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Question Posted Tuesday June 7 2005, 12:51 pm

well today is my bf's birthday so we are going to lunch at a nice (in other words, expensive) resturant with another couple. i invited him, so does that mean i have to pay for him? its a pretty expensive place and im 14 and he's turning 15. thanks!

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Additional info, added Tuesday June 7 2005, 2:16 pm:
no matter who pays, it would be either of our parents' money... i have had a few jobs in the past, he has not. would 50/50 be ok? we're like casual mated...we've been together for 3 1/2 months...

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PrincessAva answered Friday June 10 2005, 3:31 am:
You pay it will be a birth day present to him


good luck and hope i helped you
feel free to contact me if u have any questions

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devil9221 answered Thursday June 9 2005, 9:12 pm:
I think you should pay for him because it is his birthday and you invited him.
Hope I could help!
~K.C~
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bballink4s3y answered Wednesday June 8 2005, 1:21 am:
yes if you invited him it would mean you have 2 pay 4 him sorry but thats how it is...hope i helped









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xcrazybeautiful answered Tuesday June 7 2005, 10:23 pm:
If it was my situation, I would pay. You did invite him, so I think you should pay.

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LeahChristine07 answered Tuesday June 7 2005, 4:35 pm:
Most likely you should pay, because it is his birthday and he probly already asumes you'll pay.

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SuddenlyFem answered Tuesday June 7 2005, 2:53 pm:
if you invited him you should pay. Its his birthday.

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HeathaAa answered Tuesday June 7 2005, 2:37 pm:
considering its his birthday and you invited him, you should pay. hes probably probably thinks it is his birthday gift.

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shake answered Tuesday June 7 2005, 2:34 pm:
You're going to make the B-day boy pay, when you're the one who invited him to go in the first place?

You're an asshole.

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OrangeChikn answered Tuesday June 7 2005, 2:12 pm:
Well, it is HIS birthday. I don't think he'd want to pay....

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calamityz answered Tuesday June 7 2005, 2:10 pm:
If it's his birthday and you invited him then it is probably assumed that you will pay. Since it is his birthday, it would be completly acceptable (and almost required) for you to foot the bill for his and your meals. If you are short on money ask your parents to lend you some, and assure them that you will pay them back (they are usally more willing to do this if you have a job or are willing to look into getting a job, even if the job is babysitting neighbors kids). Don't maketo big of a deal about the money, especially in front of him; its his birthday, and the most important thing would be for you guys to just have fun.

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Mandalove answered Tuesday June 7 2005, 1:59 pm:
Yes, you pay. One, it's his birthday, and Two, you invited him. Have fun.

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elscorcho96 answered Tuesday June 7 2005, 1:34 pm:
If you don't want to be incredibly rude then yes, you should pay for lunch. You can't just invite people out to celebrate and then expect them to pay for their food. It's like a birthday or Christmas party, people aren't supposed to bring presents for themselves, right?

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jbdreamer answered Tuesday June 7 2005, 1:10 pm:
Yes, absolutly you should pay. It's his birthday, and YOU invited him to lunch.

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orphans answered Tuesday June 7 2005, 1:03 pm:
pay for him. girls pay for the guy on birthdays and when they invite them to dinner.

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ThugGirl041790 answered Tuesday June 7 2005, 12:56 pm:
its his freaking birthday dont let him pay so what if its expensive pay for it.. you invited him on his BIRTHDAY so you pay.. ♥ Dez

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angel_sarah23 answered Tuesday June 7 2005, 12:55 pm:
yeah i think it does huni, i know he;s the guy but i think he would expect you to pay if he's a real gentleman he'll say oh i cant let u pay that and he'll pay msome or all which is good news for u :D

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