Hi everyone! Im 14 years old, i live in Sweet Home Alabama. I love playing basketball, going to church, and hanging with my friends. i also love the computer/internet. I am a Baptist Christian (if you need to talk about anything pretaining to christianity or whatever IM me) and im willing to share about my faith. Hope you enjoy my column!
Im sick of school (middle at least) i cant wait till this summer when i go to the beach and hang with my friends and my family. If you ask a stupid inapropriate question, then im gonna give you a stupid inapropriate answer.
Im not like most guys. (no, im not gay) I dont like fire or fireworks. Im not perverted or nasty, im not looking for a girlfriend. im not the kind of guy who looks at girls butts as they walk by, i dont care how bug your butt or boobs are. i dont care what you look like, im happy with smart, funny, good sense of humor, and someone who enjoys life. I just enjoy life, i dont care what people say or think about me. i have plenty of friends that love me, and thats all i need. My family is really good, but im not perfect, i have my problems and imperfections.. but im living. Living a great fun filled life.
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hello my name is muhammad amando chintagumpala. i live in kenya. all my life i have eaten bananas. bananas are my favorite food and my room is made out of them. except sometimes it falls apart or smells. anyways i love bananas but now i am moving to tanzania, where there are no bananas!! noooo i cannot live without the beautiful bananas! what shall i do to overcome this deadly desire for the wonderful yellow monkey fruit!!! i will suffer greatly from banana loss, for i am a monkey that climbs trees and scratches its butt!!!!!!!!!!!!! no i need the bananas!!!!!!!! (link)
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um.. i would say carry a banana with you to the place your moving to, and then plant the seeds in the ground so you can grow another tree there. but in the meantime.. get a life and find somehting else to do rather than ask stupid fake questions.
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If you cut all white foods from your diet (such as sugar and bread and all carbs) will you loose weight fast and still be healthy? How long would it take? (link)
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is that racist?
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Ok...I know this is a really stupid question but I think I have freshmanitis...lol
Ok, Finals are next week and I know I need to study but I just really don't want too.. I have good grades and I know I should take these finals as seriously as the ones last semester, but somehow I just can't...
How can I motivate myself? (link)
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you have freshman tities?
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Hey there! Im 13 and i kno i have a HUGE weight problem and i admit it!!! I live in such a small town with nothing to do!!! I skate to skool and bak (And becuz my house is out of my skool boundarie it is pretty far, i skate pretty far) but im still over weight and i try to watch what i eat and only drink diet soda and water but i sit on the computer alot and i need help!!!
Thanx in advance!!! (link)
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get off the computer and do somethign
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Theres this guy that i like. All his friends thinks he likes me and i think he does too. But hes real shy about it and wont admit. Well last night his friend invited us all over and a couple of my girl friends came over. The guy i like lives right up the street and they called him to come over but he never showed. Then today he was supposed to come to a party but he never showed either but his friends went. Does this mean he doesnt want to see me or what? (link)
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yeah know.. normally i would be nice. but im in a weird mood. so, like, mabey, just possibly.. he, now this is just a thought, had other plans. have you talked him and asked him why he wasnt there? or mabey ask his friends or somehitng... your probably over reacting.
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hey , uhm well you see i love my best friends bro . he asked me out . but the only thing is he is 11 and i am 13 . everyone is asking me if i am with him and i dont no what to do cuz i dont wanna get made fun of . please help me make my desicion signed
perfect flaw (link)
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if you love him.. then you shouldnt care.... relationships are many time broken because people are to afraid to tell their feelings.
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well theres this kid that liked me for a couple months, and i never really liked him back until he started liking this other girl and it got me real jealous, does this mean i like him or what. everytime i see them together i just don't know what to do.. its really upsetting me and i really don't know what i`m asking but do u have any advice...plz (link)
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its possible that you like him, or it could just be you liked the attention he gave you when he liked you and you liked the fact that someone liked you. (not saying hes the only person) its really not a good thing that your jealous. you cant control his feelings. just let him be.. try not to be jealous by getting to know someone else and mabey liking him. and most of all try not to show that your jealous, it makes a bad reputation.
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ok.. well theres these kids in some of my classes... theres alot of them and when theyre not all there its not so bad but when theyre all there (just one class) its bad. i sit in the front row and all they do it sit behind me and make fun of me. they always claim that i smell and they make jokes about it. theyre like the "popular" type so this is cool to them. i know i dont smell though. they just say that because that room has a weird smell coming from the vents. im not one of the popular kids so they do this to make fun of me. its no fun and i hate that class. trust me though, i dont smell, i thought maybe i did at first when they started but i put on stronger deodarant and i sprayed perfume. its definitly not me. how do i get these mean people to stop tourturing me? (link)
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lets see... theres many things you can do. if you dont care what they think of you or anyone else for that matter, then just tell on them, who cares if they call you a tattle tell or whatever. get them in trouble, but most teachers arent gonna do anyhting major for osmehitng like that. so just stand up to them, dont be afriad to raise your voice. and when you do, they will most likely laugh, and oyu may htink it did no good, but it did, it left a mark. amd eventually they will leave you alone.. you could also ignore them, and eventually they will get tired of their remarks not having an affect.
