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hey shannon i was juss wondering does it hurt the very first time you have sex because im scared ... i mean im not scared of the dick (lol) im juss scared its going to hurt me really bad and i feel left out because all of my friends have lost their virginity and i havent im the only virgin i mean i like this guy and he likes me and he wants to have sex but im juss scared to because im scared its going to hurt me so can u give me some advice on what i should do please
Thankiez
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i think you should wait till your married... eccpecially if your doing it because your the only virgin left in your friends group... dont giveinto the pressure, theres too many consequenses that would happen to destroy youe life. to destroy your friendships...
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If you're scared even a bit, it means that you're not ready for that kinda of feeling. You probably don't care about this type of opinion but I think you should at least think about it. If you are only going to do this to keep up with your friends, your maturity level needs to grow before you experience this with this boy. But that's just me. Either way, it may hurt a bit since it's the first time. But it shouldn't hurt too excessively. If it does, there's something wrong and you should stop immediately. Hope I helped. Hope you think about what I said to.
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Whos Shannon??
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You need to visit Shannon's column fiRst, and click the link on THERE to ask HER a question.... this just went out to the pool..
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It only hurts if you've never had anything shoved up there before. For instance, if you've been fingered a few times before, it shouldn't hurt as bad, but having that in you, I must say it does hurt but not a horrible "OH MY GOD IT HURTS SO BAD GET OFF ME!" kind of a pain. It just hurts a little, but trust me, you hardly notice the pain while you're doing it but the day after it starts to hurt. Also, having sex gets you emotionally attached to a person, so just make sure that you and the person really care about eachother and it's not just something to do so you can be like "Well, I'm not a virgin anymore" You don't have to do it because all of your friends are. But it's your choice, I'm not going to lecture you about it. Be safe! Don't forget your flavours ; )
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hi ; i kno your askin this to shannon ; but i been there ! .. it DOES hurt the first time .. and maybe the second ; just depends on how big it is .. im 16 and lost mine at 14 b/c of the same reason as you i was like the only one that hadnt had sex or atleast i FELT that way and i made a big mistake .. i mean the guy i did it with i liked but i def didnt love him as much as i thought ; so if i were you dotn worry about what other people think ; if you wanna have sex have sex ; this guy better be worth it .. u dont ever kno what hes gonna do ! i hope i helped if u can [ i jus started this site ] type back and lemme know how it went ! always smile!love mO
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