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i cut and my friend are asking alot of questions about my cut and i feel really bad about lying to them but i dont no what to do
You should be able to confide in your friends, you should let the know about what you and, who knows maybe theyll help you be able to stop. You shouldn't have to lie to your friends.
some people think that i'm fat but i dont think so. i mean i watch what i eat, and excersice daily. But, i cant lose weight. and i have a lot of friends who are super skinny, and they make me feel fat. what should i do, because i want to look more skinny i just dont want to me anerexic.
plese write back,
chunky monkey?
Thats lame. People shouldn't say that. If you feel that you're not fat then you should just go with that.People in life will try to put you down and all you can do is live with it and go by what you know. I wouldn't pay attention to them, Just keep exercising everyday ,not everyone fits the "mold" and it wasnt meant to be that way. If your happy with your size and you feel okay with yourself than dont care about what others say about you.
how do you deal with rumors and gossip. i really don't care what ppl say i just have a hard time showing that i actually don't care, so how do i show people i really dont care?
You block them out and if you cant then act like it doesnt matter to you. Tell people how you feel let them know that they can take that shit and shove it up their ass because you dont give a fuck.
im so sad ever sinced i moved away,i found out that my friends [[not all,some]] didnt like me,people here are so mean.i need advice :(
fuck them its not like you live there anymore anyways move on and forget about them because you dont need them.
K today this guy i like , came up to me and hugged me. He held me for atleast 5 minutes. Then when we got of the buss after school, he kept huggin me, and he asked me if he could hold my hand , and i said yes. So he did, then he asked if he could kiss me , and i didnt know what to say. So i kept quiet. Then my friends walked me home from their house, and he followed us. My friends are saying he likes me, but I dont think he does. What should i do?!?!?!?! i rate high. Please help. oo and hes 15/m and im 14/f
Tap that yo.
hey...i'm thinking of getting my cartilage peirced does anyone know if it hurts and how badly? and also like whats thing like if its in a certain ear your gay and if its in the other you aren't..?
I think its guys arent sopose to wear earings on the right side? but yeah it doesnt hurt that bad its not like fall over on your side hurt, its like a slight pinch.
ok, i'm am in love with this one girl. and we've went out before but she said that she wasn't ready. (that was about a year ago)ok lately i've been hearin that she hates my guts and that she likes one of my friends.and me and her haven't talked since last year. so wat do i do? (rate very well)
thanks
You should ask her about your problem. See what she has to say because gossip is vicious and it might not be the trouth. As for her likeing your friend theirs nothing that you can do about that. You can tell her how you feel and see if that helps.
my life is messed up. all my life it seems like i've been trying to find the perfect guy for me. but they always end up liking my cousin or friend. like now i like this guy and i thought he liked me. he was flirting and messing with my emotions. and today he asked another girl out and for her number that happens to be my friend. and last year i liked this guy and he started dating my friend. and most of the time all the guys like my cousin because she's pretty. i feel like a nobody. but i really want to get to know that one boy that likes my friend. what's wrong with these boys.. better yet, what's wrong with me? and i'm not the kind of girl that gets stuck on one boy but i really like this one. how could he do this to me?
Aww Sweets,
their is nothing wrong with you. The guys who like your friends and not you fuck them, You can find better most likely. This one guy have you talked to him? if you havent maybe you should and get to know him, let him and your friend know how you feel about him. Your cousin may be pretty but im sure you are too. You shouldn't feel like a nobody,just because boys aren't your forte doesn't mean you're worthless.
Is it normal to think your boyfriend is going to break up with you? I don't like being online because most of my relationships ended that way and I'm afraid of getting notes... My other two relationships were pretty bad and I dunno...Am I too paranoid?
I think you are. Chill out get online and talk if its not meant to be then no matter how hard you try to avoid it its not going to be its called fate. Live your life to the fullest and charish what you have while you still have it instead of worrying about when you wont.
Ok I am not happy with my life right now....and I have no idea why...I have friends and a bf who cares soo much about me...I'm a good student and I'm Secretary of my class at school...I have a lot going for me but I feel so empty inside...Please dont think that this is just for attention because thats why I cant tell my friends how I feel...I just feel like I need help...most of those things I said above were true but I messed up most of my friendships and lied to my bf about things. I'm a cutter and a snapper and I need help sorting out my life.
Maybe you feel empty inside because you have messed up friendships and lied to you bf about things. Maybe if you tried to go back and make some of these friendships work and come clean to your boy friend then you would feel better. You shouldn't cut, that might have a thing to do with it too. For you snapping you might want to take anger management classes.
How do you know when your boyfriend/girlfriend is ready to have sex? I'm ready, but I don't know how to find out if he is.
You ask them about it.
Ok I have this very disgusting habit of chewing on things. It started out innocently by chewing on my hair, pencils but now it has progressed to almost everthing. I chew on the strings on my clothes. Drinking straws, Ive chewed through a few pencils and exploded a few pens. I'm not a druggie or anything but idk why i do it. Its like a nervous habit but it is really gross..any ideas on how to stop?
You could find a good substitute (sp) for the things you chew on like gum or somethine like that.
people always say i am outta style and im worried because i really want to fit in what should i do!
You should wear what you want to and do what you want to do and if others dont like it then screw them, "lifes to short to be cool." It shouldn't matter if you like it.
what is the difference between tights and panty hose? I need ot get black tights but i don't knwo what the difference is.
I think tights are thicker than panty hose.
I don't know why...but I hate my own race...I'm not black or white..But i just find my own race annoying and dorkish..I know that's mean but I don't know why I feel this way! Am I a racist?
If you hate your race, then yeah I would think so.
i need a new screen name? can someone please help me. i want something with hollister,abercrombie and im really preppy. any ideas? thanks
uh x0HollisterBabe0x or x__abercrombie ? eyeah im not good at making screennames.
What things make your face break out or makes you get pimples?
Well, i know some makeups do like foundation and eyeshadow and oily things such as if you rest your hand on your face for a while.
are men (guys) supposed to masterbate?
haha yes its completely normal what else are they soppose to do when they get horney?
okay.. so theres this boy that likes me who i really like also... he told his best friend that him and i were going to go out.. but he hasnt asked me yet... his best friend tells me that hes most likely going to cheat on me... so thats a bummer right? well.. i realy really like him you know but i dont want to be cheated on.... so i thought maybe i could go out with him but not think much of it.. but that wouldnt make the relation ship work... than i decided i could realllly dedicate myself to him and that would stop him from cheating on me.. but no one wants their heart brokend.. WHAT DO I DO!?!?!?
signed... helpless!
Well helpless,
You should go out with him if you really like him. Life is a gamble and you have to take risks, Maybe he wont cheat on you, youll never know unless you give him a chance.
Well i put some blonde streaks in my hair and ive got like one side which is quite gingery and the other is really blonde! lol i dont know what to do i cant go out like this it looks such a mess please help xxxx lush me xx
go out and buy more hair die and streak the other side.