Gender: Female
Location: Pennsylvania
Occupation: College Student
Age: 21
Member Since: October 28, 2004
Answers: 91
Last Update: July 21, 2005
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What sort of job should i be looking for when i get out of high school, or what should i go to college for? Im not sure what i want to do with my life, and im really good at sports, can you give me something to think about? (link)
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Don't rush yourself. Tons of kids these days rush themselves into college, and in the end of it all they are stuck in a stupid job that they cant stand. So here is my advice for you....By the time you are done high school if you still have no idea what you want to do with your life take some general education courses at a community college. Hopefully, eventually you will find something that interests you through those general education courses (general education in college is nothing like it is in high school). Or plan B is you could get a job after high school and work for a while. Thats what I did and finally through my job working as a CNA I found out I wanted to be a nurse practioner. Good luck.
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well today is my bf's birthday so we are going to lunch at a nice (in other words, expensive) resturant with another couple. i invited him, so does that mean i have to pay for him? its a pretty expensive place and im 14 and he's turning 15. thanks! (link)
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if you invited him you should pay. Its his birthday.
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im 16 years old and 8 months pregnant..my boyfriend ..which is the father and is 19..wont have anything to do with me..he wont even touch me anymore yea he comes over every now and then but he doesnt stay long..it breaks my heart because i love him so much..he says he loves me but it definately doesnt feel like it..what can i do? (link)
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I am going to be as honest as I possibly can be with you... So get ready.
Ive had tons of friends over the years both in highschool, and even now as an adult, who have gotten pregnant by some irrisponsible boy. As sorry as I am to say that, they are just boys they think with their peckers untill the time comes to take responsiblility for their second brain. I can deffinitly feel your pain although I have no idea what it is like to be pregnant. If I was you once this baby is born I would go to domestic relations and draw child support from him. Considering the fact that he is not taking responsibility as it is, and the baby is not even born yet. It is a safe bet that he wont take responsibility when the baby is born. Baby's take a hell of a lot of work to raise and the last thing a child needs in its life is to have an unresponsive peice of sh*t father. So I understand that you are 16 and well its time to grow up forget about this guy/boy and find the means to support this child. There are plenty of other options when it comes to babys, however the last option on your mind should be waiting around for this boy. You have a month to decide what your going to do about this situation. I hope to god you dont choose to wait for your beloved to return... Which is a 1% chance. Stay strong :)
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A lot of people think I'm different, because I'm Jewish. Well, I consider it! And everyone else says, "Are you a catholic or christian?" ANd I say, "No. I'm way more on the jewish side." And they say, "Ooh, that's too bad." WHY CANT THEY MIND MY RELIGION? WHY DO THEY DO THIS? HOW CAN I MAKE THEM STOP? WHAT CAN I SAY BACK TO THEM?
Will rate high! (link)
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I dont know why christians and catholics think that they have the right to judge another religion or person for that matter. I am sorry this happens to you. The reason that they do this is because they are mindless book following morons. Just ignore them they do go away. Or tell them to F**k off thats all I know to do. Its none of their business though.
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Hi I'm an A level drama student thinking about going on to drama/dance scool in london and I've not done any auditions before has anyone got any tips to help with nerves and confidance?
Many thx Joolz,(i rate high) (link)
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Remember that there will be many people at these audtions. However dont let them intimidate you. You know who you are and what you are capable of. Just Breath you will do fine.
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hey guys! um me and my twin sister got a postcard in the mail for barbazion modeling. it said that there were open call auditions. i was just wondering if anyone knew anything about it. like how much does it cost? do you need any experience? so, if you know anything ,please help me! thanx! (p.s. i went on their website, but i couldnt find anything!) thanx! (link)
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You will go to their open call audition. And they will split the room up into two sections. There should be a man and women there anyways they decide who they want and dont want and they make it sound really good to. Then at the very end of the "audtion" they will say something like..." Now those of you who we accept will be invited to an orientation held in New york ( or some other city) and it only costs $650 and it goes on and on and on and in the end of it all you will not be a model. I went with a friend and it was bogus BS. Hope I have helped.... Then again I could be wrong you could always go, the open auditions are always free.
