ok so there was a guy who i liked once and i have crushes on like 3 guys but i have never ever had a boyfriend how do i get one and get them to ask me out not me asking them out
Be flirty. Even though you don't have dating experience, act like you do. Make yourself available and let the guys know you are looking.
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Why is sex such a big deal?
For normal people, sex brings along soul tides. You are constantly thinking of the person no matter how much you could possibly despise it. You become emotionally attached. That's why you make sure it's the person you want because if you are emotionally attached to an ass that's not good.
You probably don't think it's a big deal because you are easy and do not care about your body. Gain some self respect.
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I saw the Grudge last night, and I thought it was pretty scary,and now I'm really scared. Like when I'll be in my room, (my light always does this)the light will go on and off and I've never been scared by that, and now I'm totally freaked out! what should i do?!!
Think of rainbows and candy and the person that you like.
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Ive played volleyball for like 7 years. I played on a travel team for 4 years. Well my best friend startd playing volleyball last year. She's about 6'0 and coaches like her because shes soo tall. She played on the JV team last year. I'm not as tall..but i am still pretty good. Well the other day the varsity coach asked her to try out for vball and come to the varsity camp. I was shocked..our varsity team is like state champs..and she asked her to play! I know when ppl find out that shes made varsity and has only played for 1 yr and me playing vball for 7 is on JV again. How do i deal with this..i wish i played varsity..wat do i do?
First, accept the fact that life is not fair. Things don't always work out the way they should. I would say just keep working hard at it. Play the best you can, especially around him. Hopefully he'll notice your talent and put you on varsity too.
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Me and my best guy friend have been going out on and off again. when we first realized we liked each other it was awesome, we went out for a couple months, then dated around for one month, then we were back on for a few months and now we're off again. however it still feels like we're going out, he still says i love you and he comes over and we still do everything as if we were going out. but i ask him why dont we just go out with each other and he doesn't want to. it's not even that he's interested in other girls or anything. he tells me he just needs time, but why does he need time when we're still doing the same stuff?
Guys are stupid and we will never understand them. He probably thinks that since he can get you either way, there is no need for the official title of a boyfriend. It's not his fault because guys just can't handle it sometimes. They'd rather just get the benefits. My guess is that you should ask him the same thing you asked here.
"Why do you need when we're doing the same stuff? It's basically like we're together anyway"
Or something of the sort. Get him thinking. Maybe he'll realize it too.
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hey shannon i was juss wondering does it hurt the very first time you have sex because im scared ... i mean im not scared of the dick (lol) im juss scared its going to hurt me really bad and i feel left out because all of my friends have lost their virginity and i havent im the only virgin i mean i like this guy and he likes me and he wants to have sex but im juss scared to because im scared its going to hurt me so can u give me some advice on what i should do please
Thankiez
If you're scared even a bit, it means that you're not ready for that kinda of feeling. You probably don't care about this type of opinion but I think you should at least think about it. If you are only going to do this to keep up with your friends, your maturity level needs to grow before you experience this with this boy. But that's just me. Either way, it may hurt a bit since it's the first time. But it shouldn't hurt too excessively. If it does, there's something wrong and you should stop immediately. Hope I helped. Hope you think about what I said to.
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i met this kid though my friend friday night we hung out i thought he was really hot and all that good stuff saturday night me and my friend got invited to this party she bet me 5 bucks that i would hook up with him. i did. we kissed a few times at the party he told me wow i wasnt expecting this to happen and then asked if i had a boyfriend i said no do you have a girlfriend he said technically yes but no i never see her because im not aloud to. later that night we went to his house and we all stayed the night there we kissed some more i really like this kid but he has a girlfriend what should i do?
Do you feel guilty about him having a girlfriend? If not, go ahead with him. That's not really sweet advice, but sometimes you have to do stuff for yourself. If you want him you should go ahead and get him.
Or better yet, if he wants you like you want him, he'll dump his girlfriend for you.
So, see what he's thinking.
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I have always liked guys. my 1st crush was even in grd 1 for a guy! but recently i have made out girls..either exparementing, or i really really wanted to...i like a guy right now, and ive never had a crush on a girl...but as i said i really wanted 2 makeout with her. Am i sorta Bi?
it'd take lot off my mind, thanks!
You may be 'bijesusexual' which is a weird term.
Here's what it means: A girl can love a guy and she can do 'stuff' with a guy. She can also do stuff with a girl, but she cannot love a girl.
So, to answer your question, I guess you are kinda bisexual but there's nothing wrong with that. Just go ahead, and explore your sexuality.
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Okay I failed a test in school with a 65, and to raise the grade, the teacher said we could take a retest. Problem is, we have to show a note to our parents saying we failed, and have them sign it. The re-test is tomorrow, and I still haven't showed my parents the note. WHAT do I do? Because..my parents kill me if I even get an 85. Help me. :(
Show your parents the note, take the test again. Don't you think they can at least appriciate the fact that you are trying to raise it? Rather than leaving it as a 65? Explain to them that at least you are trying.
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my boyfriend and i wanna have sex but im still a virgin and pretty tight down there... and im scared to do it cause i heard it hurts really really bad... i can take a lot of pain, but how much does it really hurt? :-/
thanks!
If you want it so bad, it should be worth the pain. Did you ever think of ways to make it "un-tight" down there? Go ahead and masterbate, who cares if that's nasty that you're touching yourself like that. Just go ahead and have sex, if it hurts, stop. Remember, condomize.
