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My mom won't let me date till I'm 18 whicu basically is never cause once I'm 18 I can date anyways so its never I want to tell her 13 is a good age but I'm too scared of a NO and I just need advice on how to tell her and what I should tell her like reasons point and ideas please help I do not want to get my first bf and 30 or my first kiss at 28 please help me...
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I'm almost 14, and I have already started dating. See, it took me a while, but you have to get them to trust you. Then... You have to pick good places to go. Moms don't like movies, and cool places. Stick with the mall and school to start. Tell your mom the mall is a public place, constantly surrounded by people. Fight saying, movies are dark, and usually independant from other movie goers. Once your mom starts trusting you, and you have already hung out at the mall, try bringing the guy to the house, and stay in non-private areas of the house. Get your mom to warm up to the guy. Then go to the movies. Ask her if she wants to go, either to see a different movie at the same time, or the same as yours not the same row though. She'll finally declare you responsible. After a while, she'll stop caring, and start trusting you. And if you're boyfriend has a problem, show you're mom you're responsible, and dump him. if he can't deal with family he isn't worth it. Hope I helped!
Krystal :)
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im 15/f
okay so i have a boyfriend, lets call him "Mark". We just started going out like couple weeks ago. The thing is that we were BEST friends before we started going out and now that we go out, I cant see him as my boyfriend... just a friend.
So, theres this guy, lets call him "Joe". Well, Joe likes me. He wanted to go out with me before Mark asked me out but I said I wanted to get to know him more. Well, now I've gotten to know Joe more and I really like him too.
I know if I break it off with Mark and go out with Joe, things will definitly not be the same as they were. But I really just cant see myself in a relationship with Mark.
So what should I do? Stick with Mark or go for Joe?
Please Help! Thanks in Advance! (link)
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ok, you can't go out with Mark, if there isn't anything there. No spark means no relationship. If you have kissed this mark guy, then it'll take a little more work explaining to him that it's not working for you. He's your friend, you shuld tell him, that you want to be his friend, but the relationship isn't working out. Then, after, give some landing time before you talk to this joe dude. If mark and you are cool after, make sure you don't neglect mark!
hope i helped!
M.J. :)
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i met this guy at orientation for work and we hitit off from the start aftr a lil bit of talkin he asked me out and after that everything seemed so perfect i loved spending time with him and talkin to him everything about him was perfect to me( i know there is no such thing) Out of nowhere he broke up with me today... i didnt see it coming at all... i thought he was happy...i dont know what to do i have been cryin since he dumped me... (link)
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i respect everything the guy below me said, but..... i honestly think you deserve the facts of why he broke up w/ you. it'll be hard getting over him, especially if you don't know what happened in the first place. Oh, and, if he begs you on his hands and knees, to take him back, say no! I'm not saying it will happen, but if it does...take it from somebody who has been there, done that. If he dumped you once, he doesn't deserve a second chance.
Let me know if I helped!
M.J.
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do you have to be a certain age to have an ebay account? (link)
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i dont think you have to, just a credit card, or a guardian that has a credit card. And if you are supposed to be a certain age, my dad lets me use his account!
HoPe I cOuLd HeLp!
M.J.
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ok..
so theres this guy whos liked me since 7th grade or w/e. and he wants to go out. but just today he said " well im only 16, i wanna experience a little more before i go out with you because i have a feelings we'd go out a long time, we have that chemistry" i said ok fine like a dumbass.. then i said id wait for him and give him time..
SHOULD I WAIT!?!?!??! or just be like either me or not. (link)
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I would never ever ever ever wait for someone, unless he had to go visit family or go to war, or something that means something. he's treating you like you aren't a person but a pet. you are a living human being, don't you ever take that from no one! You deserve better than that low-life player, and you should tell him so!
Show me I helped by leaving feedback!
M.J.
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I saw You, Me & Dupree today and it was rated PG-13. At one point in the movies, Dupree said the F word. Since when is that word allowed to be in PG-13 movies? (link)
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honestly, the world today is out of control, my friend's little sister is 9, and she's already made-out w/ like 3 people! i think the world is going somewhere other than a happy place. I can't do anything but sit back and watch, as teenage people are having kids, and making porn movies, but what else can we do?
M.J.
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im 16f and all my friends go out with lads...but i seem the only one not 2...i havent had my first kiss yet and that makes me feel more down and like that no one would ever want me (yes i no its sounds stupid but thats how i feel) i talk to lads but they dont seem interested or anyone who does like me are ugly and i dont like them or there too young...
is there a way too make lads like me or talk to me more often so they start to like me ?
(sorry if its confusing) xox (link)
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i am only 14, but i haven't had my first kiss yet, and you deserve yours with someone who truly likes you. Do stuff to make you feel better, like getting your hair and nails done. Confidence does make guys notice you. put more attitude into your everyday life! Don't be artificial though! Please tell me if my advice helped you!
