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theres this guy im crushing on sooooooooo bad its not even funny. but wen ever i talk to him, i get wicked nervous and always end up saying the wrong thing and wierding him out! HELP ME I NEED TIPS
don't worry this is perfectly normal it happens to me a lot :/ but i will give you a few tips to try to help you out...
*try to relax when you try to talk to him and tell ur self he is just like everyone else
*maybe get his email or screen name and you can talk to him on there and then advance to phone later on and then you will be more comfortable talking in person
*find out what stuff he does and what you have in common with him so you have something to talk about and you don't start just saying stuff
*this might sound stupid but try to wing it completly so it doesn't feel like you have to say something perfectly like so
I really really really hope this helps you but i really have to go for now just email me some time my email is xSummerSparklex@aim.com sorry i had to go just don't worry about it and pertend you are talking to your best friend, bye
>>> SparkleAngel
hey. my best friend is gone until the end of summer. i been crying all day and night to have him/her here with me. please tell me what i should do .. to stop all of this>
x0xo muchly,
annoymus
well there are many different answers depending if its a girl or boy or if you like-like them but since I don't know i will try but if it doesn't help re send me an advice thing saying that if you like them or if its a girl or boy and your age cause that normaly helps a little with the advice......(im assuming your a girl so sorry if i am wrong)
~*Your a girl and so are they*~
well...can't you call her on the phone don't worry she will be back soon enought you are probably just feeling like you lost your friend but you didn't she is just going to be gone for the summer, hang out with some other friends it might amke you feel better, call you friend on the phone, or send her a letter, hope it helps!
if you aren't a girl and they aren't either send me another advice thingy or email me at xSummerSparklex@aim.com sorry i couldn't help much i just need to know the details first so i can help better :D
i have a boyfriend, and well we've been going out for a while. i used to really really like him. and i still do, just not like like. but see the thing is theres another boy. who is amazing. i feel so comfortable around him. we talk about anything, we always tell eachother the truth. and well my boyfriend is really really nice, and he really likes me still. im afarid to dump him, cause if i do he will be hear broken. im not dumping him for the other boy, i just dont think its right to go out with some one you dont like. PLEEEEZ HELP ME im so confused anythign will be amazingly aprecciated!! THANK YOU SO MUCH
well....ooo this one is hard, um well, you should probably think about what one you like more for a while then after you can decide who you would go with and you should really give in some thought of dumpping him for the other boy because I think you should go out with someone who you like more if I were you I probably would dump your boyfriend and ask out the other one because like you said the other boy makes you feel amazing but when you dump your boy friend really sound sorry because he will feel more hurt if you don't and tell him that you just want to be friends try to explain in the nicest way as possible that you can't go out with him anymore he may be a little hurt but that is the only way pretty much besides going out with both which will make a bigger mess because they will find out I really hope i hellped AIM me sometime if you need anymore help my sn is xSummerSparklex I really hope it works out for you :D (you can also email me at xSummerSparklex@aim.com)
>>> SparkleAngel
13/f
i have been friends with this guy for about a year. he's really cool and all, and i consider him my guy best friend, and i guess he considers me his girl best friend. we have a lot of things in common, and we talk about all anything. from sports to music to girls and all that stuff. one time we talked in AIM for 8 hours straight! the last time i talked to him, before he left for vacation, we talked about how we talked for 8 hours straight. [[it's always been random things that we talk about]] and somewhere along the line of conversation, i said something like, "well, i wouldn't wanna waste your time talking to me."
here's a quick scene from that conversation::
HIM: oh come on. you're one of the only people i could talk to for 8 hours and love it
ME: uh-huh
HIM: yeaah. why do you think that it would be a waste of time for me?
ME: i don't know... maybe you have better things 2 do?
HIM: now why would i talk to you for so long if i had better things to do? i talked to you for 8 hours because i love talking to you
ME: i guess... lol... this is turning into one of those "aw" moments
HIM: hahahahahaha. sure i guess. just being
honest
i thought it was REALLLY sweet of him to say that. since then i've been feeling like i like him more than a friend. i heard that he kinda likes someone, but i'm not sure who it is. i don't really wanna tell him that i like him, because i don't wanna put our friendship in jeopardy. i'm thinking of just waiting to see if he'll ask me out. maybe not anytime soon, but hopefully when i still like him. should i? we don't go to the same school anymore. we used to, but his parents wants him to go to this other school so that he has a better chance of him getting into this high school that i'm hoping to get into, too. i really miss him, and even though i talk to him more than anybody else, i still feel like it's not enough. what should i do?
