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Hey it's Michelle!

For a little about me, i like shopping, boys, listening to music, hanging out with friends, partying, talking, and MTV.

Ask me anything, & ill do the best i can to help! i wont lie to you, im not like a counselor or therapist or something, but ive helped my friends get through rough times and ive been through some myself! i really do appreciate ratings! tell me your honest opinion of my answer. i need to know where to improve!

MiiCHELLE..*

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Whenever im out at my cousins house all of the guys think im hot ( this is in a different city) But when at school no guys really think i am. I think im pretty except my smile, i really need braces and im getting them in about a month, do you think thats why no one at my school thinks im hot?

i would think its because when you're at your cousins house you probably open up more, since you know them more because their family, and you dont have a big concern about them thinking your weird or something.
while at school, you might be self-concious and keep to yourself more. you should try opening up so everyone can see what a sparkling personality you have!

btw, guys think confidence is sexy, just so you know.


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heyy okay well i have these 3 BEST friends and they're really cool and everything but .. they're always going out and doing things without me .. i'm always secluded from whatever they do but whenever i'm with them they're really nice ! and plus they are all really pretty and always have great guys in their life and i really don't have many .. what am i supposed to do ?? i'll rate you HiGH if you help me out here !

try inviting them to hang out with you.
this way, you can hang out with them, and dont have to wait for the invite. once they see that you're a fun person to hang out with, they'll start asking you do things with them. ♥

hope this helps! :)

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for my myspace i want a song on it and i know what to do and everything but i have never had just a song and not the music video so could anyone tell me where to go to get the song because it doesnt have a video yet if your wondering its Sophomore Slump Or Comeback Of The Year by fall out boy...thanks

try www.musicgalore.net

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i have a problem opening up with guys. it is kind of weird. i like guys and all but when i acually am with them (date) it seems to weird. like i go back in my shell. how do i keep from doing this?

try going on group dates with some friends!!
this way you can still have fun with them and they can tell what a great person you are! this will also help you to open up more and be more outgoing around guys!!:)

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ok, me and my best guy friend figured out that we like eachother. and so he asked me out, and it didnt last too long cause it got weird. and so now we still like eachother but latley he has gotten all snippy and mean when we are around other people, but when he is just with me he is a sweetheart. i am soooo confused and i dont know what to do. should i talk to him or just roll with it?

i would give him the cold shoulder for a little while.
when he askes whats up [showing he cares and is taking interest] tell him he needs to straighten up his act. he's being a jerk! if he cares, he will change for youu.♥

hope this helps! :)

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kayy well i was going out with a really cool guy and this girl that used to be my best friend asked him out when we just broke up and she told him she asked me that it was ok to go out with him but she never asked me. so im really mad at her. but now the guy wants to go out with me again but he doesnt like to say no to people like the other girl but i hate her now so i feel like getting back at her so this is the best thing i can think of. is it ok???

you can get back at her. just dont make it obvious.
if she had never said she asked you if it was ok you would have no reason to get mad. you might feel a little jealous or something, but it would have been best of you to hide it. i think its stupid girls fight over guys when really they should be mad at the guy.
but since she said she asked and she lied, you have the right. just go back out with dude, and rub it in her face. dont make it too obvious though..


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hey i need help BAD! Well you see i like this guy and i know he likes me but now i'm starting to get tired of him, if he likes me a lot and i say no, i can hurt his feelings really bad what should i do?

oh goshh, i have been through this many times before!

whenever you have those "moments" when there is nothing to talk about, start talking about a guy you like. make up one if you have to! be like.. "yeahh.. so this guy freddy is soo hott! omg i think i really like him!" or to something of that nature. if he thinks you like someone else, he'll try and move on-- and you wont have to break his heart.

hope this helps! ♥

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I like this guy *dylan* and he used to (at least it seemed like it,) flirted with me last year and im at a different school this yr, and he keeps giving me the wrong email address, and my friend keeps telling him he better give me the right one and blah blah blah!! i don't know wut to do!!!!!!!!! please help!!!! :(





ahhh. i hate to say, but maybe he doesnt like you anymore. i would say probably because a) he found someone else he likes, or b) he knows you like him alot and got a little freaked out [guys can be jerks like this.]

if you really like him, dont give up hope. just back off him for a little while. if he thinks your obsessed with him or something, thatll freak him out. if you give him the picture that you're not and you just wanna be friends, he'll loosen up. once you get to this level, you can go in for the kill again.