M.J.
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Okay, theres this guy, that i talk to on myspace, and we go to school togeather, and i talk to him there to.
ANYWAY, whenever we talk, we always end up "fighting" but its SOOOO fun to fight with him, and i just love annoying him, and he's the same way with me.
My friends say that this is flirting, but i dont see how it is. Cause were just pretty much arguing...
Anyway, I really like him, and i'm not so sure if he likes me, but he can be a real jerk.
So, the quistion is, should i go after him, even though he seems to only like to use me to argue with?
~Melissa~ (link)
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ok, yes it is flirting, unless you are truly angry at him after you fight. And yes, guys can be ballsy jerks, but thats guys, and as god wanted, we fall for em. (sucks, huh?) Anyway, make him know you are way better than him. You are totally awesome, and if you think he likes you, don't scratch it. Guys don't like girls chasing them. Become his good friend, and if he wants you, he'll ask, it's not natural for girls to ask guys out. Besides, you deserve somebody who wants you, and, it saves you rejection. Maybe he just likes annoying you? honestly, it is for you to decide what you should do, if anything at all. Please let me know if my advice helped you!
M.J.
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lately ive just been so FED UP with my appearance i hate looking in the mirror because its not what i want to see =( everyone else is so much prettier than me or thats what i think. my hair bugs me it never stays right i wish i was tanner i wish i was everything else..
i know im not DEPRESSED or i dont think so but maybe just jealous of every other girl. and i really like this kid but he has a girlfriend and it kills me everytime i hear her name because i know that i cant have him
also my parents have been telling me that i need to go do other things rather than come home go on the computer go to my cousins (my best friends house) and then when i get home get back on the computer! they are telling me i need to get out of the house and go with my other friends but the only problem is i dont have many OTHER close friends i can hangout with..
my life just seems to be going completely wrong.
ahh! what do i do? i cant live like this anymore.. (link)
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honestly, you sound alot like me. I had friends, but they were so much skinnier, and prettier than me. They also commented "that i was way too ugly for him!" when i was caught staring at a boy. Well, as a confidence booster, i saved up to do stuff for myself, like getting my nails done, or getting a new hair do. It works! When I went back to school, people noticed i was more confident, and had a whole new attitude. i made a lot of friends like that, and not the artificial kind, friends i could count on. Please let me know if my advice helped you!
M.J
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when answering a question why does age play such a big factor. like for instance that 16/f that wanted a baby. i saw that everyone was like your too young,but who says that she wont make a great mother. and know one knows her living situation or money or anything.. it really doesnt say people just assume they know. it tells her to wait till shes 18. i bet there are 18 year olds out there that are much worse off than she is or wont be as good as of mother as she is. so maybe she is 16.. do you think we should just make assumptions about people like that? or would it better to know more about the person before answering? (link)
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Well, I thought about that too. But, I figured out why it is important to tell how old you are. Okay, say a young girl, about 12 asks why she has white goo in her underwear. You would tell her that it is just discharge. But a woman of about 30 who had the same question could have a major health problem she isn't mentioning. You wouldn,t tell her it is discharge, because you wouldn't know what it is because she would be too old to have the discharge.
Now, the girl that wants a baby at 16, really should wait until she is 18. We don't know her living conditions, but she might go to school. she should wait until she finishes school. If she wants a baby, she should have it with the right person. Has she found him/her? How do her parents think about it. Does she have parents. What about the baby? Does she have good living conditions? Is she healthy? Is there anyway the baby will be born with aids or heart problems? Does she need to adopt?
We don't know, that is why we tell her to wait, and get tests, or decide what would be right for her and the baby. We do the best we can on what info we get from our questions.
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How do you hook up the 100 dollar Kodak Easy share cameras to the computer to load them? I don't have a docker. I have one wire that you're supposed to hook up the Camera to the computer with, but where on the back of the computer do you hook it up too? I didn't read the directions because I want to take the easy way out.
Thank you :) - Adrianna, 15
Oh and I don't know if this helps but, I do have a memory card. (link)
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You probably plug it in where you plug a printer in. Look at the shape of the plug on the camera.
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M.J.
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I don't understand what I DON'T have that guys (in middleschool) would want! They are always going out with girls that are completely outgoing! I'm not COMPLETELY outgoing, but I am a little crazy sometimes. I wouldn't say I'm ugly or anything. I mean even my friends who are ugly get really cute and nice guys. I have a few guy friends, but I don't really know them even THAT well. They only open up to the outgoing crazy girls! WHAT IS WRONG WITH IMMATURE GUYS IN MIDDLE SCHOOL?!?! (link)
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Number one, you just gave yourself an answer. Guys are immature, ESPECIALLY in Middle school. I've seen relationships in the fourth grade that are more serious than middle school ones are. I would wait, and find somebody right, not just some dumb guy that is completely stupid. I don't want you to take any offense in what I just said, and I probably won't have any more guys visit my column, but really, you know they are immature.
signed,
M.J.
