okay.. so theres this boy that likes me who i really like also... he told his best friend that him and i were going to go out.. but he hasnt asked me yet... his best friend tells me that hes most likely going to cheat on me... so thats a bummer right? well.. i realy really like him you know but i dont want to be cheated on.... so i thought maybe i could go out with him but not think much of it.. but that wouldnt make the relation ship work... than i decided i could realllly dedicate myself to him and that would stop him from cheating on me.. but no one wants their heart brokend.. WHAT DO I DO!?!?!?
x0CheniseLynn0x answered Sunday May 1 2005, 8:53 pm: Well helpless,
You should go out with him if you really like him. Life is a gamble and you have to take risks, Maybe he wont cheat on you, youll never know unless you give him a chance. [ x0CheniseLynn0x's advice column | Ask x0CheniseLynn0x A Question ]
piinkdiiamondsz_17 answered Sunday May 1 2005, 8:46 pm: tell him that you really like him.. but you dont want to commit to a relationship thats gonna end up with being cheated on. if he really likes you, he should confirm with you that he wont hurt you, and that he'll really dedicate himself to you (or something of that sort). if he can prove to you he'll be loyal, he's a keeper, otherwise, hope this helps!
laughxwhore answered Sunday May 1 2005, 8:42 pm: i know its not much. but stay away from that kind of relationship. i know. i cheated on my boyfriend twice. it broke his heart and me breaking his heart broke my heart. i haven't yet been the one who got cheated on, but i've been in relationships similar to it and it sucks. it causes drama and hearache that people dont need. and this boys friend who says that yall are going to go out? how do you know he's telling the truth? if it were me i would just stare at the guy and wish he were mine and totally not get involved. plus maybe this guys friend just wants you for himself so he's making it up. who knows, i think you should find out a little bit more before making a choice.
love always,
shelby [ laughxwhore's advice column | Ask laughxwhore A Question ]
gomesy1189 answered Sunday May 1 2005, 7:58 pm: So he's a cheater and such... and maybe a bit weird???... Weird cause he told his friend you gys were going out when he didnt ask you... idk how you guys are... Maybe him saying this shows that he likes you???.... there is nothing wrong with taking a chance... every relationship is going to hurt... that's what helps it grow and become stronger...
LoveNJstyle answered Sunday May 1 2005, 7:53 pm: no matter how much you dedicate yourself to him, he will still cheat. this guy isnt worth it and either way, you are gonna end up hurt. please try to move one...hes not worthy of you. <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
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