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racial differences??


Question Posted Thursday December 22 2005, 6:16 pm

i really like this guy. and i know he likes me. The thing is he is black and some are my friends are acting weird about that. i mean i don't see anything wrong with it. Is there something wrong with a white female dating a black male??

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tasuki answered Thursday December 29 2005, 12:41 pm:
No, of course not. Hold your head high and don't listen to them. It's your relationship, not theirs, and if they're too prejudiced to see that then you need to find some new friends.

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xOx_LoOvE_xOx answered Tuesday December 27 2005, 6:12 pm:
Noo !! there is nothing wrong with liking a boy or girl with oppisite race than you. You should tell your friends what bothers then about your "crush". Sometimes people like that get on my nerves.


♥xOx_LoOvE_xOx

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dreamist16 answered Sunday December 25 2005, 1:12 pm:
no! deep down your both people and i HATE! racial people, so it doesnt matter what color he is so i think your friends are jelouse that you will get a bf and so they think that you wont hang with them as much anymore.
so i think you should go in for the taking!

hih!
dreamist16

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Nevaeh314 answered Saturday December 24 2005, 3:21 pm:
There's nothing wrong with that at all. As for your friends, I'm sure they're not racist. It's simply been proven that there's certain brain reactions that attract a person to a person of their same race. If you like him and he likes you, then you don't need to worry about anything, and your friends will get over it.
Love,
Nevaeh

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yankee_girl answered Friday December 23 2005, 8:19 pm:
No there's nothing wrong with that. You should date whoever you want to, and don't care about what other people think. It's your life.

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wjpool answered Friday December 23 2005, 8:11 pm:
no it does not matter at all color is color not a type of person its a color and it doesnt matter. if your friends act weird then they are nothing special they should be happy with it becasue they should be happy for you. happiness is something a person needs and soemtimes it takes a long time for people to be truly happy and if you think you will be happy dont wait go for it!!!

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TheHeadHonchoPoncho57 answered Friday December 23 2005, 8:06 pm:
Absolutely nothing wrong with it. You know, race is very insignificant. There are just human beings who live in different parts of the planet, and the color of their skin simply adapts to the climate. People put way more emphasis on race than they should. Saying "you can't date a dark-skinned person" is just like saying "you can't date someone with a long nose/small eyes/big mouth/whatever." Ignore your friends, hun. Go ahead and date whoever you want

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advicegodesses2 answered Thursday December 22 2005, 11:18 pm:
no sweetie there is nothing wrong liking a black guy. My boyfriend is black and i'm white some of my friends don't agree with it but i don't let that bother me. if they're really your friends they shouldn't care about what race you date.

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M.J. answered Thursday December 22 2005, 10:44 pm:
No!No!No!
It is perfectly natural for a woman to be attracted to a man, no matter what his color may be. I see nothing wrong with it. I think though that you need to talk to your friends about it, because I can tell that that be one 1 of the things that is a buggin them.
signed,
M.J.

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xOx_BRUN3TT3_xOx answered Thursday December 22 2005, 8:25 pm:
No hun there is nothing wrong with that !!

[♥] Samra

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ThugGirl041790 answered Thursday December 22 2005, 8:15 pm:
Def No. i know you got alot of answers on this but i have to have a say so too.. My boyfriend is black as well.. Alot of people gave us stares and stuff and still do just ignore do what makes you happy.. Nothin worng with it..Its just another race ♥ Dez

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brokenagain answered Thursday December 22 2005, 7:55 pm:
Color is simply more than just that--a color--interracial dating is common and there is not a problem with it--the only problem with dating any man is you have to make sure they are good and not bad asses and they dont use you--but that is for any color man--lol-so no there is nothing wrong with it--if you like him you do what you feel not what your friends feel or think..good luck

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HectorJr answered Thursday December 22 2005, 7:52 pm:
Nothing wrong with that? Would it make a difference to you what color you or anyone else was if you were to go blind? I'm gonna guess the answer is no. If you really like him, then disreguard what others say - because friendship or relationship, its between the two of you, and not everyone else. I say go for it and don't let what other people say bring you down or let you think otherwise. Tolerance if the highest form of education. Hope that helped and good luck.

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DaNcE_In_ThE_RaIn answered Thursday December 22 2005, 7:50 pm:
No!!Not at all!!!!You should not let what other people think about you two keep you from dating him..

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chickadeela answered Thursday December 22 2005, 7:41 pm:
Absolutely not! Race has nothing to do with a relationship - though I will tell you that some people might (not really look down on you) but question your motives. However, DO NOT let this stop you - colour is only skin deep and once your friends get to know him they'll see what a great guy he is!

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xOViLLYxO answered Thursday December 22 2005, 7:33 pm:
nothing is wrong with that '`♥

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alwyztekn answered Thursday December 22 2005, 7:27 pm:
cant believe it is 1 week away from 2006, an this matter is STILL in someone's "Issue-Box"

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~ and Snap said to Crackle..."What's Poppin, Baby?!"~

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Teza answered Thursday December 22 2005, 7:13 pm:
There is nothing wrong with that. Color shouldn't matter but people will never learn that.

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Dannii_n_Channii answered Thursday December 22 2005, 6:47 pm:
Absoloutley not, why should their be??? Just because you don't have the same colour skin dosn't mean that you are from 2 totally different planets. If your friends really cared for you, theyed want you to be happy, not slating your boyfriend
Dannii and Chandler
xx xx

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GANGSTERx4SHURE answered Thursday December 22 2005, 6:44 pm:
Nope.Not at all. If you guys like each other than go for it. I know its hard to ignore what your friends say but try your best and explain to them that you guys are okay with it and hopefully they will understand and learn to exept it. //♥\

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cheburashka answered Thursday December 22 2005, 6:42 pm:
no, there's nothing wrong with that at all, it's just that some people are still a little prejudiced towards interracial relationships. don't worry about what your friends say but don't get mad at them for it - it's just the way they've been brought up because that's the way our society still is. if you really like that guy, go out with him and show others that you look past those shadowy rules that our society has set up.

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russianspy1234 answered Thursday December 22 2005, 6:35 pm:
no nothing wrong, although its not uncommon for parents to be against it.

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