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hey. my name is sam. i love music and my friends. feel free to ask me anything, even if its stupid. maybe not that stupid...
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hi I'm a freshman in highschool and my mom just told me that I need braces I don't want to have braces!. I already have acne and need glaces I'm gonna look like a total geek. I don't know what to do. Is there anyway how I can fix my teeth without using braces?. Is there any invisable one?. Any ideas. Please.

almost every freshmen i know have braces its a common thing. no one would care if oyu got them either. you could try invisalign if you wanted too though. i can always thell when someone is wearing them, but they ARE less noticable than regular braces. i tihnk you would be better off having braces than crooked teeth.
maybe you should try and get contacts too. i have them and theyre awesome. i hated wearing glasses. you egt used to putting them in really quick. and if you really hate your acne, try washing your face twice a day with an acne cleanser and using toner or astringent. it help a lot.

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whats the best band merchandise site
i used to buy shirts off this one great site, but i dont remember what it was called

im looking for shirts from bands like senses fail, the scene aesthetic, norma jean, fall of troy, a change of pace etc.

forget about hot topic, everyone shops there. try http://interpunk.com/

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i dont really have yellow teeth but i want super white teeth and im 14 so i dont wanna get them professionaly bleached but i was wondering ARE THE STRIPS BAD FOR YOU?? DO THEY MAKE YOUR TEETH REALLY SENSATIVE? thnx also which brand is the best and doesnt cost more than 30 or 40 bucks
thnnx

you probably dont even need them. if you brush your teeth 2 times a day with whitening toothpaste, your teeth should get whiter.

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i'm going to homecoming in about a week and a half. but i have a bunch of zits on my chin and cheek and a few on my forehead that just all of a sudden popped up. how can i get rid of them before homecoming (in a week and a half)? please help!! thanks.

use toner or astringent. it dries out your pimples and cleans it really good. and i always put toothpaste on a pimple at night if i have a really bad one, but dont put it all over your face.

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i started to cut in march and i stopped in june and now im starting again. it feels like i have to do it at least once a day. my friends get really upset when i cut because they dont want me to hurt myself. does anyone know what i can do to try to stop? please help me.

i used to cut. it got really bad, up to 5 times a day, so im not jst some random girl who has no idea what shes talking about.

what finally got me to stop was seeing someone. a therapist. she told me to look at what its doing to my family and friends, and see if i could picture them doing that. i felt like i was hurting my little sister most of all. she was forgotten through all of it. i wish i never did it.

-get a therapist
-go running instead of cutting
-use rubber bands...seems wierd, but it help a bit

look at yourself in the mirror and ask, "is this really what i want to do for the rest of my life? im hurting people i care about."

i hope things go okay.
im here if you need me.

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hey, i currently this straightener.

http://etm.freshegg.com/clientimages/18/resized_coriolisspink1_Resized.jpg

but it doesnt really work well on my hair at all. i have medium length hair and its curly. it often frizzes and it looks good right when i straighten it but after about an hour it gets wavy. so my question is .. i need a good straightener for back to school and i want some stores where i can get them. i do not want to buy it online so if you guys could tell me some stuff about yoru straightener and exactly where you bought it that would be great.

-caitt

theres one at claires called "wet to straght"
it works really good, and you dont have to blowdry your hair first.

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so i'll start by telling you a bit about myself.

i am 15 f. i don't want to sound arrogant but yes, i am popular which is why i don't get what is going on. I am vasrity cheerleader as a sophmore and have no trouble w/ guys and have alot of girl friends. so this is my question...

i got into a figth with this girl and it got bad, but girls are catty. she tried to ruin my reputation, but i ruined her life =] i got her kicked off of class vice president and her friends hate her. but to be fair, she really deserved it im not kidding. she posted pictures of me that were like edited and crap to make it look like i was naked, like photocopying my head onto the pic or w/e. and posted it on alot of the lockers. idk why she did it, shes just jealous b/c im dating her ex bf. seems to me like SHES the sociopath not me...

so after this i got in trouble, the school sent me to a therapist to talk about why i act the way i do. he diagnosed me a sociopath. But um... sociopaths are psycho anti-socials and im the center of attention. Im not a freak, i love shopping and guys and they say just b/c im a little decieving and like it my way, makes me a sociopath???

can somebody please explain to me how a popular varsity cheerleader can be a sociopath because i am way not antisocial.

"i am catty though, i eman i'll do anythign to get on top. 4 girls transferred in the past 2 years b/c of me =] but still... that doesnt make me a psycho right?."

that doesnt make you a sicopath
it makes you a PATHETIC BITCH!
someone should really shoot you.
how can you be so cruel to people. that girl obviously posted your picture and altered them, because your an ass.

get over yourself and learn how to be nice to people.
go ahead an rate me a one. *shudder* i just hope that maybe some of your ego will go down.

p.s. no one deserves the cruel things you do to them. i hope your parents send you to an institution.

