I don't exactly know how to explain so I'm just gonna try. My mom is a great mom and I love her so much! But all she does is try to please people and my brother's take advantage of that. One brother always makes her go out and buy alcohol for them and he gets drunk all the time with his friends. My other brother treats her like she's trash! He talks back cusses her out, calls her names, etc. It's scary sometimes because they get her to the point of tears and sometimes she actually does cry and my brother's and their friends keep going. She's told me before that the only thing that's keeping her from just ending her life is us kids and if we turn on her then what does she have? Nothing, and I'm scared she's gonna take her life. I want to help her get control of her life but I don't know how i mean I'm only 13! Please help! *thank you*
i dont have any siblings so i'll try my best, :). When your brothers yell and talk to her in a bad stand up for her, or when you see her down talk to her and say things like "Mom I love you and i think your the best mom in the world" things that will make her feel alot better.
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I feel empty. I want to be happy and I want to live my life like I always have, to the fullest extent. But now it seems like every reward is meaningless. And I hate to say this, but it is because of a guy. When I let guys control my life, I dont know. But it happened. I can not stop thinking about this one guy. I dated him for 7 months but then I was the one to break up with him. I mostly was just scared hed fall for someone else and eventually dump me. But I cant stop thinking about him and my heart hurts everyday from thinking about him. I feel lonely constantly even if i am around all my friends. I hate using that cliche about putting on a fake smile but its true. And I am even more depressed because thats never been true. Not only that but the guy I like is also liked by my really good friend. We have been friends just this year and she doesnt know I dated him. I dont want to tell her and I am determined that if they just date then I can get over it. I have cut myself over this. I dont do it to kill myself I do it because I want to hurt myself. This has been my freshmen year and one of the worst. I know I must sound annoying with all this teenage drama crap. But it just hurts so bad. And I dont want to hurt like this. I dont want to keep crying myself to sleep praying that this will soon be over. I know I am being melodramatic and I know im being whiny but I cant help it anymore. I have these thoughts of him constantly of when we would kiss and when we would cuddle. And it kills me. Ive told him I like him and he says he likes me too but he also likes another girl. And that kills me even more. I just want this to stop. I cant take this anymore. Please someone tell me what to do. Im 15, sick and tired.
I know exactly how you feel, I was 15 when i went through it. I loved him with all that i had and i dropped EVERYTHING for him. I even lost 20lbs and i was way underwieght because of him..I was very depressed and didn't have friends anymore because of him. But we broke up and it was the hardest time of my life, But I made it through my friends and i hang out ALL the time and that helps ALOT. I still talk alot about him and we've been broke up for 7 months, I still love him and probly always will. Sometimes it's just best to let go..If it was ment to be he'll come back. If you need to talk to me about it feel free to IM me.. Vllybllprin6..Hope i helped. :)
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Is it right for a girl to ask a guy out? please answer..i rate!!
Yes it's fine for a girl to ask a guy..specially if you really like him. :)
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okay-- the guy i like knows i like him and he keeps tellin me hes thinkin about me and he told me he could see me as a potential girlfriend... so how long do you think it would take for him to fainnaly ask me out?? ive already been waiting like 3 weeks (and im just a lil bit curious!!) thanks!!
It might take awhile. Being good friends for awhile is really good. It makes your relationship really strong. Just remember waiting it's not bad to wait along time for him to ask you out maybe he just wants it to be good.
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ok.... well i have been going out w/ this boy for about 4 months now and i really love him alott!!!! so i am 14 and goin into high school and yaa. so and latley my boyfriend has wanted to go to 3rd base w/ my (down muh pants) i no he is ready and i trust him but i dont now if im still to young or if i should jus do it or wait mann i am so confused ill rate 5
Firts of all make sure you are completely ready to go to 3rd base..if your not sure DONT do it. If he loves you as well he'll wait. I know you love him and all, but make sure your a 100% ready because it can also ruin your reputation.
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well today is my bf's birthday so we are going to lunch at a nice (in other words, expensive) resturant with another couple. i invited him, so does that mean i have to pay for him? its a pretty expensive place and im 14 and he's turning 15. thanks!
Most likely you should pay, because it is his birthday and he probly already asumes you'll pay.
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okay well im 15/f, and i recently found out im pregnate. Before i found out my boyfriend broke up with me, we don't talk anymore, he ignores my calls and he won't read anything i send him...so is it useless to tell him??he's 15 to, and lives about 45 min. away. I think I'm gonna keep the baby too, I haven't told my parents yet. I'm a "goodygood" so noone would expect it...and i don't kno what to do...i tried to tell my best friend...but she didn't believe me...what do i do? how do i tell my ex. and get him to listen to me?
