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Hey everyone, it's Cass. My old column was c assi e x 12. I just wanted to start over fresh with a new advice column. People have told me I give pretty good advice. So I wanted to share it with people in need. Feel free to ask me anything, and I'll give you my best answer. Ratings help me out tremendously. Ask away!
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ok this sounds so gross but today i was going to use the restroom and i had all this blood in my underwear and i dont know why i am not on my period i just got off my period and it just bled then then stopped and i feel iritated down there im really scared PLEASE HELP ME
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It's probably spotting. Sometimes in between periods we tend to bleed a little in between. It happens to pretty much every girl. Especially if you're just starting your period your body still needs to adjust to it. If you're irritated down there, it's probably from wearing pads. If you keep them on for too long it will get wet and the moisture might cause some irritation or a rash.
Would you ever meet someone in person off of myspace? I know most of you are going to say no but what if it's a friend of a friend?
Well, if you were 100% sure it was someone your friend knew, then you should go for it. But make sure you bring your friend with you..just in case. I don't really reccommend meeting w/ people you meet online..but if it is a friend of a friend just be safe!
I'm a freshman and I already had my first high school boy, "Tommy", he & I were perfect for each other, everyone thought we were gonna be high school sweethearts. We dated for almost 2 months, he had already told me he loved me and I truly loved him!
Later, he had heard some rumors about me that weren't true and he knew it, but instead, he listened to his friends. The next time we talked, he gave me a lame excuse and broke up with me. I was a mess, I cried myself to sleep for 2 weeks straight!
It's been about 2 months since we broke up, I felt like I was over him, but my close friend asked me if she could take "Tommy" to our winter formal. Now, I'm mad at myself for saying it was okay (she asked me if it was okay). Whenever I talk to her, I always get mad at myself for not saying no.
"Tommy" tries to make me jealous, but instead he makes me mad. He always asks me why I don't care about him anymore, he calls me and asks why I'm being so mean to him and stuff. I just don't care anymore!
How do I get over "Tommy"? I still love him, but I want to get over him so badly.
It's not easy to get over someone you love. But the best way is to try and avoid him. It's not as easy as it sounds, and it's gunna take some time. A part of him is always gunna be with you, and you have to accept it. But if you wanna get over him...there has to be some boundaries. I'm not saying to totally erase him from your mind..but just distance yourself for a while. And maybe you should tell your friend how you really feel. I think it would take a big weight off your chest. I mean, she's your friend right? She should understand. I hope this helps you out.
14/f here
For New Year's Eve, my family is throwing a party. My job is to entertain the kids and teens. Here are the age/gender of the kids and teens:
14/f (friend of mine)
14/m (friend of mine)
13/f (neighbor)
8/m (neighbor)
4/f (neighbor)
11/f (friend's little sister)
POSSIBLY 15/m (ex boyfriend of mine)
What things can I do to keep everyone occupied?!
Movies, music, games. You name it. Be creative. Since you probably know what your friends like...try to focus on the younger folks.
I know you probably can't answer this but, I am sad and I feel depressed I mean I have great parents, a great boyfriend, and semi-cool friends and I'm popular but I always feel sad like I have these friends but I dont really belong how do u feel belonged and not sooo depressed, sorry if this is confusing but please if u can please help
It's true. You probably have depression. It's not your fault and it doesn't necessarily mean that things around you are bad. It just means you have a chemical imbalance, and best of all it's fixable. Talk to your parents and have them take you to the doctor's for an evaluation. They could give you meds to make you feel better. Everyone gets down once in a while. I'm sure things will be fine in the long run.
First of all, please don't give me the evils or alcohol or drugs or any crap like that, I'm of legal age where I live.
Secondly, about a month ago, I got drunk. This was the first time I got actually drunk with a hangover and all. I used to drink before that and ocassionally got tipsy but this time I let all self control go and downed a two six of Smirnoff with my friend. I threw up and was sick all of the next day.
About a week later, I took a sip of Vodka again and promptly threw up. Now, everytime I thing about drinking Vodka, I feel like I know I'm going to be ill.
New Years is coming up and I bought a lot of alcohol and now I'm afraid I won't be able to drink it. Can any one find a remedy for this? The thought of not being able to drink is thoroughly depressing.
Try drinking less, and buying something a little less harder than vodka. Or if you still want vodka..mix it with something..like coke. That should take the edge off a bit.
when i am with my friends i am really outgoing because im like comfortable with them you know? and also im a huge flirt. ok so people tell me that i think im the sh*t and i think im so cool and pretty and all of the boys love me. but thats not the case. what should i do because this is causing me a lot of trouble. it really sucks that people think that of me. please help. thank you ♥
Don't change for anyone. Confidence can come across as cockiness. These people who say that you think you're "all that" probably don't know you that well, or they're unhappy with themselves. If you're happy, then what's the problem? And some people are just flirtatious, which is okay if you know how to control it. So be careful. Other than that, if people are gunna hate let them. Just know you have friends who'll stick by you.