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My mom and I started going to church recently. I totally believe in God and I am 100% Christian. However, my dad was baptised (sp?) as a Morman, and neither of my brothers go to church. My brother A, isnt in to the whole believin in stuff type, hes more i'll believe it wen i see it. And Brother B just doesnt go to church. So my question is will my family all go to Heaven, or will my brothers go to Hell? I'd love answers asap please. (link)
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as a christian your Dad is going to hell if hes Morman. (as a christian that is) If yoru brother A doesnt believe that hes a sinner and believe that God died for him, then yes, hes going to hell too. Brother B could still be a christian, you dont have to go to church to be a christian. all you ahve to do is except Jesus into your heart, and know that you are a sinner. and confess your sins to Jesus. your dad and brothers stil have hope, you and your mom need to pray for them, and you can get the church envolved too, the more people the better. talk to your brothers too.. just about why they dont go with them, or just get them to go everyone now and then.
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ok to day i went to a bible study at school, I used to go to church and youth group but the youth minister left the church and i havent been back since....but anyway today when i was there things where really emotional...people were crying and they asked us to bow our heads and asked who wanted to be saved...the asked us to raise our hands and then the leaders came over and prayed over them...But I felt scared to raise my hand....Im regreting it now....I want God in my life but I'm afraid Ive missed my chance.
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youve never missed your chance.. its never too late to have God in your life. its okay to be scared.. but really you dont need to be, because everyone there doesnt care if you raise your hand, they will be happy to know that you are with them. and they will accept you, there is nothing to be scared of. but you dont have to wait until buble study or church to have God in your life. im not going to tell you any steps to having God because i dont know your denomination.. feel free to ask me a question or IM me.. i can help be more informed on how to go along with being saved.
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i am 13, and i got a boyfreind about a month ago. he was fun 2 talk to. lately, all he wants to do is kiss...and he is a bad kisser! he goes to private school, and is a year younger. i still like him, but it's sorta getting awkward for me. plz give me advice. i rate 5's if u give good advice.
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lol... when your are kissing ihm the next time.. kinda pull away and with a sexy smile, say "hmm.. lemme show you how to really kiss" and show him!
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ok well i have been best friends with illy,cassie for at least 4-3 years each.. latley now that were in high school and everything they always group up.. and i feel like ok .. should i walk away or just go with them... im never a follower.. i cant stand that, but illy has a boyfriend and her boyfriend obviously like cassie better than me.. the reason is i have no idea ! i mean her boyfriend doesnt bother me, but at times he does.. i dont know how to explain it.. any ways all last week i was dealing with alot of family problems, and both of them knew that.. so i wasnt all in a very good mood to talk even though i still did.. friday comes along and cassie and illy have planned to go to this dance recital at our high school, they didnt even invite me to go.. but i wanted to go any ways so i asked my good friend brittany if she wanted to go... so me and her went ! we got there and brittanys friend steven had already had our seats saved and about 3 others that if any of our friends showed up could sit there.. well i saw illy , cassie 2 rows in front of me.. i called illy to ask her something and cassie picked up the phone.. i said if they had plans to hang out with eachother afterwards and if we should all do something tonight.. cassie said no then hung up pretty much right away before i could ask if they wanted to come sit by me and britt.. cassie texted me saying ' why didnt u sit by us ' and i explained that steven had me, brittanys seats saved and that i wasnt really invited by them to go any ways.. she kept saying ' whatever ' so i finally said ' you know wut cass, this whole week you've been really bitchy towards me, not illy '.. and she just replyed thats pretty sweet.. and im like are you mad at me and she just said ' id rather not answer that ' so i was pretty much like forget it.. later that night through text i said i was sorry for whatever i did but it wasnt a good week for me until today but then u had to go ruin it by being a bitch to me for no reason..