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Hey, I get bored at school super easy and my boyfirned isn't in anyone of my classes! Anything I could do to help the go by after my work is done? Thanks.

-text messaging is a great thing :)
-listen to your IPOD, CD player, MP3.. etc.
-passing notes
-write notes to your friends/bf [not in your classes] to give to them later, and when they write you back read them in this spare time!
-even drawing sometimes, i have a few pictures of a few teachers i hate hahaha
-read a book.. & if your not into that [i know im not] bring a magazine

hope i helped! :)

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well see i like this guy, and he has a girlfriend... but we have all our classes together and none w/his girlfriend. so he's always flirting with me and saying "i love you" but were just really good friends and i think he likes me too, and my friends think so too... so i'm confused. he always wants hugs from me, and he'll say "you don't love me anymore..." and i'll say, "how do you know?" so this one time he said "well i know for a fact, that if i asked you out right now you'd say no" so i never thought he was saying i love you like that... so, does he like me? sorry so long and confusing

he totally likes you:)

&& if you like him back.. you should bring it back at him. with all his "i-love-you's" you should be like "i know you dont love me because you have a chick" you see what im gettin at? you dont have to be serious about it, just see what his reaction is, because it sounds like someones got the major hotts for youu!

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Well i got my girlfriend a really nice gift for her birthday...well not gift....more like gifts....they were pretty expensive all together....but its her first birthday since weve been going out....and weve been going out for about 4 months now....do u think really expensive is a bad or good thing?

believe me, any girl will love expensive gifts. :)
plus, it shows you really love her, because you are willing to sacrifice for her (im talking $$ hun).

++just make sure you dont have a gold digger on your hands ;)

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I recently asked the question about how my guy friend and his girl broke up and how I wanted to be there for him. Well he asked me to help, and today I tried to talk to him about it. I said do you and her now have an undertanding? he was like yea. I said so are you ok? and he goes it sucks but I'll live.. I have to go. Then leaves. What the hell? Im trying to help like he asked me to and then he leaves? Whats his problem? Should I leave him alone or say something?

leave him alone until he askes for your help again. breakups are tough, and people like to keep it to themselves and be left alone. when hes ready to come out, hell ask for your help. for know, just give him a break, hes going through a really tough time.

MiiCHELLE..*

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My boyfriend & I broke up over a month ago. We haven't talked alot and he has moved on already with a new girlfriend. I've still been trying to get myself back together over the breakup and I have started flirting with guys & getting back in the game. I'm just still hung up on my ex and it feels horrible to know he moved on so quickly. How am I supposed to let him go and finally be able to let myself be happy with my life? He was the only serious boyfriend I had & we were together over a year. I really need to move on.

you have to relize he's not as great as guy as you thought he was. it'll be tough, but you have to pull through. just try to spend a lot of time with your friends to keep your mind off him, and to have a good time. and dont be afraid to gloat. :) lol. what i mean is, dont be afraid to do the same thing hes doing. show off in front of him to prove you can have a good time without him. keep looking for a new guy, and you'll find one, dont worry. hope this makes you feel better!♥

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I have a friend and we used to be best friends, but now i dont want to hang out with her or anything because i've noticed that shes always making fun of me and trying to make me look bad so i dont want to hang out wit her but she always is making plans that include ME.
so how can i tell her that i dont want to hang out with her without hurting her feelings?

give her cold shoulder for a little while. it should get her to relize shes doing something wrong. she'll ask what, and you tell her that it really bothers you when shes that way, and you dont wanna hang out with her until she gets her act together.. which is true. hope this helps!

MiiCHELLE..*

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I like this guy (I'll call him Nick), and recently, his friend (I'll call him Joe) found out that I like him. Before Joe found out, he kept teasing me that I liked someone who I didn't like, I really hated him actually. Now that he found out that I like Nick, he never shuts up about it!! It bugs the heck out of me! Does anyone have any advice, I will rate high to anyone who is serious. Thanks in advance!

hmm.. maybe you could tease him about liking someone who you know he doesnt like. he'll get mad, and tell you to stop. then you guys can come to a deal where if you stop, he stops. it might sound stupid, but sometimes you just have to fight fire with fire. anyways, hope this helps!

