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Q: hey im 13 and a female. i was wondering are looks an important part in a relationship? all my friends say it is but i think its a lil shallow.

**sleepiesheep**

ok you dont want to date a guy who is a total jerk that would be horrible you would end with a broken hert wich sucks but looks do count something you dont want to liek being makeing out with a guy that would be realy hard to do looks are not as important as the mind you dont want to date a guy who is totaly diffrent from you and u dont get alone but i am telling you looks do count for something hope i helped
-lindsey-

Q: Ok here we go. Ok im 16 and ive made a commitment to myself that i would never have sex until i am married. Im not saying now but in the future..can i still do stuff that wouldnt be considered having sex. and is that all guys want...i mean i had a bf for 2 and 1/2 weeks (not long) and he told his friends that he was going to have sex soon. I dont know y he thought that b/c i was uncomfortable even kissing him..(he was 2 yrs older) and im just worried that in the future ill find this amazing guy and all he'll want is sex and i wont give it to him (unless we get married) is that so hard for guys to handle...will he end up cheating on me and have sex w/ someone who will give it to him? so is there pleasureable stuff that we can still do ...thats not sex?

if the guy doesnt understadn and is not willing to wait he is not the righ tguy for you adn the whole sexual stuff it just depends what your morals are like i am the same even though i am only 13 things liek that happen and i hole my self back from all of it and i am determined to wait till after i am married hope i helped

Q: what exactly does it mean to be friends with benefits? like what is different about it than being b/f and g/f? thanks

it si basically uou can messs around with the person but you guys are not going out so he can go mess around with some one else or soemtiems they just do that becasue it is better adn makes them feel more comfortable

Q: ok there is this guy that i like but he is like 2 years younger than me cause im 15 and he is 13 and i dont know if i should go out with him cause it would be kinda weird cause we go to separt schools and the age difference so should i give him a change anyway ??

well the thing is any more it si alout like of coause guys dont grow up as fast as girls but 13 yr olds are realy growing up fast now compared to sometime ok if you realy realy liek this guy and he realy lieks u u could make it work becasue there are 13 yr old guys who dont act so little hope i helped
-lindsey-

Q: My boyfriend has had dreams about us having sex lately. of course I'm not ready for that. I have to get on the pill first but I don't know if I really want to do it. He wants me to come over to his house. Yeah his room can be locked and well, it's kinda isolated from his house...and he's usually alone. We've been going out for almost a year. I'm just...afraid. He wants to make out with me in my underwear. What should I tell him or do?

doing things you are not ready for can ruin relashonships and if you too have been goign out for 1 year then i realyt dont htink that you would want that uncomfortable feeling that could ruin a relshoship just explain to himm that right now you are not ready for it hope i helped
-lindsey-

Q: For Christmas my bf got me this necklace. I can't say I am dissapointed, don't get me wrong, I am so happy he got me something! And it is beautiful. The only thing is that it is a little formal. It has dimaonds all over the chain and stuff (I don't think they are real though). But my question is, should I wear it everytime I see him? It is a little formal to wear with a normal outfit like jeans and a tanktop. I wore it to a New Years party and he noticed that I was wearing it cause he said, "oh you are wearing it!" and was playing with it. Should I wear it to school? It just seems a little formal. Do you think he would care if I didn't? I sorta wish he would have gotten me something a little casual.
14/f

i think maybe u shoudl were it alout maybe not every day but it seems liek it means alout to him if u would so hope i helped

Q: okay well i know this guy Christian and hes so hot..funny..and nice...and i think im inlove?!!....but the problem is I used to be able to hang out with him but then my mom said i couldn't see him anymore because she thought he was a bad infuence..and that really made me mad...but like on the weekends usually ill go to a friends house and then we will go to the movies and he will go to...but like he gets really frustrated beacuse he can't see me or call my house..so he misses me..but i dont no what to do....should i just keep seeing him behind my moms back....HELP!
i rate!

talk to your mom with out freakin out on her and realy explain how much u liek him maybe tell your mom all of his achivments and he could talk to her toobut the big thing is to stress abot how much you like him well hope i helped tell em how it goes
-lindsey-

Q: Okay well my boyfriend and I have been going out for 1 month now. Well we're not very close and there are certain things i want him to do but i dont know how to tell him. Everyone says i should just tell him or whatever, but i dont want to. And i can't really hint at him because hes kind of oblivious sometimes lol. And im like not in his profile and when he signs on or i sign on im always the one to IM him. What should i do? How do i get the word across to him of what i want him to do? I just want him to you know hug me and you know...lol just be close with me. Yeah i know that sounds retarded. So I'll rate really high for good answers thanks soo much for your help ♥

you know what this is all ok SAME EXACT thing happend to me and me and my bf have been goign out for 2 months and he just made all the moves on me last night i now it is very very scary soemtiems ppl just get tired of waiting and make the move so if you are both sittign down scoot realy close to him to hint even if he doesnt get it u get a little bit of what you want adn also when you want to hug him suprise him with it and just go for it there is no reason he would freak if you gave him a hug hope i helped tell me how it goes