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I dont really have friends and I know its all about conversation but I kinda get stuck on what to talk about. I dont do anything during vacations or weekends. What should I do to get me communicating better (link)
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If I were you, I would watch more t.v., and see what people are into. Think about commercials that are actually being advertised as something people want to do, or own. You can even save up some money, and buy a magazine that gives you updates on fashion and stars.
signed,
M.J.
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so im going to a co-ed sleepover for new years. and we did the same thing for homecoming, it was fun but this time around i want it to be awesome. any ideas for things to do? im open to ANY suggestions. thank you!!! (link)
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I know it sounds seriously babish, but truth or dare is what makes my parties hits. I come up with some seriousily weird dares, and awesome questions. It rocks, even though a lot of people grow out of it.
M.J.
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i am a freshman in high school and in the marching band. at the beginning of the school year i heard that this senior thought i was hot. about a week later he came up and talked to me, he said it was blown out of porportion but that he did think that i was pretty and that he wanted to get to know me. i never responded. but now i have a huge crush on him and i am scared to go up and ask him if he is still interested in getting to know me. i see him every day because we have band practice everyday after school. i just dont want to get involved with him and then he leaves for college. should i talk to him if so what should i say?? (link)
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Yeah, I would say, give it a shot, you never know what'll happen. I mean, you could have a cool friendship.
M.J.
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Im sick and i have been for the last 3 days...I dont knw wat i have and i would really like to knw so maybe i can treat it and get better b4 christmas eve/christmas day. here are my symptoms: sore throat, stuffy nose, headache, coughing, stiff neck, getting the chills when i dont take medicine like tylenol for awhile,and not being able to sleep. my mom wont take me to the doctor, the thing that i would love to be without is the sore throat all the other stuff i can deal with. wat should i do?
thnx i rate 5 to anyone who tries! (link)
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pkay, im guessing it is a cold, or a small flu bug. I recommend drinking a lot o.j. and getting a lot of bed rest. Stuff that you would normally do when you have a cold. Stay very warm, and maybe have an icepack on your head if it is burning. I get sick around the holidays, even on my birthday! I am used to it, so i hope my advice helps you.
signed,
M.J.
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okay for a while (long while actually) ive had this white sticky, weird stuff in my underwear... its been about a year or so maybe less... and i havnt had my period yet... idk what to do? and what is it?? ill rate 5! (link)
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It is called discharge, and you will get it before you get your period. You probably feel wet down there, and I would recommend a pantyliner, untill you actually get your period. Good Luck,
M.J.
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i really like this guy. and i know he likes me. The thing is he is black and some are my friends are acting weird about that. i mean i don't see anything wrong with it. Is there something wrong with a white female dating a black male?? (link)
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No!No!No!
It is perfectly natural for a woman to be attracted to a man, no matter what his color may be. I see nothing wrong with it. I think though that you need to talk to your friends about it, because I can tell that that be one 1 of the things that is a buggin them.
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M.J.
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Hey guys,
I was wondering if anyone on here has gotten a tattoo around their bellybutton before. I really really want to get one there, but my older sis is telling me I have to be able to make my stomach tight or something like that? Is that true? Or does she not know what shes talking about? If anyone has it done, please let me know how much it hurt and if my sister's comment is even true or not. By the way, I already have one tattoo. It's on my lower back. I'm very good with pain. Thank you so much. If anyone has pics of nice tattoos for around your bellybutton, you can show them if you want. (link)
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okay, i don't want to offend you, but tattoos, when you get older, they get all wrinkly and messed up. I can understand an ankle, a back, or even a shoulder tatto, but in MY opinion, a belly tattoo will get all flabby later.....
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M.J.
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I really don't like to eat -- I think it's a waste of time and I have always thought that. I eat the bare minimum to survive. Sometimes I get problems (headaches, mental confusion, memory loss, hysteria) because of my blood sugar dropping to nothing because I haven't eaten. I don't think I'm fat or anything, and my weight, which is within normal limits, has been basically the same since I was 14 (I'm 20 now, and female, incidentally). There are only about 12 foods I like and maybe another 12 I can eat but don't like -- the rest I will not touch no matter how hungry I am. Oh, and when I do eat, about half the time I get really sick later, not on purpose, very painful and embarrassing diarrhea and gas problems.
I honestly don't think it's that big a deal, I'm used to it, but my friends are disturbed by my behavior when they eat with me, or rather when they eat and I pick at my food. Do I have an eating disorder or is it just a quirk? (link)
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in MY opinion, i think you need to see someone who can help you. Whats happening to you shouldn't and can PROBABLY cause problems later. You definitely need tot see someone, because-no offense- but what you are doing is unhealthy.
signed,
M.J.
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