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when i see like sex seens in movies and what not i get this weird feeling in my vagina...what is this? thanks
it means your horny
I've been researching modeling, and I was wondering what TFP (Time for Prints) means, or what it is... Can you help me?
tfp's are considered a waste of time. trust me...ive gotten that alot... if you ever think about it tho....only do it with professionals!!!!!!!!
how do i get rid of red bumps after shaving my legs??!!?! please help! i rate HIGH!
i had the same problem...try king of shves shaving oil for women. it really works its like $6 at drugstores and soften and soothes your skin
HoPe I HeLpEd
XoGaByXo
im fat {mostly in the winter}. ive tried crunches and deits and all i do is feel more hungary. at one time i was 131lb, i was good with that, now im 164lb then 159lb then 165lb. it keeps fluctulating. i want to be 131!!! please help me!!!
if you want to know i hav 2 places for you. camp pennbrook and camp shane. you should check them out...my opinion is pennbrook is good. if anything dont eat alot..you can eat a little of everything just not in excess. eat less carbs and excersise. if you get tempted to eat alot more than think do i want to get fat or do i want to be those 131 pounds? self esteem is your number priority. once that is boosted you can achiee anything!
HopE I HeLpEd and GoOd LuCk!
XoGaByXo
P.S promise me one thing....dont stop eating ever! TrUsT Me ....its not the answer!
I'm 16 and I have this friend I have known for like 5 years. She's like a sister to me and I love her to death. The bad thing is that I feel like I can't trust her. I went to my ring dance and I didn't want to go with my ex-b/f who still likes me and I didn't want to hurt his feelings so I didn't tell him. Well I told her and my other best friend not to tell him or mention anything about the ring dance to him. Well they didn't and everything was ok and all then he came up to me at karate class (we take karate together that's how we met.) and told me that my friend had told him I went to ring dance with someone else. I couldn't believe she told him then she was talking about me to this other guy that I didn't like but he liked me. I stopped talking to him cause he was bad news and all. I don't know what to do with her. Please help me.
~confused chica~
dear confused chica:
ive been through something similar to this. i would talk to this girl and be like hey you know what im trusting you with information to stay between you and me if you cant handle that than my information is going elsewhere. as for your ex b/f tell him that he needs to understand that you guys are not together anymore so you have the ability to do what you want to do. but still tell him that hes a nice guy and that you guys can still be friends.
HoPe I HeLped
**~* GaBy **~*
my friend is goin out with the guy i like and my other best friend likes him. how can i win him over the other 2?i rate high.
p.s. the other 2 girls are mad at me for certain reasons
if your friend is going out with the guy you like she is not really your friend. and your best friend would be able to like him but keep it on the down low b/c she IS after all your best friend. you dont have to win over anybody. jus find some one new.
HopE I HeLpEd
_**~*GaBy_**~*
lately, ive been thinking a lot about my first love. thes this other boy and we're pretty into eachother, but i havnt been able to stop thinking about my first love lately. its gonna be a year now that met and we fell in love over the summer. is this normal? is it just cuz he was my first love? or do i still have feelings 4 him?
its possible that you still have feelings for him. its totally normal. after all he was your first love. its hard to get rid of your first love because....well.....he was first. now youre with some other guy so dont get to caught up with your first. but yes it is totally normal....even to still hav feelings for him.
I ADORE MY MOTHER! and i feel a little bit bad about writing this, but i think i should because i dont noe what to do anymore. let me begin... i go to an all girls school, and towards the end of last year and over the summer was when i really started meeting guys. so, the first times she would sit right next me and watch what i was saying. and she still duz that. she doesnt sit by me when im on the phone anymore, but this summer i was on the phone w/ my first love, she would sit there and listen to everything we said. but, she still sits by me when i'm online and i dont noe what to do. cuz, now its beginning 2 feel like a security to hav her there because i dont noe what to say to guys. and when im on the phone, i do! and she updates my profile and goes to places for quotes and puts them in my profile while im @ school and makes me invisible. and i dont even like the quotes sometimes. i've tried talking to her. and ive tried to get other people to talk 2 her... like my aunt, and a friend of mine. and when i tell her, "im gonna tell tia," she goes, i'm not afraid of ur aunt. and she duznt listen to my friend either! i dont noe what to do anymore. when i talk 2 her, she says she'll stop and then she doesn't. i cant change my passwords b/c she'll get mad. but, she's a single mom and i'm her only child. i understand that we're close, like best friends, but i'm 14 years old and i need a little privacy
if you ignore her and act like you dont care she is there she will probably think o she doesnt care anymore so why do it now. if you react to it she will want to do it more because she is going to think youre hiding something from her or something like that. so it makes sense to just act like she isnt there. but also have codes like 24 could mean my mom is here again lets talk about school or something like that. i had the same problem and i dont have to worry about it again.
GoOd LuCk!!