Q: I'm a freshman and I already had my first high school boy, "Tommy", he & I were perfect for each other, everyone thought we were gonna be high school sweethearts. We dated for almost 2 months, he had already told me he loved me and I truly loved him!
Later, he had heard some rumors about me that weren't true and he knew it, but instead, he listened to his friends. The next time we talked, he gave me a lame excuse and broke up with me. I was a mess, I cried myself to sleep for 2 weeks straight!
It's been about 2 months since we broke up, I felt like I was over him, but my close friend asked me if she could take "Tommy" to our winter formal. Now, I'm mad at myself for saying it was okay (she asked me if it was okay). Whenever I talk to her, I always get mad at myself for not saying no.
"Tommy" tries to make me jealous, but instead he makes me mad. He always asks me why I don't care about him anymore, he calls me and asks why I'm being so mean to him and stuff. I just don't care anymore!
How do I get over "Tommy"? I still love him, but I want to get over him so badly.

it is not easy at all it is a long painfull process and dotn be mad at your self for saying that she could go with him there are alout of cases were that has happend but its gonna hurt you bad to see them together and you probly do not want to loose her friend ship so put your foot down and talk to her about it then you guys can go on with your friendship hope i helped thanxs

Q: hey im a really horny girl.i think about sex a lot. im not a virgin. but my bf is and he thinks i am. what should i do.i dont want him to know. but we agreed to communicate. i want to be sexual with him but i dont know if he is ready. and i dont know what to do to tell him both things. im not a virgin adn that i watn to have sex. not becuz im horny cuz i no i love him. i didnt loose my viginity to willingness either. just to help. and i dont know if i want to tell him that. we have been dating a while. i was 13 when i raped then again wheni was 15. me and him have dated since i was 13 and i never told him. we r now 16. what should i do
ill rate so high
hearts

wow you have been through alout i think you shoudl talk to him becasue he has no reason to get mad at you its not liek you choose it to happen to you he'll understand well he shoudld hoep i helped

Q: hi. umm i am 13f and i havent started my period yet.. which is fine. but umm i am completely am totally flat. im not one of those girls with small boobs who just says shes flat. i really am quite literally FLAT. and i hate it. all of my friends (again, not exagerating) have boobs. how come i dont? will they ever come? because i do see adults sometimes that are flat. i really dont want to be like that. i have never had a boyfriend. my friends have. guys like girls with boobs. and dont say its not true. sorry huns, but uuh it is. guys used to like me in 5th grade and below because i am pretty, and then, nobody had boobs. but now that they do, im just a "little girl" compared to all of my friends. i really hate being flat. i dont know what i can do. obviously i cant magically make them appear.. but aah i hate it. i dont want to wear a padded bra because if someone bumps into me it will be obvious. what is a water bra? and wtf do i do????????
i rate 5. just pleease give me some good advice.

i knwo what kidn of situation youy are in excpet in a little diffrent form see im not flat i am HUGE and its not a good huge girl mostly think that they want big boobs but i undertsand and yea guys do liek boobs ppl often look at me and say that they want it but i here guys tlak about me and yea it hurts when guys say that my boobs are to big and if you havent started you period then there is your answer you will start to grow more mayeb when you are closer or actuly have started sorry if i didnt help wanted to tell you ur nto alone good luck

Q: Hi my parents found out I look at porn and they said they knew it was normal and stuff. Does this mean I should stop watching it?

if they said it was normal then dont worry about it but yea try to hide it a little more but it seems liek they are ok with it so its all good hope i helped good luck

Q: ok im 13/f and i dont know if im bi or not cuz like sometime si catch myself wanting to "do" things with girls and like i think gurls bodies are cute or "hot" and when i was 12 a girl hit on me went to kiss me and i DIDNT back away...please i dont know if im a lesbien or if girls are just like this please help me i rate REALLY high..thanks so much!

everyone kidna grows through a stage i went through it i was so scared that i was a lesbion but you intrested and you like to look at grown girls bodies to give you somethign to go on kinda liek a person you look up to you look up to girls bodies becasue they come in so many diffrent forms your intrested sorry if i didnt help good luck

Q: My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and a month, on Decemeber 15. We are always together, and I think that I love him. I know it's like, oh your a child you don't know what love is, but I really do believe that I am in love. We were laying on my bed on each other and I was thinking about how I love him, and I was about to tell him.. I asked him what he was thinking about, and he said, "I love you." It was like so strange though because I was just about to say the exact same thing, but anyways.. Wow, totally off topic. I'm 13, and whenever we are making out.. We get a little too into it, I suppose. Where it gets to the point when it's "dry sex", or having sex with your clothes on.. Yes, I know it's weird.. But, I feel the erge to want to have sex with him, and go farther, sexually. I am only in 7th grade, so of course I don't want to go that far.. All I have done with any guy is "feel up", because I refuse to go farther.. He was trying to finger me and I wouldn't let him. Basically, I am trying to ask..

