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He's giving me ALL the right signs... why arent we going any
OK so i like this guy, Jeff ALOT. We have been friends FOREVER and now he is acting kind of strange... a couple months ago we had a school dance, we danced together and i was SOOOO happy. I thought he was going to ask me out.. he was giving me all the right signs.. slow dancing, not telling me who he likes when he ALWAYS does and waiting for me after every class but he never asked me out and still hasnt. Do you think i should tell him how i feel? i would make a totally BIG fool of my self telling him this and then him not liking me.... is this just a friend thing? ive tried to make the first move by hugging him but still nothing... plz help i like him.. ALOT!
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I've had that problem before, tell him how you feel because its obvious he likes you alot too. When this happened to me i found out like a month later that the kid had really liked me too but was to shy to say anything and if i would of said somthing then we probally would of hooked up. Good Luck hope it helps.
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if i were you i would just kind of keep what your doing. mayb he isn't ready to be dating you, or dating anyone. but it sounds like he likes you. you gotta make him want you tho, n play hard to get !! hope i helped, good luck with him!
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I say you Reall ought to confRont him on this. Just set aside youR feaRs, and go foR it! It's the *ONLY* way to know FOR SHORE if he likes you oR not; you can *ASSUME* he does all you want... but you'll neveR know *exactly* how he feels unless it's coming stRaight fRom his lovely face. Also, it'd pRobably be a good idea foR you to bReak the ice and tell him you like him fiRst. Yeah, it may be difficult and embaRRassing, but if you want an honest answeR fRom him.. the best way to achieve that is by letting HIM know exactly how YOU feel. You can do; I have complete faith in you; and I think you should too. Go get 'em, TigeR! =D
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Well, we already think he likes you. Weather or not he wants a more serious relationship is what you have to figure out. I think the best way is going to be to just ask him. We all have to risk looking like a fool once in awhile in order to find things out! He may be thinking the very same thing! Ask him to a movie or something, if you have to do it at school you might run out of time and you are going to need some time to talk it over. Good luck :)
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go for it! but take it slow, first start with a lot of flirting, to see if he gets the message and askes you out. if not, go ahead and ask him, it sounds like he really likes you. if he rejects you (which i doubt) just think of it this way: hes not as great a guy as you thought he was. keep this in mind: NO GUY IS WORTH YOUR TEARS! if your embarassed, you can say something like you were just kidding, or "just trying to see what you would say" hope this helps to get your guy!♥
MiiCHELLE..*
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give him some more signals,and then if nothing happens,then tell him how you feel and tell him to be honest,and if he says no then know that their will be other guys that are perfect for you!
and to answer your question if he says no(which he probably wont since your prolly a really good person)anywayz,if he does say no,it might be a little akward after that,so just be cool about it and dont pretend like you didn't ask him!
xoxo~Heather~xoxo
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