well a little thing to do is when your around him drop little hints but not big ones if you want to drop big ones start out really small, he probably likes you too but just is to shy to ask you out after you drop a few hints after a while if he doesn't get the picture and ask you out just try to ask him out cause there is nothing to lose, your friend ship might get a little jumbled but hopefully after it will go back in place i hope it helps
>>> SparkleAngel
Hey im 15/f i just got braces a little over a month ago.. and before i got braces i was really outgoing and was always wanted to be the center of attention. But now that i have braces i've noticed that i dont want to be that anymore because of my braces.. i guess im self consious.. Is there anything i can tell myself or do to make me become less self consious and be myself again? Any advice would help! thanks
well it doesn't really matter what you have on you teeth or stuff just as long as you stay your normal self just be your self and soon you won't care about having braces its probaby just because you just got them i hope i helped
>>> SparkleAngel
i dont have alot of money to go out n by new clothes n new jewely.im 13 n my mom doesnt give me money. does anyone have any fahsion tips for old things or makeing jewly?? Thanx
i don't know much about the clothes sorry but the jewerly i do, okay i know really easy ways to make professinal looking earrings, necklaces, or bracelettes, okay go to a craft store like A.C. MORE and you can by wires for jewerly and special earring wires and then you can buy really cool beads and put them on its really hard to expain just go on google or something and you will probaby find something I really hope i helped
:D
do you think that the song "Daughters" by John Mayer is a good father/daughter dance song for the father/daughter dance during a wedding reception?
opinions are much appreciated!! thanks!
totaly that is a perfect song
Okay, theres this guy, that i talk to on myspace, and we go to school togeather, and i talk to him there to.
ANYWAY, whenever we talk, we always end up "fighting" but its SOOOO fun to fight with him, and i just love annoying him, and he's the same way with me.
My friends say that this is flirting, but i dont see how it is. Cause were just pretty much arguing...
Anyway, I really like him, and i'm not so sure if he likes me, but he can be a real jerk.
So, the quistion is, should i go after him, even though he seems to only like to use me to argue with?
~Melissa~
well it is sorta true fighting is sort of like flirting if you keep on doing it with this boy and i would go after him but first i would try not to argue for once and see what happens see if you can see the true "persons name here" if he still is a jerk you might realize that you don't like him as much anymore so just do that and if you still like him go for it girl
>>> SparkleAngel
I have a lil pot belly and its bugging me i dont eat fast food junk food or anything.. i eat healthy and i have been eating healthy for 3 years and i dont just sit around all day doing nothing im an active person i do hip hop dancing and i have been doin it for years and i could of imagined that my belly would have flattened by then but it hasnt.. its not noticable to others because i look skinny to them because of my height and stuff but my belly is the only thing thats kinda fat on me.. i have tried everything to get rid of it but nothing has seemed to work.. i know i shouldnt care about it because its not like a gross huge belly its just a lil one.. so please if you would people what else is there for me to do to get rid of it please help it would make me happy
thank you
it might be because of your relitives people who have relitives that are a little over weight or fat (no offence) might have some of it in their genes that might be why you have a "lil pot belly" i hope that helps try doingcrunches becuase they are good for that area hope it helps
>>> SparkleAngel
what are some dream sites that explain what your dreams mean?
http://www.dreammoods.com/
http://www.dreammoods.com/reference/sitemap.htm
http://www.neopets.com/~_Ginger_Love_
and
http://www.scorpiosattic.com/ashlie/Dreams/DreamDecoder.html
hope they help
Okay I am 15 and I am very devout, although I'm catholic I follow the belifs in general of Chritianity. I have had a connection with God. This year it was on and off all the time. In may I went to Quebec and Saw the Basillica of Saint Anne de Beaupre(people claim its were heaven and earth meat) and upon entering the church, I felt something and upon entering the main part of the church I felt something and I felt a strong connection to god. Since tyhen the connection is lost. I feel empty now unless in a sancutary. Do any of you (christians only please) know how I can streghten my connection with god>
go to a camp that has to do with god read more about him and pray more then you do maybe if you do those things it will make you feel closer with him tell him stuff you would tell your friends or stuff you can't tell anyone i hpoe it helps
>>> SparkleAngel
okay well i really like this guy and i know that he likes me and we are both really shy none of my friends know that i like him.Its summer and what do i do when i go back to school and see him again
go for it if he probably would ask you out but he is to shy too it doesn't matter what your friends think just go for it if you want to then go girl go I hope it works out between you two it is sure too
>>> SparkleAngel
Dear person,
Please help me! Me and this girl were best friends but then she flipped out just cause we wanted to hang out with this girl at a camp trip to this beach. She swore to my other friend and i told her to calm down once i found out, but then she got evan madder (like always). I said i believed my other friend about her swearing and she took what i said (cause i told her on aim) and mixed it up saying that i believd her and not my other friend. Then she sent it to my nice friend (the mixed version) I talked to her weeks l;ater and she acted like nothing ha[ppened. I told her i felt that we shoudnt be friends. Was my choice ok?