Ok I've been out with this lad 8 times, and he kept using me but then the 8th time i went out with him he sed he'd learnt his lesson but then i found out he fancied my best m8 and when he was with her he'd flrt with her and when he was with me he was really romantic we had our first snog then our second and it felt so good but then the next day i fell out with my best m8 and he dumps me over falling out with her and then they both ept being nasty to me and calling me nasty names and i end up geting really upset and then the teacher makes me apoliges to them when they've really upset me but I still madly in love with my ex and now I feel really depressed what should I do?? please help me i'll rate anyone who does 5
have you ever heard the saying" there are plenty of fish in the sea to choose from"? well it means that this lad isnt the only one youll ever meet or fall in love with. there will plenty of other to choose from...so dont rush anything.now your ex lad and your "best m8" dont really seem very nice so try not talk to them very much. if they ever try to make up with you just say that you would rather not get hurt again.
GoOd LuCk!
I'm really close to my cousin who is 2 years younger than me (we're both girls). But its the fact that we've been around eachother our whole lives that makes us close. If it wasn't for being related, I would never hang out with her. All her life, she's been a follower and there is absolutley nothing thats unique about her. AT ALL and I'm tired of it. When the whole "skater" thing was in...she pretended to be a skater. Now that the "punk" thing has been in for awhile shes followed that. I know, I know..."some people like it, so let them be". But she's always posting things like "peace" "drop food not bombs" blah blah blah because her older brother does it (he's a punk, but he's been a punk for awhile and he's truly into it). So she's going around posting all this crap, and she has NO CLUE whos running for president. She has NO IDEA on politics whatso ever and here she is posting all this crap. Another thing is her vegetarianism. She became a vegetarian because her brother and all of their punk friends were vegetarians. I asked her why she became one, and she would not answer me because she had nothing to back it up with. Its cool that she doesn't eat meat--I don't either (I don't eat it because of health/personal reasons whereas her brother does it for the animals) and I have no problem sharing that with people. But her on the other hand... yea. And she's embarassing to go places with because of the way she dresses. Her pants are super tight and she'll sew the bottoms for them to look like that and she's not exactly skinny or someone who would look good in those pants. The other day, her pants ripped in the butt area and she was embarrassed. Then she shouldn't wear such tight pants. She can afford regular pair! Thats what she buys at the stores. Its not the fact that shes "punk"...its the fact that its all a stupid little show. And she's such a drama queen too. I'm so sick of her. She hardly takes a shower and she thinks she's the best at everything, I'm not even kidding. She thinks she sings really, really good and everytime I sing in the car really low to a song on the radio, she'll hear me and start trying to sing over my voice (I'm not even singing loud in the first place, so I don't know how she can hear me). Her voice is TERRIBLE. Even my other family members talk about it behind her back. To sum it up...my cousin is so unoriginal its disgusting. I know the world is full of people copying other people, but some things you only see once or twice. But everything on her is like every sellout thing imagined. And she's so self-absorbed. I'm sick and tired of it. But because we're cousins I can't just tell her all of this. How can I tell her in a more polite way to stop living off of what other people do or say and start becoming your own person?
tell her that you have noticed all of her sudden changes. tell her something like" im not trying to be rude or anything but i think it would be best if you were your own person and not your brother or anyone else....if you were unique. people like it when your not trying to be some else. and no offense but no one likes a wanna be. i would rather you hear this from me than you hear it from some one else".......just say something like that.
hope i could help.....GoOd LuCk!
okay theres this guy named ryan. i love ryan. ryan says he loves me.. but me nd him get inalot of fights.. not big ones though they last like 1 hour. soo today is my birthday.. me and him were gonna hang out and i walked really far to hang out with him and then he callz my cell and says he is hangin out with (people i hate) kansa and victorea... (there on drugs) i got mad.. very mad.. nd started to walk home.. then when i get home he callz my cell again and says wanna hang out.. and it was like 8 so i was like no and blah blah then i notice he was ingoreing me.. i got mad.. and i told my friends the story. he hurts me.ditchs me.. they think i should forget about him but idk what i should do i really love him.. i cry myself to sleep every night thinking about him.. every mintue of my class i cant stop thinking about him! should i leave him or no?
p.s me and him are not going out .. we love eachother though.
please help i rate high!
i dont think it would be okay for you to go out with him again. he hangs out with the wrong people. itll be hard but you have to move on. you have time to fall in love all over again
ok well i used to go out with this boy im not saying his name tho and well he treated me with respect and he cared about me and he would always see how my day was and cheer me up he was the only guy who could ever make me laugh and smile when i was crying or deprssed and then i dumped him for another guy that i thought was sweet but apparently not becuz he keeps telling me and with alot of force in his tone to give him head and to have sex with him and i reallie miss the guy i dumped becuz he was the closest thing to perfect that i had in my life and when it was just me and him it felt like nothing else existed but me and him and the least i could have done was treated him with respect in return. and this is all my fault!!!
plz help me
aw that other guy sounds so sweet! look, just dump this new guy. he cant force you to do anything and he doesnt sound like he is worth any of it. this other guy sounds super sweet. if you care about him that much then go for it. talk to him about how you feel and try to fix things with him. be like hey listen i was thinking and you came across my mind. i thought about it and i made the biggest mistake ever. i dumped you and i didnt want that. i love and care for you so much and whatever and then be like will you ever forgive me and take me back....just say something like that.