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my boyfriend cheated on me with another girl .. we have been goin out for 2 1/2 monthes now .. he says he loves me, but i dont see how you can cheat on somebody you love. he didnt have sex with the other gurl, but they kissed. so i then broke up with him and that same day i broke up with him he kissed another girl .. im so confused. should i stay with him ? i mean we are both only 15 years old . so maybe it was just hormones. but do you think he loves me. he treats me really good, hes boughten me a gold ring and big teddy bear when i was sick he (link)
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Look, once a cheater always a cheater. You will hear this saying a lot throughout your life. If you go back out with him, you are sending the message to yourself as well as to other guys that hey we can cheat on her, and as long as we buy her a diamond ring, and treat her nice, and say I love you, then she will take us back. This is a viciouse cycle that unfortunatly many girls go through many times. Dont be a victim of a guy that cheats, because in the end you will loose your self worth. I hope I have helped.
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I was on Weight Watchers and I am now down to my goal weight (125 pounds). I want to stay at this weight. I was having 20 points a day (about 1,200 calories). I am a 5'4 female...by how much should I increase my point intake to stay at 125 pounds without gaining or losing? (link)
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Increase your point intake by 5 if you start to gain weight then cut the point intake back. If you do this you will find the ideal point intake for you to keep your desired weight.
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I have darkish olive tan skin and really...I mean REALLY dark dark brown hair. But I want to change the color. I was thinking along the lines of WHITE blonde...I am dessparate for help! I rate! Thankx! (link)
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Hey if you are going for the super ultra fake look then go all out. And its not called white blonde it's called platinum blonde.
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I think it would be considered as molestation but..what are like some signs of maybe molestation?? My dad seems to be touching me just like a little more then he ever has..I mean not in my "places" but he will just rub my shoulders or something?? The other day he also told me I have very pretty green eyes(their like a mix but blue and green but anyways..) and I was like umm thanx?? (thinking uhh wtf?) So what im asking is do you know of any signs or anything that this is the beginning of umm "molesting??" Also is this the right "catergory" for this?? I'm just a little confused sorry. (link)
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I think you are paranoid or like you are obsessed with having some kind of problem. Are you looking for trouble or something???? Its not like after all these years your dad just woke up one day and thought " I think im going to molest my daughter today." grow up!!!! And if you were smart and really were insulted by him rubbing your shoulders, or whatever, then you would have told him that you were uncomfortable.
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hey okay today in the shower i used like tons of conditioner and now my hair is dried and it feels rrreealllyy greasy and like looks it too but i just got out of the shower and it smells like i just washed it to and my hair si really frizzy andi straighten the crap out of it.and i wash it only every 4 days do u think that the stiffness and greasy feeling will go away ? (link)
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your hair feels stiff because you did not wash all the conditioner out of it. If you read the back of any conditioner bottle it says: " rinse Thoroughly." hope i have helped.
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recently i met a boy 19 on the net and i have now been talking to him for about 7 months im 19 aswell so there aint a cap.we say we love eachother and that but the thing is is that we live 300 miles apart we say i love u and that but he wants me to move up there i dnt know wat to do please help me im confused i mean i love him to bits i do but i dont want to leave my family. im worried if he'll get tired of waiting for me and go off with someone else. please help many thanks spoilt (link)
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OK, first of all have you ever met this guy???? Second of all I dont believe that two people can love eachother without meeting I dont care what that picture looks like. Try going on a little vacation up there or down there or wherever it is that he is from. Then do it again in about 6 months. See if you and this person are compatible. However meet him in some public place around your area. Dont be stupid think about this. And if it does work out.... What do you exspect to happen??? Someone is going to have to move. If he is all set in his life with a good job and a house and with you just starting out, who do you think should move???? Whatever you do just think about this whole thing befor you do it..
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Christians...
- I just wanted to know that if you read the bible can you really find all the answers to your questions. I've heard that you can...and I just wanted to know if it was worth your time...
