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Bad Boys II
ok..i'm really good friends with well one of my friends. he is 15/m. he likes me as well do ilike him. but he wants to do stuff too quick. I can say that we have done some stuff, but i don't want to go to far. N' he doesn't understand the word, "no." i dont know what to do. I need anyones help, should i do it, or not?
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honey, never do anything you dotn feel comfortable doing! if he doesnt respect you and your decisions find someone who will!
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Tell him to STEP OFF! If he is pressuring you to do things you don't want to do he is not a very good friend. You need to find someone who will respect you decsions not matter what.Don;t give into him if you are not ready.And if you decide you are ready you better be prepared for all the responsibility that comes with it.
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well, i think you should do what ever you're comfortable with...never let someone take advantage of you...talk to him about it and ask him why he wants to do these things and ask him if he would like to get a little more serious..then see what happens
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no.... u should never do anything that u aren't comfortable doing... you guys need to have a talk about whats ok with u and whats not...
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dont do anything your not comfortable with. I dont care what anyone says losing your virginity is a seriouse thing. Even if half the time the relationships dont last but none the less a good exsperience is hard to come by. Let him know that your not ready and if he cant understand that then you need to move on there are plenty of guys who are fine with just sticking to the basics.
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You've already stated that you don't want to, yes? It is not your fault that he cannot understand what "no" means. Put your foot down and do not let him do as he wants - it is not his decision to make. Don't cave in. If he can't deal with you saying "no", then ideally he needs a dose of reality, even if that means you leave him. If he cannot respect your opinion, if he values your friendship that little that he puts his hormonal selfishness ahead of you and your wishes, then his immaturity is blatant. I try not to tell people to break up with someone, but perhaps the two of you are better off as being just friends and nothing more, at least until he gets a clue.
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