, so should I be concerned? Or just wait awhile?

Well, yes that is most likely the reason because I was anorexic at one time and during that time I didn't have my period for about 7 months then it came back when I started eating more food. You definitley need to eat more protein, its very important for the body to function properly. You don't have to eat 2,000 calories a day but you can eat less calories from that if you just choose the right choices of the foods you want. Just please eat again, dont go through what I did okay? Hope I helped you out!

Much love && sunshine!
Neely

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Hey..sorry its soo long i hope you can help im the one usually giving advice if you ever need some ask me!
I hav been going out for this guy let's call him Josh for almost 10 months. We hav an amazing relationship and he really is my best friend. We have one problem his ex girlfriend is insane. She is obssesed with him and there is a long story behind that but just to make it short she is jealous and she wants him and her and I got into a big thing. I don't liek to start things and i do stand up for myself but i don't liek having enemies. About 2 weeks ago. My boyfriend started treating me like crap. This is 2 weeks ago: Saturday night we got into a fight because his ex's friends were starting stuff with my friends. I told him that i didn't know if i cood take i anymore. We weren't on the best page. Since it is summer we don't see eachother that much he went to camp before these 2 weeks and now he's on vacation. SO back to Saturday so that happened then on Sunday we talked and he was mad and upset. On monday we were planning to see eachother on tuesday but my friends messed it up. Also on monday we had a long talk about his ex and hwo i feel like he doesn't stand up for me like he should. When our plans got ruined for tuesday i was upset but it seemed like he didn't even care. On tuesday he called me at night and we didn't talk much but i asked him what he did today and he said nothing and that he's been thinkin about alot. I got a little worried. Well anyways Wedneday came n i went to my friends house with him and all my friends.I decided to just forget about everything because he was leaving that friday and i thought it would be the last time i would see him so i wanted it to be good. It somehow came up and he wanted to talk and said that i don't feel like he is really intersting and all that and he simply told me that he was just thinking that the relationship is getting too serious as in commitment wise. I understood because we are still young but how could he tell me he loves me if he doesn't wanna be with me. Well anyways on thursday i found out that on wednesday night he slept at his friends house and he did a camera thing with one ofmy friends theyw ere all joking but he told her to pull her shirt down more so her boobs would show. It's so hard to even write this because he's so not like this. On thursday night i found out earlier that day his ex adn her friends came over to swim with his friends. Just to amek it short on friday i saw him for 2 minutes and i was planning on talking to him about it but he could opnlys tay for like 5 minutes. He was being an ass and he just left and said i love you bye. He's on vacation right now and i don't know what to do when he comes back. Thanx for reading this .What should i do? I'm 13 almost 14 and a girl.lol

Yes, I know how you feel because my ex did that to me except he slept with another girl.. ouch, but what you need to do is maybe just ignore him for a while. If he does that to you he doesn't deserve you, your way better then he is. So I suggest go find another guy that you can trust well, or ignore him. When you have new boyfriends its just a good feeling, and you don't need to be going through this crap that this other guy is doing, he's growing up and being a typical guy but not every guy is like that so I hope you find the perfect one dear! Hope I helped you!

Much love && sunshine
Neely

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I can't remember this movie. It's been bothering me lately. In the beginning, it shows some girl walking up to this house. This guy lets her in and something happens. I remember something about her nail getting ripped off and she screams, he gets worried and ends up hitting her. I think she was uncosnious (sp?) He puts a bag over her and puts her in this room. She suffocates and dies.

Later.. near the ending.. some people go to the house and find the spot where she was put.

Anyone have any ideas?

haha well it sounds sorta like the ring to me but thats just my guess...

Much love && sunshine!

Neely

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Hello, I'm 5'3 and 160 pounds. I recently went to the doctor (last Thursday) and he noted to me that I need to lose 20+ pounds.

Now since last Thursday I have lost 5lbs. Well now I'm wondering if I hurting or depriving my body of the correct foods.

For lunch I'll have a Slim Fast drink (200 calories) and that is usually around 2. I wouldn't eat anything again until 6:30 which is usually dinner. And my dinner is usually 600-800 calories.

But here is the thing in between that I work out for 45 mins to an hour. Which when I do it I do 100 cruches,200 arm exercises with weights, and bike ride for 40 mins.

Does it seem like I'm doing to much?


Thank you to anyone in advance!

Okay, well this is just my idea but you can eat more during the day just as long as you eat portionally. Like don't get 50 pounds of steak only at dinner and not eat anything during the day. Have a little something for breakfast, because people say breakfast can help you lose weight. By the way if you want to lose weight faster no more soft drinks and drink SO much water and put a little lemon juice, it works great! Just eat a little food every hour and I mean not a whole lot like maybe 150 to 200 calories every 2 hours. If you do this it increases your metabolism to burn fat quicker. So keep on doing that excercise and don't eat 600 calories for dinner, separate it out okay??

