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How Do I Get Over Him?
I'm a freshman and I already had my first high school boy, "Tommy", he & I were perfect for each other, everyone thought we were gonna be high school sweethearts. We dated for almost 2 months, he had already told me he loved me and I truly loved him!
Later, he had heard some rumors about me that weren't true and he knew it, but instead, he listened to his friends. The next time we talked, he gave me a lame excuse and broke up with me. I was a mess, I cried myself to sleep for 2 weeks straight!
It's been about 2 months since we broke up, I felt like I was over him, but my close friend asked me if she could take "Tommy" to our winter formal. Now, I'm mad at myself for saying it was okay (she asked me if it was okay). Whenever I talk to her, I always get mad at myself for not saying no.
"Tommy" tries to make me jealous, but instead he makes me mad. He always asks me why I don't care about him anymore, he calls me and asks why I'm being so mean to him and stuff. I just don't care anymore!
How do I get over "Tommy"? I still love him, but I want to get over him so badly.
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it is not easy at all it is a long painfull process and dotn be mad at your self for saying that she could go with him there are alout of cases were that has happend but its gonna hurt you bad to see them together and you probly do not want to loose her friend ship so put your foot down and talk to her about it then you guys can go on with your friendship hope i helped thanxs
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It's not easy to get over someone you love. But the best way is to try and avoid him. It's not as easy as it sounds, and it's gunna take some time. A part of him is always gunna be with you, and you have to accept it. But if you wanna get over him...there has to be some boundaries. I'm not saying to totally erase him from your mind..but just distance yourself for a while. And maybe you should tell your friend how you really feel. I think it would take a big weight off your chest. I mean, she's your friend right? She should understand. I hope this helps you out.
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its not as easy to get over someone as you want it to be. i think that you still have feelings for him but you cant let that get in the way of his future. he chose to move on and you should too. the dance with your friend is just one dance; it doesnt mean that theyre gonna go off and get married. after the dance just let things mellow down.
XO KALIE
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OKAY i AM SORRY TO SAY THiS BUT i DATED SOMEONE FOR ABOUT 2 MONTHS AND iTS BEEN A LONG TiME AND i AM STiLL NOT OVER HiM. WHAT i AM DOING iS HANGiNG OUT WiTH OTHER GUYS AND JUST DO ANYTHiNG TO GET HiM OFF MY MiND! HES BASiCALLY A PiECE OF DUST iN THE WiND WiTH ME NOW!
GOOD LUCK!
xOx RACHAEL ANASTASiA <3
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If you really want to get over him find someone new,delete everything you have that reminds you of him,his name everything.But if you try and get over someone and it still doesn't work chances are you still love him.No matter how much you tell your self you don't you still do.Just try to find someone new ♥
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you have to make time to be with friends instead of thinking about him and everytime you think of him or think of calling him call a friend you can depend on instead. its hard but you have to delete him from your phone and bullylist and just erase him from memory and mind.. hope i helped .. my friend was going throuigh the same thing and i made sure i was there for her <33
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