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crush?
Okay, theres this guy, that i talk to on myspace, and we go to school togeather, and i talk to him there to.
ANYWAY, whenever we talk, we always end up "fighting" but its SOOOO fun to fight with him, and i just love annoying him, and he's the same way with me.
My friends say that this is flirting, but i dont see how it is. Cause were just pretty much arguing...
Anyway, I really like him, and i'm not so sure if he likes me, but he can be a real jerk.
So, the quistion is, should i go after him, even though he seems to only like to use me to argue with?
~Melissa~
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well it is sorta true fighting is sort of like flirting if you keep on doing it with this boy and i would go after him but first i would try not to argue for once and see what happens see if you can see the true "persons name here" if he still is a jerk you might realize that you don't like him as much anymore so just do that and if you still like him go for it girl
>>> SparkleAngel
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no. you shouldn't. a healthy relationship is arguing all the time. you guys will both end up frustrated.
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If you guys are arguing and you're not even dating, then chances are it isn't going to work out for very long when you do start dating. It might get worse for you two if you're together because you'll probably be spending more time together and that would be more time to get on each others nerves. Even if you like it now, it could get old after awhile.
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Sweetie, dont kid yourself. Its not "just pretty much arguing." You said it yourself, you like this guy. Have you thought that maybe this is the one thing right now that you have in common with this guy? and that you might just be capitalizing on it? To me, it seems thats the only thing you two have in common (the arguing). So, instead of arguing. Why not ask him about his day? What does he like? Favorite food? etc. It seems that you guys are just struggling to get eachother's attention, and I would bet that he likes you too, hence he continues with the flirting, I mean arguing. lol. You could come out two ways out of this, annoyed or with a new boyfriend. Its up to you.
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You know what Meli you should try to get ideas if he likes you. For example, when you talk to him have intimite question or personal question however you want to call it. But anyways ask him personal question. Ask him questions you know he wouldn't tell other people and keep it to himself and if he tells you little by little about his life and the way he grew up and things like that you are in. Then try to stop the agruing even though it might be fun jejejj. And try to once in a while hug him and just be a little flirty with him and if he acts the same with you. You will know right away if he likes you bACK OR NOT
i HOPE THIS COULD HELP YOU
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If you end up fighting, as in playing. Then yeah, you all probably like each other. I am an expert on flirting. [so i've been told] And that is how I flirt with people I usually dont know very well. If he is talking to you on on myspace and at school, then he is thinking about you over other people. That is always a plus.
The reason that your friends are calling it flirting is becuase you all probably go 'out of your way' to agrivate each other. Am I right?
Most guys are jerks, so dont worrie about that. But if he is ALWAYS a jerk, then we have got a problem here. But if its only like a few times a month. Its ok. Hes a guy, and he will make mistakes. :]
But to answer your offical question, yes. I do think you should go for him. Hope I have helped :]
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ok, yes it is flirting, unless you are truly angry at him after you fight. And yes, guys can be ballsy jerks, but thats guys, and as god wanted, we fall for em. (sucks, huh?) Anyway, make him know you are way better than him. You are totally awesome, and if you think he likes you, don't scratch it. Guys don't like girls chasing them. Become his good friend, and if he wants you, he'll ask, it's not natural for girls to ask guys out. Besides, you deserve somebody who wants you, and, it saves you rejection. Maybe he just likes annoying you? honestly, it is for you to decide what you should do, if anything at all. Please let me know if my advice helped you!
M.J.
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