GoOd LuCk
lastnite i was on the fone with my boyfriend and my mom kept coming in saying she needs the phone and i wouldn't get off cause my boyfriend and i were in the middle of a conversation. So... she took my cell phone which in this case my dad bought for me (parents are split up) and i pay for monthly and she only did it to waste my minutes. so when i got off the phone i walked into the living room and there she was on the couch talking on my phone and i got pretty pissed off about it. So... i tried grabbing it from her and told her to give me my damn phone but she pushed me away and slapped my arm and then she finally got off but she wouldn't give it to me and she went and got the home phone so again i tried grabbing for my cell phone and she pushed me into the wall and started choking me and cussing at me and so i called her a fucking bitch and she pushed me onto the couch and punched me in the chest and in the face and slapped me across the face and kept saying what did you just call me and i tried kicking her off me and then i finally got her off me and she goes to my stepdad you wanted her here then you can stay with her and she left..... thats just the background... but my question is what am i supposed to do, I have a HUGE mark on my neck from where she was choking me and now i have worse breathing problems (i have asthma pretty bad) i mean like should i call the poilce or should i call child services i have no idea what to do!! HELP ME PLEASE
this is really serious. if i were you i would go live with my dad but still call child sevices because she had no right to do any of those things.
i have been seeing my ex on and off for 3yrs.we were going out steady for 2yrs and i dumped him. hes messed me about really bad i realy like him still and he wants to try again, but i dont no what to do. female 18yrs old! dave is 22.
i say dont do it. chances are he will do it all over again.
I told my friend that i loved him. I wrote him a letter and basicly told him that I loved him and that even though we can't be together now I hope in the future we can be more than friends. (he moved to NC) Well he wrote me back and said cool. and then he's been ignoring me for the past two weeks. Well tonight I had a new sn on aim. and I IMed his sister..obviously thinking it was her lol. and he was like this is justin. and all I could say was "oh" and so he was like "oh. that's what i am to you!" he really confuses me. I mean if he liked me the same as I like him why won't he say it?! when i had a bf and it old him he said "we can't have a long distant relationship?" and when he lived up here by me. we would be close and hug and sometimes kiss each other on the cheek. i just don't know what's happening with this. I'm fine with us being close friends but I can't stand him acting like that. what should I do? we never really talk anymore. and it seems like he doesn't want me to every talk to him. and it makes me sad to know I'll never talk to him agian.
oh? thats not very love like. he obviously doesnt love or like you....or care for you so just let him go and move on.
wow, I don't really know what category to put this under, so I guess it works under friendship.. kinda. Anyway, I started cutting, I don't know why but I did. I don't want to, but it's really addicting.. 0.o so it's hard for me to stop. Only on of my friends knows and I just met him and I like him alot.. he cuts to, so I feel conferdable talking to him about this.. he doesn't do it so much anymore but I wonder if he is worried about me, I know my step brother is.. he knows to. Well he doesn't really know he just thinks I do it and he knows that I have a BiG possibatly of doing it.
When I look at my scares.. I cry, and I think 'is this really who I am?? is this really me??' cause I don't seem like this kinda girl who would do this.. I am real caring and nice and funny.. so I don't get it.. how do I stop.. do you have anything to tell me about what I wrote? just anything, please.. I wana stop.
--Thanks.--
--I rate all 5s--
hi. this one is easy because i just stopped about a week ago. i went to a therapist and asked what i could do to stop. she said to wear a rubberband around your wrist. every time you feel like cutting u pull back on the rubber band and let go. cutting relieves your pain, stress, depression...it "hurts". the rubberband thing hurts but it doesnt leave scars. it may sound weird but its true and its helped me alot. cutting can be fatal so you might want to stop now. i hope you didnt use something like old scissors because they can be infected. i hope i helped and good luck!
Why do guys get angry when you have only been dating two months and they tell you they love, but if you don't feel comfortable saying it back they all the sudden don't love you? Especially the only reason you don't want to say it is because that is when people start getting hurt!
i think that if you dont feel comfortable to say i love you back then dont. no one is forcing you to say it. if that guy cant understand the resons why or the fact you just dont want to than he is not worth it.
I like this guy. ill call him "carl". and i already went out with him but people told me that he cheated on me so i broke up with him. and after that i got really sad cuz i still loved him. so i called him a week later and we talked for an hour. and we became friends again which made me happy. then he asked my friend if he should ask me back out and she said yes so i thought he was gonna. then one of my friends told me she likes "carl". so i got really sad. then he asked her out and now they are going out. but she told me before he asked her out that they made out a little. i was gonna cry. and i REALLY REALLY want him back. what should i do? i rate good
If you want to know the truth i have to say that if your so called best friend is really your best friend then she shouldnt have made out with the guy you like and have gone out with. even if its just a little it doesnt seem right. i went through this same thing so from experience i am gonna tell you that he never really liked you....there are better guys out there that will treat you better then this guy "carl" did and your best friend is not really your best friend if she said yes. bestfriends dont go out or make out with bestfriends ex boyfriends. its just not the right thing. talk to your friend and tell her how you feel....if you feel confident enough take the chance and talk to carl too.