ok, i'm am in love with this one girl. and we've went out before but she said that she wasn't ready. (that was about a year ago)ok lately i've been hearin that she hates my guts and that she likes one of my friends.and me and her haven't talked since last year. so wat do i do? (rate very well)
TJ answered Monday May 2 2005, 6:17 pm: Well this girl that says she hates you most liky doens't...she might just have a bit of grudge from when you dated..and if your datng some one else she might be jelouse...best bet is to ask her why she is saying his [ TJ's advice column | Ask TJ A Question ]
x0CheniseLynn0x answered Monday May 2 2005, 5:16 pm: You should ask her about your problem. See what she has to say because gossip is vicious and it might not be the trouth. As for her likeing your friend theirs nothing that you can do about that. You can tell her how you feel and see if that helps. [ x0CheniseLynn0x's advice column | Ask x0CheniseLynn0x A Question ]
Khrysty answered Monday May 2 2005, 5:10 pm: see if she reall hates u first. then if she likes your frined they might go out and break up in ike a week, then u can try to ask her out again. [ Khrysty's advice column | Ask Khrysty A Question ]
FunnyCide answered Monday May 2 2005, 4:57 pm: TALK TO HER! Get her E-mail address, IM screenname, something! Talk to this chick, and just take it slowly; just as being friends. If she hates your guts, it'll show. And if she DOES hate your guts, you'll know she wasn't the right one for you anyway. When you're talking to her, if she 'flirts' a bit, that's normal, and she probably still has feelings for you.
All you can do is follow your heart and talk to her.
-FunnyCide [ FunnyCide's advice column | Ask FunnyCide A Question ]
xoxhayley answered Monday May 2 2005, 4:56 pm: Well You need to talk to her yourself about it. You can't have a relationship over what other people say, and you know people talk a lot of sh*t somtimes. Also, be honest with her, and tell her how you feel. Just talk on the phone, or hangout if you want somtime and descuss everything. But since you said you havet talked for a year, then maybe she has moved on- but that shouldnt stop you from wanting to know whats up and talking with her. You should always be agresive with a relationship- Well of course i mean like don't just sit there and watch some1 you like, fall in love with some1 else. You could miss a lot of oppertunities if you do that. And if you find out that if the rumors are true, then you just need to move on babe. Never get cought up on one person. If she doesnt like you anymore, then find another girl, and maybe some time later on you too could have a relationship, who knows. But if you really like her still then just have a talk with her- no big deal. Good luck! Let me know what happens, or ask me a quesiotn anytime* hope i helped [ xoxhayley's advice column | Ask xoxhayley A Question ]
vchicka15 answered Monday May 2 2005, 4:53 pm: first of all find out if its true that she hates you.. start to talk to her and be a little flirty. compliment her and show her you are interested.. if she doesnt like you then life goes on.. youll meet more girls.. you dont need her.. need any more help just ask.. good luck [ vchicka15's advice column | Ask vchicka15 A Question ]
charmed3fanatic answered Monday May 2 2005, 4:52 pm: talk to her! i doubt that she hates you!... do you always listen to what people say? you shouldn't .. i odn't think you did anything wrong for her to "Hate" you.. tell her how you feel how you really like her.. and all.. girl love to hear that stuff im telling you! let me know how it goes and if you need to ask me anythign else let me know! [ charmed3fanatic's advice column | Ask charmed3fanatic A Question ]
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