Would it be wrong if I had sex with him?
I don't think I am ready, at all.
I could be wrong? Maybe, I am.
But - I am scared that next time we hook up that it will go a little too far.
And it's not like a 10 second hook up, it's more like 10 minutes.
Really, how far is "too far"?
I believe feel up is far enough for 7th grade.
But I'd love your views.

if you even have a doubt that you are not ready for it dont do it becasue beign vcery sexual for things you think you want but in the end it tears you up emotionally it can make you feel very uncomfortabel and if you liek this guy enough i dont think you would want to risk these feelings that can tear someoen up so much inside hope i helped good luck

Q: Whats The Legal Age To Have Sex

Thanks
Tami

yea there is no age but if you are above 18 adn are haveign sex with some oen under 18 and u get caught it is acounted as rape and you could get charges aganst you only if the person presses charges hope i helped

Q: Hey, I'm having people over, and I was trying to think of a good scary movie. Any ideas?
Easy 5 for good movies
xox ♥

the movies i prefer are the grudge that scared me so much the ring movie s the 1st is scarier then the secound in my opinion the ouse of wax cry wolf hoep i helped have fun

Q: i got my first period the last day of november. when should i be like preparred to get it again?

well when i had gotten my period the first time evryone was telling em how they skpped the next month and how so many ppl have so i thought ok i am not goign to be on my period but i was wrong so you could nto skip any months but then you could skip some months if you dont skip a month early you might later that is what happend to me just startign your period it will eb a very very odd situation no one is one way

Q: im a girl 14/f and i like looking at lesbian porn. i love boys but i just like looking at it. i would never date a girl but its just interesting to look at. is this normal!?!

yea this is very normal sometimes we look at older girls becasue we are just curious and yea its normal sometimes we just want to see examples of totaly formed bodies so yea it all good

Q: I was seeing this guy named Austin. I was and still am absolutely crazy about him. Well the problem is that I've been a cutter for about a year or two now. Well my cousin Jeremy stayed over for the holidays and I cut once when he was around me. He called Austin and said I cut because he wasn't able to call me. So he broke up with me because he didn't want to get in a deep relationship and have me kill myself or something. Would that be considered true love or true hate? He also hasn't called me in about two days now, but maybe it's because the holidays. PLEASE HELP! I'M IN DESPERATE NEED OF ADVICE!

well talk to him and describe how you feel and reay realy tlak to him tell him that he could help you get to recover becasue you need support to get through this not more reasons to be upset even if you guys dont get back together(not saying you wont) he needs to help you as a friend tell him u need his support

Q: 15/m my really good friend,probly best friend in the whole world, who i really like is really depressed. her ex made her feal bad and she thinks its her fault and i never really have seen her happy since. Anyway what can i tell her that would help her. ive tried telling her it wasnt her fault and tried to cheer her up and it wont work. p.s. her name is christy and she is 14. no smartassy answers please and i rate high so please give me suggestions.

you need to help her open her eyes becasue it is obviously hurting the ones around her and i dont think she would want that when i was depressed my friend had told me that she wanted me back and it was scary seeing me that way seeing me hurt so bad so tell her the truth that it hurts you and others and it scares you hope i helped wish you luck

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my name is lindsey i am 13 years old i am realy into my music and i like to help ppl mostly in the love life catagory answer every question that i have a reasonable honest good answer that will help. some of my favorit bands are the all american rejects the used my chemical romacne fall out boy simple plan some the killers blink 182 green day. i have a 19 and 16 yr old brothers they are very hard to deal with i have soem girl friends but most of them are guy friends that is when i am most comfortable most of the time. i love to write mostly poetry and i love to dance i am a cheerleader but i am not a prep or anything not tryign to stero type but that is what ppl do to me so yea i am not the stero typical cheerleader im not in it to be peppy i just do it for one thing only i LOVE to dance. im not into rap but i have to be into it a little becasue it is very good dance music if i had to pick a fovorite rap star it would be eminem (sorry bad at spelling) because of the things he raps about real life real situation im not for fakeness the whole all rap about or anything about sex,and drugs personaly i just think that there is alout more to life to enjoy and to pay attention too.