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OlDeR gUyS aLl ThE tImE!
ok i dont rly have a problem with it im just wondering im 13.f and my boyfriend is 15.m and this other guy that likes me is 16.m but see i dont kno why all these older guys want me?? does anyone kno why they would?
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Sorry to say this hun but.. They may think that you're easy to get. Most guys that date younger ladies think they're easy. Maybe your boyfriend said something. I dunno... Talk to your boyfriend and see if he thinks you're easy. If not then you're fine. Only the youngens like me..
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Sorry hun but it sounds like they only want you for sex or similar things. I know it seems cool to go out with an older boy but they can pressureise you into doing so much more than you are comfortable with before you even know it.
On the other hand it could quite possibly be that your pretty and have a nice personality.
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Well mostly, and I'm not saying this is true in your case, guys like younger girls cause they're easier to be persuaded into sleeping with them. Not saying your a slut, but maybe you're a fast mover and tend to do that kind of thing? Or maybe, you act mature for your age? Or you could just be incredibly beautiful and nice. I really don't think you should get involved with a 16 year old though, that's pushing it a bit.
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They probably want you because they think they can have sex with you or get something out of you. I don't know you just have to be careful and aware of who you are with and what you do.
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They might think you are easy, because that age group thinks it is cool to have sex. Also, you may be more mature for your age if you know what I mean. Don't take it th wrong way, I date older guys because they are more mature and know how to handle themselves! Hope that helps! ~*_Laney_*~
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Often, an older boy will go after a younger girl because he thinks that he might have an easier time convincing her to do various and sundry things with him because the younger girl is naive. Sometimes a guy will do this because he is not as mature emotionally as others his age. He also might have a secret crush on his little sister and lives it out through someone else [ ok, yeah, I'm kidding on that one... no, really... joke ;) ]<br>
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There are a lot of reasons why - sometimes a younger girl can appear to be physically mature and thus appealing, so the guy will pursue her.<br>
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No matter what, if you do decide that you have no problem seeing the older boys, make sure you stand your ground and don't let them try to talk you into things that you might not be wanting, because while there are many nice guys out there, there are also a lot of assholes with raging hormones at that age.
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