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I'm a senior and my motivation for school is absolutely gone. I want school to end so I can get out, run to never land and not come back for ever and ever. No, but anyway, my grades are dropping...and dropping fast. Specially my English AP grade. At the beginning of the year I had an A and now it's barely a C. Last six weeks I got a F. I need to bring my grade up to a B so I can pass the stupid class and I have 3 weeks to do it. I know I can but there's nothing there. I'm so fed up with school that sometimes I just don't give a shit. Any ideas?

ugh. i feel your pain! i know im like 4 years younger than you, but hear me out. my grades have been dropping too.. i didnt do any of my science homework last week! but i relized school isnt out yet, and i had to stay focused. plus, i have to maintain good grades to get into higher level classes in high school. (which is like your situation, only for college) we had a test coming up, and i studied hard for it (havent got grades back yet.) anyway, since i thought about that, ive been trying harder. just think of all the reasons you should stay focused, and do your best! before you know it, school will be out, and summer will take all of your worries away!♥

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okay well i have these like basketball shorts things i want to wear tomorow... well i dont really know what to wear... but i think i want to wear basketball shorts... but im not sure what kind of shirt nad accessories to wear with it!! please help me!! i need some ideas of what to wear with that!! or someother idea for what to wear... i want to look laid back and not too made up... but i have no idea!!! please help me!!

whichever you wear, definatly go with a white t-shirt, itll give it a cute/sporty/comfy look. then i would suggest putting your hair up in a ponytail or bun, whichever you prefer. then go with stud earrings, for a cute-but-not-too-preppy (for what your wearing) look, and a matching necklace. then to tone it down a bit, go with a matching sweatband on your arm to add more "baller-ness." hope this helps! (i lovvee fashion!♥)

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this might sound a little dumb, but i need to know. see, my family's Catholic, but i haven't had my first comunion or anything, and i almost never go to church. i have NEVER read the Bible. i don't know all those stories my friends talk about adam and eve or anything. so for example, when i forget that i'm not suppoed to eat meat at that time of year or something, my friends ask me "aren't you Catholic? you're not supposed to be eating meat." so i just say i don't really have a religion. is that ok? or is that bad? i really do believe in God and have faith in him, but technically i can't say i'm catholic if i know nothing about this religion. i have no idea what it's about. also, i disagree on certain things i've HEARD the religion believes. am i right or what? just tell me what you think about this situation...i give 5's if i like your answer...if it's not dumb.

religion is when you follow a belief. if you dont follow/believe the belief of the catholic religion, then you wouldnt consider your self catholic. try a different kinds of churchs. my mom is catholic but im baptist, and i go to church with my grandma. just find the religion that suits you best for your belief in God. Hope this helps!

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OK so i like this guy, Jeff ALOT. We have been friends FOREVER and now he is acting kind of strange... a couple months ago we had a school dance, we danced together and i was SOOOO happy. I thought he was going to ask me out.. he was giving me all the right signs.. slow dancing, not telling me who he likes when he ALWAYS does and waiting for me after every class but he never asked me out and still hasnt. Do you think i should tell him how i feel? i would make a totally BIG fool of my self telling him this and then him not liking me.... is this just a friend thing? ive tried to make the first move by hugging him but still nothing... plz help i like him.. ALOT!

go for it! but take it slow, first start with a lot of flirting, to see if he gets the message and askes you out. if not, go ahead and ask him, it sounds like he really likes you. if he rejects you (which i doubt) just think of it this way: hes not as great a guy as you thought he was. keep this in mind: NO GUY IS WORTH YOUR TEARS! if your embarassed, you can say something like you were just kidding, or "just trying to see what you would say" hope this helps to get your guy!♥

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I am terrified of asking someone out and being rejected. I don't want to be made fun of and it would hurt me. I have always seen boys I like go because I have been to afarid to say anything. I don't want that to happen with the current guy I like. So my question is how do I get over the fear of rejection? Thank you.

no guy is worth your tears. just think of it this way, if he rejects you, hes not as great of a guy as you thought. hes a loser, and not worth being hurt over. if you want to ask him out but are really scared of being made fun of if rejected, i would suggest getting a friend to ask him. this way, if he says yes, youve got it made, and if he says no, you can say your friend was just kidding. hope this helps, & hope you get your guy!♥

MiiCHELLE..*

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