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Question Posted Monday May 2 2005, 7:55 pm

my friend is goin out with the guy i like and my other best friend likes him. how can i win him over the other 2?i rate high.

p.s. the other 2 girls are mad at me for certain reasons


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shescreams33 answered Thursday May 5 2005, 7:54 am:
you need to stay away from him until shes not dating him {he apparlentaly likes her}. then when hes not dating her you two can fight over him. but is a boy you kinda like worth losing two friends? if so go head try and get him but you will have two people who hate you and knowing guys he wont know whats going on and be clueless or hell fear change and not do anything. its your chioce... pleze rate
~sara~

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Shelbs4968 answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 10:29 pm:
well if your friend is dating him then you and your other friend need to stay off. how would you like it if you were dating him and your friends tried to get with him? i guess you just gotta move on

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Leigh answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 7:37 pm:
If these girls are already very mad at you for others reasons, why would you want to make it worse. I know if I was your friend I wouldn't be too happy if you tried to take my b/f. Listen this sounds like this could turn into a messy situation with all 3 of you likeing him. The guy does have a girlfriend. If I were you I would first reconcile with your friends and then see if there is someone else who catches your eye... who knows you could be over him like that..
~Hope I was of Help~

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duckyfernanda answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 5:16 pm:
I'd be mad at you if you were tring to take my boyfriend! You arent' much of a friend if you are this desperate to take your friend's man away. How would you feel if you were in her shoes?

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blazincutiex54 answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 3:15 pm:
just leave him alone he has a girlfriend

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wutsthehap answered Tuesday May 3 2005, 10:32 pm:
first you should talk to this boy and tell him that you like him but it kind of seems you r just being selfish,if you and your friends were cool you shouldn't loose that over a boy.

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mrs_radcliffe answered Tuesday May 3 2005, 2:09 pm:
There isnt really a way for your to get him, he will choose who he wants to go out with. But if your friend and best friend are liking him you dont want to make them upset. because my friends come first you have to think about whos more important.

luv roxie
XxX♥XxX

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OrionsFire answered Tuesday May 3 2005, 1:58 pm:
Well first, I think it's pretty crappy that you are trying to steal your friend's boyfriend. It doesn't matter that your best friend likes him, if he doesn't like her there is nothing she can do about it. Also, the same applies to you. If you don't care about losing your friendship or rumors being spread about you, then just ask him if he would like to do something with you sometime.

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Martini_Kiss answered Tuesday May 3 2005, 1:55 pm:
You just have to be yourself. You can't make a guy like you, so there's no use in trying. Just be yourself and hope for the best.

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karenR answered Tuesday May 3 2005, 1:46 am:
He must be some guy! You could just ask him out or something. If all these other girls are after him too, you may as well jump right in and nab him for yourself. Otherwise one of them might ask him first. :)

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XoGaByXo92 answered Monday May 2 2005, 9:30 pm:
if your friend is going out with the guy you like she is not really your friend. and your best friend would be able to like him but keep it on the down low b/c she IS after all your best friend. you dont have to win over anybody. jus find some one new.
HopE I HeLpEd
_**~*GaBy_**~*

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ballerina04 answered Monday May 2 2005, 8:59 pm:
There basically is no way to win him over. If he's going out with your friend, then he likes her. Maybe it's time to move on and find someone new; you don't want to fight with your best friends over some guy. Guys just come and go. There are many more opportunities out there. You don't want to ruin your relationship with your friends over this. Trust me; I've been there, done that. Send me something if you need more help. ♥ Kristen

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sublime_burritos answered Monday May 2 2005, 8:46 pm:
your friend is going out with him, she already won. you can wait your turn and hope that he likes you next, and maybe try to date him then, but you lost round 1, he's not going to be impressed by you trying to sabotage their relationship, and if he is impressed he probably isn't someone worth you guys fighting over. my friend always says "bros before hoes" when trying to get my boyfriend to hang out with him...it goes the other way too. you need friends first, try to patch things up with them, not steal her boyfriend. <3

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sdog1205 answered Monday May 2 2005, 8:24 pm:
You can't really win him over. I'm sorry to tell you if he likes more than them then he likes you more than them you really don't have any control over that. You really shouldn't be competing with your friends over a guy.

Good luck and I hope things get better for you

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Sw33t_Dr33ms_xOx answered Monday May 2 2005, 8:03 pm:
HEY! there really isnt much you can do for a fact you cant just win him over! If your firned is going out with him its not like they will go out until like forever they will break up sooner or later so I would just hold your horses and wait! Trust me you might get a chance too!!

xOx ViLLy*

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Teza answered Monday May 2 2005, 8:02 pm:
Why would you want to fight over a guy? Especilly with your 2 best friends. Dont try to win him over. You might not like my answer but its kind of silly to fight over a guy! They are your best friends! Just dont argue with them and apologize to them for whatever you did to get them mad. Maybe after they go out with him you could. Does he like you? Well if he doesnt like them and he likes you go for it. Talk to them about it tho and tell them you likes him way before and that its a stupid reason to get mad! X0`

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Angelkissedoxox answered Monday May 2 2005, 8:00 pm:
I dont know what you can do to win him over because if he likes your friend he is with then there really is nothing you can do to 'win him over'But if your friend that is with him right now knew you liked him before she started going out with him, then that is kind of wrong and you should try to talk to her about it and let her know how you are feeling. Thats the best I can do sorry hun

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Micah answered Monday May 2 2005, 7:59 pm:
is this a game? if not you made it sound like that. if the guy is going out with your friend, then he likes her. and if he likes her, then he must not like you. you cant make a guy like you, he likes who he likes, and its not a gamed to be played. and i dont htink i would want to loose my friends over a guy. a guy that you probably wont marry anyways.

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