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To trust or not to trust?
I'm 16 and I have this friend I have known for like 5 years. She's like a sister to me and I love her to death. The bad thing is that I feel like I can't trust her. I went to my ring dance and I didn't want to go with my ex-b/f who still likes me and I didn't want to hurt his feelings so I didn't tell him. Well I told her and my other best friend not to tell him or mention anything about the ring dance to him. Well they didn't and everything was ok and all then he came up to me at karate class (we take karate together that's how we met.) and told me that my friend had told him I went to ring dance with someone else. I couldn't believe she told him then she was talking about me to this other guy that I didn't like but he liked me. I stopped talking to him cause he was bad news and all. I don't know what to do with her. Please help me.
~confused chica~
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dear confused chica:
ive been through something similar to this. i would talk to this girl and be like hey you know what im trusting you with information to stay between you and me if you cant handle that than my information is going elsewhere. as for your ex b/f tell him that he needs to understand that you guys are not together anymore so you have the ability to do what you want to do. but still tell him that hes a nice guy and that you guys can still be friends.
HoPe I HeLped
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Talk to her. Tell her that you don't appreciate her going behind your back and betraying your trust like that. Tell her how you feel. Let her know that you don't know if you can trust her anymore because she goes behind your back. If you talk to her and tell her how you feel then if she really cares about your friendship she will stop and realize what she did. If she doesn't then you just can't tell her secrets anymore. You can still be friends with her but just don't tell her things that you don't want other people to find out about.
Good luck and I hope I helped
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if you feel like you can't trust her with your secrets or anything then you should talk to her about it,and if she does it again after you've talked then you should probably end the friendship and find someoneelse you can trust and all that!
Good Lucks!!!
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Don't fight her talk to her. She might have a reason she told or maybe not. If she's a real friend she'll have a good excuse. But do you even know if she's really the one that told him. He could be making that up. But you should definitely check it out. Because after you lose a friend, it's hard to get them back.
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let her know that you know what she did and ask her why? most likely she will lie but tell her you know what _______ (< her name) im sick and tired of your lying and i would like the truth right know please we have been friends for 5 years and i think it's about time you fess up! .. etc. let me know how it goes etc. hope it helps..
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Hey confused chica ..
i know exaclty what your going through because i have a friend exactly like that! its hard to know what to do because all of my friends are friends with her so its not like i can just ignore her .. and plus news travels fast .. im going to tell you what i would do even though this doesnt work for me because idk she can be so mean .. sit down and talk to your friend .. hopefully after a while you will be able to resolve all of your differences .. if not take it from there <3
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