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Ok I have this friend "s" who is a male. Anyway he loves my female friend "k". I keep trying to help s because k is one of my best friends who I talk to all the time. S really does love k he does all these things for her and online s always tells me how much he likes k. I just really want to help him because I feel really sorry because he always tells me how sad he is because he feels k will necer love him. What should I do?
Does K like him? Will K ever like him? If no, you must tell him. This is the most friendly thing to do. Leading him on to keep trying this with her will only hurt him. Do you want him to be heartbroken? If K will never love him, a good thing to do would be to help him find someone who does like him.
...Duh?
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my friend jessica is going out with some guy that is 27 and shes only 12(shes been sleeping with him too)!!! my friends and i keep telling her that its considered rape and that he probably wants her just cuz of her body and just wants her for pleasure, cuz what would a guy that old want with her? we tried to explain it to her a lot, but she wont listen...what should we do?
Twelve and having sex? Wow. Guess who's gonna be easy when they grow up. Tell her that it is against the law because he is an adult and she is a minor. Tell her that he could go to jail and that if she really likes him she should end it so that he doesnt end up with a screwed up life.
And what kind of sick perverted man wants a twelve year old? Has she even hit puberty?
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What is your favorite musical?
Hairspray is the only broadway musicals I've seen. But I am completely in love with Grease, Les Miserables, Oliver, and Jekyll and Hyde.
Things I wish to see if I had the money:
Wicked
Rent
Good Vibrations
those are all supposedly pretty good shows.
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ive been very unhappy latley. maybe that is normal for emo kids, but i dont know. i just wish i could be happy.. is it because i dont have someone to love me?? is there anyway i can be happy at all?
you should find a hobby. find something that makes you feel good. It doesn't have to be a person. get a dog, maybe if you want love. people will only let you down.
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this girl thats a really good friend of mine liked me once and we went out but then she dumped me and then she asked me out again and we went out for like 3 days and she dumped me then she asked me out again and she dumped me wut should i do if she asks me out again? cuz shes a really really good friend
well, i'd ask her if she was gonna just keep doing the same thing cause if so, it's a waste of time unless she truly, truly makes you happy when you are together.
Do you know why she keeps breaking up with you? Maybe you're doing the same thing wrong over and over again and she thinks it will change but it doesnt. But maybe not. Maybe she's just confused.
So talk to her and tell her how you feel and how you don't want it to keep being like breakup & makeup and blah.
If you still wanna go out with her, go ahead just make it clear that you dont want the same cycle over and over again.
hope i helped.
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my name is lydia i'm 18. my guy is leon and he's 18 i lost my virginity to him a year ago but yet...
my guy who use to be friends with benefits with me. suddenly quit. he knew that i wanted a realtionship but he choose another girl over me. i love him to death!! i cry over him. i am afraid to tell him how i feel. i am afraid of what he would say but he said he fell for me to but yet he choose another girl over me. which isn't fair. what am i to do?
ask the jerk why he switched up on you. even if you're afraid of what he'll say, you should tell him how you feel and how it hurts you, cause its only gonna hurt worse the more you put it off.
The best advice is to find someone new
but if you truly love this boy, tell him how you feel cause people get hurt so many times for not speaking their mind (or heart)
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ok my bestest friend the world ((lets call her D)) is going out w/ one of my Really close guy friends ((lets call him C)) and yesterday, D was talking to one of C's friends, let's call him J..and D said "if you tell me what C's getting me for christmas, i'll do Anything" and after awhile of persauding, J asked to makeout. and then eventually D and J both admited they had feelings for eachother. and they were all like planning where and when they were gonna do it. and J never even told her what C got her! and then D said to J "i think i'm just gonna dump C after all this, bc i like you more" so my question is, should i tell C..me and him are Really Really close..but on the other hand D is my BESTfriend and she'd get mad if i told him..ahhh helpppp I RATE HIGH!!!
are you the only one who knows about D&&J, cuz if you are, you shouldn't do it, and here's the reason -- if you tell C, D will know it was you since you're the only one who knows. and then just tell C you're sorry and you didn't know. even if you feel guilty. who would you risk.. you're bff or your good friend.
but if you're not the only one who knows about D&&J, you should tell C and just tell D that it wasn't you who told cause then there will be more suspects then just you. ya get me?
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I am 14, in ninth grade, and I am female.
Okay, first I'm going to give a little backround information.
I had a boyfriend that tried to cheat on me with his ex girlfriend. I knew that I couldn't trust him ever again, so I broke up with him yesterday. Don't worry, I feel really good about it.
Well, a few days ago, I found out from one of my friends that another friend of mine, Ricky, likes me. At first, I wasn't sure I could trust the friend that told me, T.J., because T.J. is weird like that. Then, my best friend Megan told me yesterday that Ricky has liked me for a long time.
My question is, is it okay to go ahead and date Ricky so soon after dumping my previous boyfriend?
~ClarinetKtM
why not? your up for grabs now. and if ricky wants it, ricky can get it. you old boyfriend has no claims on you. soo why waste your time feeling lonely if you already like ricky&&ricky likes you. go for it.
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am i fat im 11 128lbs and 4"10"
congradulations.
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what does "two stepping" mean, like you do it a rock shows and stuff... explain, cause i feel stupid
its a dance move. wow.
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