... so now she said last night she wasnt mad @ me.. but she ingorned me completly today and when she was by me and illy she just talked to her..
i have no idea what to do, should i just ingore her ? or what ? please help.. ill rate ! (link)
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it sounds as if cassie is happy that she got a friend and she doesnt want to loose that friend and she doesnt want you taking her friend away. just ignore her.. and actl ike your perfectly fine and dandy, hang out with other friends.. she will get jealous eventually..nd if she doesnt.. you dont need her anyways, and if illy is a good friend she will realize what cassie is doing and she will come back to you. judst ignore her basically.. but sometimes all a person needs is someone to stand upto them and tell them straight how it is. some people dont see their problems.. so its up to us to let them know. :)
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Do you guys think it's okay to think that no matter what you do to me, if you apologize and are sincere about it, I will forgive you. That's how I've always been. I just feel that it take courage to apologize to someone after you've hurt them and if you do do it then you are truly sorry. I know sometimes people just throw around the "I'm sorry's" but most don't. Everyone makes mistakes (I know I do) and they need to be forgiven. What do you guys think of that? (link)
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if people apologize, and you know they are being truthful about it... then yes, you should forgive them. but some people will apoligize and still be sincere, yet they will do something again. at that point if the apologize again, and again... and so on.. then you need to tell them that "yea, your apologizing, and yea, your really meaning it, but you keep doing somehting over and over, and its becoming where i dont think your apoligy is forreal." you just need to know when people are being serious about the apoligy and when they are just playing you.
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I have been going out with this girl for about a month an da half and now people are telling her that i'm saying things that i never said in my life. Now she thinking about breaking up with me and I love this girl so much I can't live without her. What sould i do to keep her in me life
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let her know exactly how you feel.. and be serious about it.. tell her the people who are telling her that are jealous cant they cant have her.. be able to back up whatever you say too. follow your heart.
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My two friends are in an argument over a dress. I know it's stupid, but it just needs to end.
My friend went to the mall on Friday night and got a dress. Then on Sunday, my other friend went and got the same exact dress, only she didn't know the first one had already gotten it. We feel that whoever got the dress first should have it. That's the way our grup of friends has always agreed on these things. The friend who got the dress second went back to the mall and returned it- but got the same dress in a different color. Now they're arguing over it, and who should rightfully have it. I believe the two of them should either suck it up and deal with it, or both just get a new dress and not even worry about this anymore. Any input? (link)
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i think, if yall are friends it shouldnt matter, and besides if its the same color then not too many people will notice, unless it really stands out. but like, my friends would just laugh and if someone said somehitng to them about it theyd just laugh more. yea, they should suck it up. and if they cant its just immaturity. its just a dress, its not the end of the world.
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my friend is goin out with the guy i like and my other best friend likes him. how can i win him over the other 2?i rate high.
p.s. the other 2 girls are mad at me for certain reasons (link)
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is this a game? if not you made it sound like that. if the guy is going out with your friend, then he likes her. and if he likes her, then he must not like you. you cant make a guy like you, he likes who he likes, and its not a gamed to be played. and i dont htink i would want to loose my friends over a guy. a guy that you probably wont marry anyways.
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my crush doesnt like me anymore and i loved him now that i found out im hurtin so bad. i feel like my world has ended. i wanna cheer up help! f/13 (link)
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i know how you feel, except in my possition i cant have the person i want at all. you just have to try to move on.. and mabey its not possible right now, but you have to try.. and try to find someone else new. its may be the hardest thing ever, and you may not want to move on, but if your crusj doesnt like you then you ahve to move on, you cant let your crush get in the way of your life.
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What are those so called "love handles"? (link)
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heh.. its where your hip bones kinda poke out... but its fat too. like if you were holding a kid, its where their legs rest on. some peoples stick out more either because they have more fat or there hip bones stick out farther...
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hey shannon i was juss wondering does it hurt the very first time you have sex because im scared ... i mean im not scared of the dick (lol) im juss scared its going to hurt me really bad and i feel left out because all of my friends have lost their virginity and i havent im the only virgin i mean i like this guy and he likes me and he wants to have sex but im juss scared to because im scared its going to hurt me so can u give me some advice on what i should do please
Thankiez (link)
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i think you should wait till your married... eccpecially if your doing it because your the only virgin left in your friends group... dont giveinto the pressure, theres too many consequenses that would happen to destroy youe life. to destroy your friendships...
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I have to give a speech in fron of the whole class next week, and I'm absolutely terrified. I am really bad at speeches. I start shaking and I can't read my notcards. Does anyone have any suggestions to help me get over my fear? (link)
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dont think about it too much, you will shyche yourself out. study your cards and just relax, dont look at the students.. look aat a stop above them.. but dont just stare, if you stare it will look like you are nervous. i know that you think that everybody will be expecting your best and if they see your nervous then they will make fun of you, but who cares about them first of all. and im sure none of them would be comfortable in doing it so just dont worry about them. if you are shaking wh your taling it will make your voice shaky.. do your best not to chake.. just relax and do your best. youll be fine!
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