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should i tell him? sorry if it's confusing
ok my bestest friend the world ((lets call her D)) is going out w/ one of my Really close guy friends ((lets call him C)) and yesterday, D was talking to one of C's friends, let's call him J..and D said "if you tell me what C's getting me for christmas, i'll do Anything" and after awhile of persauding, J asked to makeout. and then eventually D and J both admited they had feelings for eachother. and they were all like planning where and when they were gonna do it. and J never even told her what C got her! and then D said to J "i think i'm just gonna dump C after all this, bc i like you more" so my question is, should i tell C..me and him are Really Really close..but on the other hand D is my BESTfriend and she'd get mad if i told him..ahhh helpppp I RATE HIGH!!!
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depnds.. I think you like C. it depends who youd rather be friends with
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good friends are honest with eachother. so be a good friend and tell them both the truth. i mean yeah of course they'll be a little upset at first, but they'll get over it, especially if they're your good friends. trust me ive been thought this.
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are you the only one who knows about D&&J, cuz if you are, you shouldn't do it, and here's the reason -- if you tell C, D will know it was you since you're the only one who knows. and then just tell C you're sorry and you didn't know. even if you feel guilty. who would you risk.. you're bff or your good friend.
but if you're not the only one who knows about D&&J, you should tell C and just tell D that it wasn't you who told cause then there will be more suspects then just you. ya get me?
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I think you should talk to your D and let her know how you feel about her going behind C's back with his friend. Let her know that cheating on someone is not a good thing and that if other people find out about this they probably won't think the best of her (if she even cares what others think). Personally I would not go and tell C about this because you would be getting in the middle of D and C's relationship and somehow one of them would get mad at you. Just tell D to approach C about it and end their relationship before C gets hurt anymore.
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Well you should tell your guy friend but i would make her tell him.. dont jus let her dump him and not tell him why make sure she tells C why she is dumpin him for another guy.. so if i was you id stay out of it til you think its the right time to get in it.. cuz you dont wanna get any drama started and you be in the middle and then have another problem for trying to help.. hope i helped..~*BABYD*~
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I think you should wait until D dumps him but then if he wants to know why i think you should tell him after all he is your friend. And if your worried about D dont sweat it if she's your friend she'll understand that you told him because he is your friend.
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