Good luck! Much love && sunshine!

Neely

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how can you get rid of eye puffiness(underneath) when you dont get enough sleep. that i can use at home without buying anything.

OKay well what I do is either get a cooling/heating mask to put on your face. You can buy them anywhere and just put it in the freezer and when you wake up and your puffy under your eyes just wear it or sleep with it on!! I hope I helped you out! If you dont ahve one of those masks then just put something cold where the puffyness is, or drink a whole ton of water. Much love && sunshine!

Neely

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okay so i have this boyfriend. i like him a lot...but he lives one town over from me. i only get to see him like once every 3 months. what should i do?

Well if you love him enough then I say wait for him. If you don't love him in that kinda way then long distant relationships dont work because all it is is worries and heartbreaks but I dont know what this guy is like but Stay with him just dont forget that there is a chance that he could break your heart because i was in the same issue and I got cheated on! I hope I helped you out girl! Much love && sunshine! Neely

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Someone told me to apply eyeliner below the bottom lashes to make your eyes stand out. Wouldn't it look weird if it wasn't right near your eye?

Well, yeah your eyes would look kinda creepy if they weren't above the lashes because then your eyes wouldn't stand out as much in a good way haha. Anywho what you do is put a nice live surrounding the top of your lashes on your lower lid. If you want your eyes to stand out more maybe add a little more but remember, too much eye liner = BAD so I hope I helped you out!!

Much love && sunshine!
Neely

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Ever since summer started, it seems that all i do is sit around all day. I always call my friends, and ask if they want to hang out, but there always busy. I know for a fact, that some of my friends parents, do not like me, but its not fair that they keep my best friends from seeing me.
For instance, everytime i call my friend kirstie, she's always busy. I'll ask if she wants to hang out, but she says, "oh, my parents are already doing stuff with me today" or, "I already promised my mom i would hang out with her." And, she's always complaing about this girl, that is kinda...the emo one in our group, but it seems like she hangs out with her more than me. It really hurts, because she always says were best friends, but arn't best friends supossed to hang out?

I just really want to know, if maybe i should try to push more to hang out, or give up, or...i dont know, it just stinks cause i'm always alone.

Please help!

Ps. sorry its so long!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

~Melissa~

Don't worry, if your friends are too busy then go out and meet some new people!! The more people you know the more people you hang out with!! I suggest going to ball games, movies, church, parks, malls, anywhere there are people!! Just go out there and have fun! Good luck!! Much love && sunshine!

Neely

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I have a real problem. Their are like ten boys that like me, and want to go out with me, and their all really nice. Idk what to do. Which one should i go out with?? I REALLY need help!!!!

YOU go out with the guy YOU want, you don't have to go out with the ten guys that just like you. If choosing one, choose the one you think is best for you, trusting, sweet, funny, etc. Good luck girl!! Much love && sunshine!

Neely

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hello..
random question but i was wondering if anyone knows of any exercises for thighs?
thanks!

Okay I know a good one that my beauty pageant friend taught me!

What you do is you lay on the floor on you side.

Lets say ur laying on your left side.

cross your right leg over your left

lift the right leg and move up and down 20 times then keep it up for 10 seconds then down 20 fast ones.

do the same thing on the other side except cross your right leg over your left and move your left!

It works great but its a killer!!

Hope I helped!! Much love && sunshine!! Neely ♥

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i am a 16 year guy. i was wondering if you could tell me what i need to do when i'm grind dancing with a girl. thanks

Okay well its quite simple really. The way we do it here is usually the guy is behind the girl and he will grab her waist and be close to each other and basically touch each other while dancing. Mostly its just fast dancing with touching each others parts. Haha simple as that, just dance and have fun!! Hope I helped you out! Much love && sunshine!
Neely ♥

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Over the last couple of years my breasts have increased from a C cup to a D cup. I would be okay with this if they weren't fat boobs. I feel like there's a difference. Does anyone know of any excersizes for your chest, pectorals or whatever, so that maybe my breasts will lift some and look better? Thanks!

Okay what you need to work on is your pectorals.
Some simple excercises would be the dreadful PUSH UPS! I know they stink but theyre great for that area!

Go to this website:
http://www.muscle-building-weight-loss-programs.com/womens-chest-workouts.html

it has some good pectoral workouts for women!

I hope I helped you out girl!! Much love && sunshine!
Neely ♥

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