I am currently a junior and I'm on the gymnastics team at my high school. Out of all my friends I'm the one that people go to when they need to talk about something, need advice, etc. Overall I think I'm pretty good at helping people solve their problems.
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ok.. well i have these 2 bffs and weve been bffs since 5th grade.. im in 8th now and were all pretty popular (not to sound conceited) but 1 of them is like known by like very single person in my town and one is almost the same.. but the one that isnt as popular always gets me pissed off bec she trys soooo god damn hard to be like the other one.. whens shes not with the other one shes a WHOLE differnt person.. how should talk to her like about this w/o havin a big agrument?
srii if this was confusing lol thanx (link)
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I had a friend who tried to lie to impress other people. And eventually I just got so sick of it that I finally approached her and asked her why she felt like she had to lie so often. You might learn some things about your friend that you didn't know before. Maybe she feels like she lacks self confidence in looks, personality, etc. so she feels like she has to be fake to impress others.
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Me and my friend are going to New York this weekend. Were both 15 and we both have boyfriends that are 17. Then last night my boyfriend called me and told me that he was going to new york with my friends boyfriend and their brothers, who are in our grade. Well my boyfriend came over this afternoon and he told me he loves me (not for the first time) but we're both virgins and he talked about having sex this weekend at the hotel. I'm still not totally sure I want to, I asked a question on this before, but this is different... if i have any doubts do you think i should go for it or not? cause this is my one and only chance to be with my boyfriend for the whole weekend in a hotel.. if anyone can help please do!
thank you! (link)
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if you have any doubt whatsoever don't do it. you and i are still both at such young ages that thoughts of sex frequently cross our minds. And that this boy "may be the one". as corny as this is going to sound, after talking to my parents, yes my parents lol, i realized that majority of high school relationships don't last into college and live happily ever after. so my advice don't wait until your older and have had more experience in dealing with "maybe he's the one"
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ok my bestest friend the world ((lets call her D)) is going out w/ one of my Really close guy friends ((lets call him C)) and yesterday, D was talking to one of C's friends, let's call him J..and D said "if you tell me what C's getting me for christmas, i'll do Anything" and after awhile of persauding, J asked to makeout. and then eventually D and J both admited they had feelings for eachother. and they were all like planning where and when they were gonna do it. and J never even told her what C got her! and then D said to J "i think i'm just gonna dump C after all this, bc i like you more" so my question is, should i tell C..me and him are Really Really close..but on the other hand D is my BESTfriend and she'd get mad if i told him..ahhh helpppp I RATE HIGH!!! (link)
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I think you should talk to your D and let her know how you feel about her going behind C's back with his friend. Let her know that cheating on someone is not a good thing and that if other people find out about this they probably won't think the best of her (if she even cares what others think). Personally I would not go and tell C about this because you would be getting in the middle of D and C's relationship and somehow one of them would get mad at you. Just tell D to approach C about it and end their relationship before C gets hurt anymore.
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ok so my bff who i've known since 1st grade is being kinda mean to me. we are going to a new school now and well i get the feeling that she just wan to be in the "popular crowd". i'm "popular" in the sense that i have the most friends but not in the sense that i'm bff's with the girls in the "coolest group". i am really good friends with alot of girls in the "popular/coolest" group so i guess alot of people consider me popular. but my bff doesn't, so when i have classes with her and the some of the "popular" girls, which i always do, she completely ignores me or talks to me only when the "popular" girls are. so most of the time she only talks to me when the "popular" girls are and its kinda annoying. she's been ignoring me lately and ditching me alot for these "popular" girls. and it's nto just me who thinks this. our other bff's think so also. so we are all mad at her. me and my other friend the most cuz one time we all were partners for this day where we take care of these unfortunate little kids at a carnival type thing at school. anywayz she ditched us to hang out with my other really good friend who is like the most popular girl at school. she never came back to our group and we had to take care of two kids, but my other friends were helping us cuz they only had one. anywayz so she ditched us while me and my other friend took care of these two little kids. and at the end of the carnival she came back to say goodbye to the little girls. and she pretended that she had done everything with the girls that she had done the most work and that she should take all the credit. so now i am mad at her, and so are 5 other girls. i don't know if i should tell her that we're mad at her or not. or maybe we should just ignore her and ditch her like she does to us. please help me she is really gettin on my nerves even though i love her to death she's being a real biatch!!!!! (link)
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Alright since I've personally been in a situation like this before where my best friend decided that she wanted to be popular. I also consider myself fairly popular since I have a lot of friends, but this is what i did. Let your friend know how you feel about her ditching you, being mean, etc. If she apolgizes or realise her mistake give her another chance. If she blows off your approach let her go. Eventually, she'll realize that the girls in the "popular group" aren't really true friends. They have a tendancy to gossip, backstab and ditch their friends. Maybe then she'll understand were your coming from and come back to you. If not since your going to a new school you will have the opportunity to meet a bunch of new people, surely you can find someone else to be a good best friend.
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