well, i don't really know about your choice because its your life but if i was you i would probably forgive the girl because you should try to like move on (not being mean) because everyone makes mistakes in life, i bet she acted like nothing happened because she thought that the fight would be over by then and you guys would be friends again i hpoe you guys get back together becuase you seem like a really great person, that girl should have never flipped out on you or swore to the other friend, so kaitrin i am really sorry really truly sorry and i want to be friends again, i can't stop thinking about the good times we had and I really miss you
i am 13 years old and i want to find a way that i can make alot of money fast. i already babysit for this one family that gives me $60 dollars every time i come. i want to be able to make money by not doing alot of work. please help.
what you could do is have like a yard sale and sell like really salty (needs a drink) food then set up a dink stand because if you have that kind of food people will want a drink then try not to spend that much money you might not realize it but that might also be your problem you might be spending all your money you could also find new clients and start charging a little higher as you get more friendly with them well you can't really do it that fast but you will get more money even try having a bake sale or a like daycare I hope i helped
>>> SparkleAngel
My bestfriend moved far away in the begining of the summer. I used to do everything with her without realizing that I only hung out with her and never made an effort to hang out with anyone else. Everyone else has their own cliques and groups of friends I sit home everyday on the computer with nothing to do. I feel like my life is going to waste what should I do to put my life back together and become popular with other friends?
what you should do is start hanging out with other people and maybe they will become your friends and their friends will also become yours, that once happened to me and i felt like i was doomed but everything was fixed after school started again I got never friends and my life was better, just try to find some similar intrests with people that are in your school next year and maybe call them up and hang out before school
okay.. well this is a huge problem for me and has been going on for a while now but is getting worse.. for the past two days ive been eating almost nonstop & its hard for me to stop when i do.. its crazy.. im normally not like this.. i dont know what to do. ive tried everything.. it might be lack of sleep but then again how do all those movie stars that maybe get 4 hours of sleep & hardly eat!! I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT TO DO AND REALLY NEED HELP WITH THIS.
p.s. im thinking maybe its just im so bored!! i dont know what to do.
there are many reasons why you might be doing this...
1. bored
2. stressed
3. upset
4. worried
and more.....if you want to stop eatting so much food then you have to find out what the problem is try when ever you feel like eatting go read or watch TV or go out side if you keep on doing that eventually you won't have to and you won't be eatting so much food, if it is because your stressed, upset, worried, or whatever find out what its about and after you find the problem try to fix it and maybe you will stop eatting a lot...hope i help
>>> SparkleAngel
I used to go out with this guy named Josh. I loved him so much, & when he broke up with me -- I thought EVERYTHING would change. & I never thought I'd find myself in this position.
But now I met this new guy named Ralph, and whenever we go out on dates, or if we just talk on the phone, I always unfortunetly find myself comparing Josh to him. & How great Josh was, and the little things he did that Ralph doesn't do.
I don't want to do that anymore & it's really getting on my nerves. I won't be going back out with Josh again, but I can't help but think about how perfect he treated me, and then I just compare which really sucks.
Is it wrong to compare?
Does anyone else do it? I don't want to feel like soo horrible about it, but I just think I'm trying to get over Josh.
Thanksss.
its pretty natrual to compare it is just because maybe you just can't stop remebering all teh good times but if you guys broke up that means there is someone way better out there just waiting to be found eventually you will slow down on the comparing just don't worry about it I know many people who do that too
>>> SparkleAngel
Look my dog sally is sick and dieing. Everyone says don't worry but i can't help but worry. Help me
I am really sorry, what you should do is write down all the happy memories and spend a lot of time with her i know you might feel sad but you should do it anyway, I really hope she will be fine and i bet she will I will try tto help you more on AIM my sn is xSummerSparklex if you don't have one email me at xSummerSparklex@aim.com I am the biggest worry wart in the whole world i worry about everything like anything possible I hope you have an AIM screen name so i can try to help you more and (well u know what i mean) it will be alright
>>> SparkleAngel
I was at my friend lillys house for her 15th birthday with a few other people. Everything was great we were doing manicures and making prank calls. But then it got really late and everyone got a sugar rush and were bouncing off the walls it was crazy! Well I was sitting on top of Lillys dresser next to her cousin Jenna and all of the sudden Jenna started rubbing my feet and telling me how soft my skin was....it really weirded me out. Everyone laughed like it was a joke...but it didnt seem like a joke to her. She looked kinda like my boyfriend does right after we make out. Should I be weirded out by this? I'm going to her house again on tuesday and her cousin will be there, and I'm kinda scared...should I be? Hellllp!
some people can fake expresions like that that is probably waht happened she was most likely joking around and added the fake expresion for a touch she was just trying to freak you out, if she acts like that when you go over her house you tell her to stop and she keeps on doing it leave hope it helps
>>> SparkleAngel
If you want to move to another country, would you find a house and a job in the area, or a job and a house in the area? Why?
Thank you.
well you should try to find a house frist becuase if you find a job then you don't find a house your introuble but you should try to be looking for both at the same time but mostly houses then after you get one focus more on jobs