ok im 12/f and not very popular but im not a loser and i like this one guy and hes popular and we flirt all the time and talk a lot and but he doesnt really act like he likes me its like all he wants to do is flirt and thats it but i really like him...what should i do to try and send him hints that i like him more like a boyfriend then just someone to flirt with
o yea my friend likes him to but like weve talked about how it would be ok to date this guy if he ever asked either of us out... sorry this is long thanks...
Go somewhere with him, either on yur own( a date) or with a group and hang around with him then tell him how you feel and ask if he either wants to go soemwhere on your own next time or go out again.
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Well see i'm 15 and i'm a female and i'm not going out with this guy, but i gave him head and he ate me out at a football game in the back of his van. I was caught up in the moment and now everyone is calling me a slut. I have no idea of what to do, should i stick up for myself or just ignore them. The advice would be very helpful. thanks!
stick up for yourself! Does it matter what anyone else thinks?
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How old do you have to be to give up on finding a girl friend. The reason I ask is that im 24 ill be 25 next may and ive never had a girlfriend or been in a serious relationship, I Know im not ugly and I can send you a pic to prove it, and most of the time i can talk to girls just fine, but it always ends up the same for me, they always say that im a real nice guy and that one day ill find the right girl for me and then the dreaded "LETS JUST BE FRIENDS".
I just dont understand what im doing wrong. and when i think about it it makes me real mad, that
there's girls out there with boyfriends that beat them, abuse them both phisicaly and mentaly,
they cheat on them and treat them like crap, but when asked why the girl stays whith him the anwser is always "cause I love Him". Life is just so f*cked up, how can guys that treat their girl like shes lower than crap get so much love, but a guy like me that alwas treats women with respect and is always nice and honest and caring
have to feel like hes going to be alone forever?
Ive had sex, but it was always one night satands and its not about sex. its about love, I want to love some one, life is just so empty and meaningless when you dont have anyone to sahre it with.
Now im getting to the point where the girls i meet are close to my age and want someone with experiance, witch i dont have.
So i figured if by the time i turn 25 i dont have a girlfriend i should just give up and not waste anybodys time.
what do you think?
I think you seem really nice and kind. Sorry to say this but it's probably right you just havnt found someone for you. It sounds really upseting you saying this and i simpathise with you but maybe you should be a bit more picky and not just try it on with anyone.
[EDIT] Have you tried going to different places, joining a gym or something. Or maybe a sports team. Do something whatever you are into and sometime soon you are bound to meet someone you like. When you do don't sound as if you are desperate and such like and make sure you are generally interested in her specifically. Just talk to her and if you like each other make a move and also don't expect sex straight away maybe you should wait a while until she wont feel like you only want ne thing.
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ok i dont rly have a problem with it im just wondering im 13.f and my boyfriend is 15.m and this other guy that likes me is 16.m but see i dont kno why all these older guys want me?? does anyone kno why they would?
Sorry hun but it sounds like they only want you for sex or similar things. I know it seems cool to go out with an older boy but they can pressureise you into doing so much more than you are comfortable with before you even know it.
On the other hand it could quite possibly be that your pretty and have a nice personality.
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i REALLY like this guy...but im not sure if he likes me ... he flirts with me ..alot..but then not alot if you understand that ..but also i just really wanna know who he likes..but since he knows that i like him i dont wanna ask him ..wat do i do?!..also he is like dropping signs ((i think and my best friend thinks)) that he likes me ....i cant really explain the signes but yeah..wat should i do?
If he knows that you like him there isnt really much to do try to get a mutual friend to ask him how he feels then go from there!
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ok i told this guy i like that i liked him..and i did it in person ...then after i told him he was like "can i see your phone" and so i gave it to him and he was just like messing around ..come to find out he put his number in my phone..wat does that mean!? haha ..im really clueless with "guy languagE" thanks!
Hehe I'm sooo happy for you he likes you and obviously wants you to call him.
If you wouldnt know what to say on the phone text him instead with something flirty then just go with the flow
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Okay!Well a month ago I broke up with my boyfriend who I am madly in love with. He is in love with me too but it is a long distance relationship, so I thought that he and I being friends would be the best thing for now. Yeah I couldnt see him whenever I wanted but just being able to talk to him made me happy. Our relationship was made up of trust and love. He is so in love with me. I miss him so much. He is now dating a gurl who he loves as a friend not a gf. we havent talked since we broke up bc it is so hard too. I had my friend call him and I grabbed the phone when he picked it up and hung up. Then she called back and talking to him. He wanted to talk to me but i couldnt bc it was too hard. I kno that no matter what he wants to be with me in the future but right now it is to hard. I also kno that no matter what he will never stop loving me. But what I am getting at is that I dont kno what to do without him .I feel so lost and empty. Like he always used to tell me that he loved me before I went to sleep and it was so conforting. I miss that so much. What should I do? he and I have been through so much in the past and its stuff that is unforgettable. Do you think that he and I will be together in the future. BC he said he wants to me and I DO MORE THEN ANYTHING.Its like if u are in love with someone and it is meant to be then it will happpen right? i hope so!
Do you love him or love it's self?
If it's him you love then you should tell him everything you have just put here and hopefully you will get back together. Firstly try to remember the feeling that made you split up because it could happen again and that would be messing him around too much.
Something that worries me though why is he with this other girl?
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Everone says that 'puppy love' is just when younger people say they're in love but 'real' love is proper love. So is it possible for a 13 year old to be in real love?
Definately, it's just rare. I know I have lusted after many people but looking back it wasn't love.
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ok.. so this boy ive been really good friends with since 5th grade asked me out at this place we have in our town the teen center to hang out..i told him i'd think about it..but im afraid if i say no he wont be my friend anymore but i dont wanna say yes cuz hes not that cute.. i dont want ppl to make fun of me cuz he is ugly but hes reealy sweet& nice.. what should i do?
Do you wanna go with this boy and are you jut afraid of what people will think?
Because if that's the case then it REALLY isnt worth making your self unhappy because of what they will think! If you say no a few months down the line you might start to regret it but he isn't gaurenteed to still like you then and that could really mess up your friendship!
On the other hand if you just don't fancy him explain to him when you are both alone that you really like him but don't wanna risk losing your friendship over this. He might find it hard but eventually he will understand.
I know from personal experience what relationships can do to friendships. It's not nice, unless you KNOW that if the worst happens and one of you dumps the other you could get over it and stay friends i would seriously not risk it.
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