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i'm not sure if this is in the right category.. but last year i went from a 105 to 125 in less than a year. and im a small petite fit. but now i just look a little widder and all. i have so much cellulite on my butt and my thighs. when i wear shorts and when i walk you can see it. does anyone know what i can do to them?

almost everyone has cellulite, so i really think you shouldnt worry about it so much.
i know avon does make a cream you use to tighten the skin to reduce the appearence, but the only way to get rid of it is to do weight training. mainly in the legs since your problem is there.

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My mom made me a doctors appotment in August with a regualar pediatricion. (i'm 13)

I'm gonna get a physical or a check-up, I can't remember which one. Thing is, I havn't been to the doctor since I was 7 or 8. So, of course, I've gotten my period since then.

Will my doctor want to take a look "down there"?

(Sorry my spellings kinda messed up, I'm in a hurry)

when she says heg going to take a look down there, the doctor will only look for a few seconds. he wants to make sure everything is doing okay down there.

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My little sister had a stomach virus.. which was given to me. So I ended up puking about 6 or 7 times last night. My ribs are showing and my stomach hurts. And so I kinda look anorexic. I feel really empty. So if my period stops.. is that bad? I've had it for about 4 years..so it's not irregular and it lasts the whole week. I'm on the 4th day and it's so light.. when I'm usually heavy. Is that bad?

no, you sick so it can happen. things will regulate when you get better. dont worry

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My friend said the first time she smoked a cigarette, she got "high" and she felt jittery and light-headed. Is that true? I mean, can that happen with a cigarette? I'll rate high for good answers. Thanks

yeah it can happen.
just think about it. you inhaling poisins of everykind into your lungs ON PURPOSE!

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Okay, so my older half sister and brother have planned this trip to Florida, 5 days in Disney World!!! I was really excited...until I found out two things...

1. My sister and brother might be bringing their side of the fmaily that I've never even met. Which includes parents and kids. (I do NOT like kids) I'll just feel like a blacksheep.
2. PANIC! AT THE DISCO is playing the SAME DAY I'll be GONE!! (San Diego, August 1st)

My mom has allowed me to choose whether or not to go. Should I stay and experience an awesome Panic! concert or spend 5 days in Disney World with people I don't really know????

I don't want any regrets...

Panic! will be back to play near you again, and disney is quite expensive, so i doubt you'll get to go a lot.
i would pick disney.

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Hey Shammay I added you as a friend. Add me back if you want.

okay, but whats your name?

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Hey :D well my eyes have always bothered me.. i have kinda darker brown eyes..sometimes they change to hazel but i wear black eyeliner and everything seems so dark! my eyes seem so boring i get so jealous of blue and green eyes (lighter eyes) because they stand out so much and are so much prettier! is there anyting i could do to make my eyes like stand out more or look prettier? ive heard about doin something with eyeshadow but im soo bad with makeup and stuff! and everytime i try to do the smokey eye or whatever it seems to make my eyes darker! by the way im 16/f! and i do not want colored contacts..i know i have to live with my eye color but i just want to know if there is anything i could do to make them stand out more??!
thanks so much

i have the same problem, and i found that using an eyelash curler and lengthening mascara really helps. a lot of guys notice it too.
i also use M.A.C. eyeshadow just on the lid. its a dark purple color with gold sparkles to it. its great.

you should also stay away from a lot of eyeliner, as it narrows your eyes more. [my mom went to school for this stuff]

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what is the meaning of STRAIGHT EDGE?

people who dont drink, do drugs, have sex just randomly...some are vegetarians, but its not required.
it came from when kids under 21 would go to hardcore shows where alcohol was being served. you would get a big X on your hand if you couldn't drink. thats where the "x" in sXe came from. its about living the hardcore/punk lifestyle without being impure.

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ok for summer my goal is to lose like 7 lbs and more, but i CANNOT keep with it! i'm gonna try the pic of someone skinnier than me on the fridge but what else can i do? to remind me what my goal is?
thanks i rate high for good ones

you know what you should do is walk a lot. i lost over 15 pounds last summer by doing that. it was usually with a friend too. just walk to places instead of driving also. i wasnt even trying to lose wieght and i did.
the only thing that can really keep you motivated is yourself. stop looking at other girls and comparing yourself, youre better off just thinking about what YOU can do.

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About a month ago i had really bad strep thoart for the first time in my life. well today i went to the doctors because my throat was burting really bad and i have strep again.

I still have my tonsils But having strep twice i such a short time . Is it a sign that i need to have my tonsils removed?

nope. usually if you get strep or viral infections a lot, then you would probably need them removed.

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hey, well my class is going to canobie lake park on june 5th. i need something GORGEOUSLY ADOREABLEY CUTE to wear to it. does anyone have any ideas of what stores i can shop at, or what kind of items i should buy, or even what exact item? links would be awesome = ]. cait♥

you should just wear something comfortable. dont wear anything that will get ruined by the water and whatnot. do NOT wear a skirt either. shorts and a cute top are fine.

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hey, when you put in a tampon can it get stuck in you? cait♥

it can, but its very unlikely. you shouldnt worry about it.

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Has anyone on here ever played with a weegee board? If you have what was it like? Was is weird?? Honest answers please!

doesnt work >=[

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