- And idk, I want to become a better person. Always have wanted too. And I have a bf and we just started dating and like the more I think about it, its not the kind of relationship I want right now b/c something is going to happen b/c theres that attraction there...and we're young and stupid, what do I do? (link)
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Depending on how you look at the bible you get a different perception of things. My advice is read it. It is a very interesting book filled with many good stories, however dont take it literally. People who take every little word in the bible literally tend to get carried away. Just read little bits and pieces of it let yourself absorb the material. Who knows you might find that the bible just is not for you and you may want to go on a hunt for spiritual knowledge. I would talk to your boyfriend about all of this. Relationships are built on trust and understanding. If he cant understand you then he is not for you. I hope I have helped.
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Today my dog fell down the stairs, and she can't really walk. She can, but she falls over and stuff. She keeps throwing up flem and foam. We're taking her to the vet in a few hours. I was wondering, they won't have to put her to sleep right? Like, the worst they could do is give her fake legs?? Thanks =( (link)
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Sounds to me like your dog has more than just a broken leg(s). She probably has some internal bleeding. Hope your vet can help.
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Everytime someone compliments me I think they just want something from me and they are scheming against me. Everytime I get supposedly good news I think its a bunch of bull and that its not true. I'm not a pescimist, I think realistically but I feel like nothing good can happen in my life and I'm always alone. Is there something wrong with me? (link)
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Yeah there is something wrong with you. It is called deppression and low self esteem. Hope I have helped.
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my boyfriends ex IMed me the other day and we started talking...shes really nice and stuff but i know she still likes my boyfriend...she says she doesnt but i know she does...and like she said he broke her heart and she just wants to be friends now and so she asked me to talk to him and just say that she sayd hi and i did and like they made up now...my boyfriend is over her and stuff but she flirts with him now...(she lives 45 minutes away now so she cant see him in person) but like on his myspace she is like hey ur sooooo hott and all this stuff and always putting little hearts on it and then she puts "j/k" but shes not!! i know it!! its pissing me off too...and she like always tells me "about the sweet things he did for her when they were togther"....what can i do about this?? (link)
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Don't talk to her anymore for starters. You never talk to a guys x. It is asking for major trouble, which now you are slowly exsperiencing. Just tell her to leave you alone and talk about it with your boyfriend.
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ok well this is kind of embarassing(sp)but i have sweaty arm pits..even when im cold..i no i should see a doctor so i can get some med. but i dont want to tell my mom cause its embarassing(sp)should i tell her?im going on vacation in feb. and i dont want that problem to effect my good time because its going to be hot there..and in school people always ask why im always wearing a hoddie..and i dont want to tell them..but i want to tell my mom so it will stop but like i said it embarassing(sp)...please dont respond if your going to make fun of me
hope you can help! (link)
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Over active glands due to puberty. You deffinitly should tell your mom doctors can deffinitly help with this common problem. And trust me it is common, like yourself however most teenagers are embarassed about it. Anyway baby power can absorb the sweat untill you can go and see a doctor.
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hi its been 2 months since my dad left for monterrey to learn french an he will be gone six months. Anyway im stuck at home with my sisters and my mom who are driving me crazy and it seems like the only way i can get away is by smoking and ive got asthma and one kidney. i just need advice on soning out because if i keep up the way ive been smoking ill be dead before im thirty. Any good advice would be nice and i will rate high. (link)
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I know this seems kind of corny, but try meditation. Always worked for me when my boyfriend and his kids get on my nerves. It puts you in a completly foreign frame of mind. And instead of escaping and relying on self destructive ways to escape a situation or problem you are actually just escaping within yourself.
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I am thirteen and I have lots of friends at school but my best friend is scared to spend the night at my house. In order to try to get her to, I have to either pay her money or give her my most valuable possesion. It's really gay. If she spends the night at my house, she has to have another friend come WITH her and she picks people that I hate to come so she's never been over to my house! How can I get her to spend the night at my house without having to bribe or pay her? HELP!!! ASAP!!! (link)
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Why are you paying her??? Seems to me like there is more going on here than meets the eye. If she does not want to come over your house than oh well. If she is asking, what are you will to give? than screw her shes not your friend. You can do better.
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is true high school love possible? i was just wondering b/c it seems like for so many ppl it never works... (link)
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In all honesty it is not true.. Sure you can have your first love like exsperience, but get real it does not last. People choose different pathways after high school.
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