If worse comes to worse find a way and show up to where he lives. He needs to take full responsiblity. In the mean time keep trying to call and send him letters or what not.
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hey well me n this guy started going out and he broke up with me cause I guess he just tstpped likeing me but we wer going out for like 3 weeks and I had liked him so much to the point where when it came to him asking me out.. I cared soo unbelivably much for him! after we broke up I still cared up for him and still do what can I do that will get him back or help me get over him because I am really heart brokenn.. and is this like weird?
You can go out and have fun with friends..Thats what usually takes my mind off heartbreaks and things. Or you could try to move on and find someone else as well. Theres no easy way to stop liking someone..It just happens you can't make yourself stop.
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okay i knoe alot of ppl are havin sex and all and i used to want ta have sex really bad but i was talkin to my friend and she really explained to me that its a really good idea to wait for mariage. so thats me new plan. but c i talked to alot of guys about having sex... and now i dont knoe how to turn them down..?? i mean will they think im dumb if i say i wanna wait till marriage??
They should understand. If they dont then you shouldn't even have sex with them in the first place. They shouldn't think your dumb at all. Actually it's a GREAT idea.
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im 13/f never made out with a guy and i feel so...unloved lol! is there sumthin wrong with me? where did i go wrong?!?
Theres nothing wrong with you at all. Maybe your just waiting for that "special" person to come along. I know tons of people 15 or 16 who hasn't even had there first kiss yet. It's no big deal.
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When waz ur first kiss?
Mine was when I was 12. Lots and Lots of memories.:)
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What the hell does IDK mean?
I Don't Know.
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On saturday me and my b/f were suppose to hang out, but he canceled. So he said we should hang out on sunday, but he never showed up or called or anything. I tried calling but no one answered his house or cell. Should I be worried? Because he's usually on-line all the time, but lately he hasn't been. He never blows me off ever. I know he wouldn't cheat on me either, he's not that kind of guy. What should I do? Should I be worried??? Please help! :(
Well I would talk to him about it. If it's not normal for him to do something like that, then there has to be something up. Just sit down and ask him whats going on and stuff. Let him know how you feel.
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Ok this might sound so waird but....All my friends have done weed that i basically know or wanna try it theyre not pushing me into it but i wanna try it to like REALLY badly but i have second thoughts all the time like what if my parents found out and i dont wanna be llike that i wanna be a good kid well atleast i try to i dont know what to do!!!!
I think it's a bad idea. But I mean alot of people do try it to see what it's like. Just because your friends are doesn't mean you have to. If your having second thoughts dont do it.
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im 14 years old i havent had my first kiss yet or a b/f yet and im starting to fell like im to fat and ugly and ill never find anyone what should i do about this?
It's probly because your not to fat or ugly. For one your first Kiss should be with someone very special to you..it's something kinda important. Maybe your just not ready for a boyfriend yet. I have friends that are 16 and they are really pretty and haven't even had a boyfriend yet. Just spend your time with your friends, because there way more important then a guy anyways.
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hey can anyone help me? i just gave myself an abortion yesterday with a close hanger and im really sore. can anyone help? like medicine wise, or will sex help the pain?
A HANGER? what were you thinking?! Okay well take Advil or something and you should really go to the doctor because you could have done some serous damage.
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how do you keep your clothes from shrinking.. like jeans and shirts!! please help
Well I keep my clothes from shrinking by not puting them in the drying..I let hem dry by themselves.
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Ok, well i have this friend who always tells rumers about me! i hate it and i always tell her how i feel, but everytime i tell her she goes and tells another rumer! what should i do?! help me please!
signed.
Losing a friend?
Maybe she isn't a "true" friend and you should confront her on how you feel. Also maybe you shouldn't really trust her with anything anymore..
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I'm 15 years old and I'm pregnant. I don't know what to do and who to turn to. I've only had sex once with my boyfriend and I took a couple pregnancy tests, which all came out positive. No one knows about it and I'm so scared. My parents will be so disappointed in me, it'll kill me and they'll probably make me get an abortion. I'm also scared my boyfriend is going to leave me because of it. What should I do? I really need help.
Alright..well for one make sure your deff. Pregnant first because sometimes them tests are wrong, and two you need to tell your boyfriend then have you and your boyfriend sit down and tell your parents,They may be dissapointed, but they'll have to understand.
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hi ok i really want a thong i am 14 and i am in 9th grade. i asked mi mom if i could get i last year and she said no i wuz too young well i am a shy person at times now i wunt to ask her but im scared !!! help
Well if you really want one buy one when your out shopping with your friends or something. That should work.
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