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i am suppost to go to this party tonight with a couple of my friends. this guy i know wants me to go so i can hear his band play. But most of the people there ((except for like 6 people)) i dont really know very well, and dont really like to much. I kinda want to go but wat if the think "why is she here?" so should i go? and the guy is gunna ask me out there, and i kinda wanna say yes, and i kinda wanna say no.. wat should i say? Ill Rate! (link)
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you should definently forget what they say,go out and have a good time with your friends!
and you'll know what the answer is by the time you start hangin out with the guy and stuff!
x~GoOd LuCkS~x
xoxo~Heather~xoxo
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i really like this boy, and my friend found out that i liked him, and she's being stirring rumours that arent true and she found out that the boy i like has alot of common things with me and she is trying to be his perfect image which is me i recently found out that they are going out what should i do
i dont understand why she didnt want to tell me to see how i feel about it
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she probably likes him too and is jealous that you have more in common with him than she does,and you should tell her how you feel and stuff.you should probably start hanging out with this guy and being friends with him,and he might like you alot since you have lots in common!
GoOd LuCkS!!~
xoxo~Heather~xoxo
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OK so i like this guy, Jeff ALOT. We have been friends FOREVER and now he is acting kind of strange... a couple months ago we had a school dance, we danced together and i was SOOOO happy. I thought he was going to ask me out.. he was giving me all the right signs.. slow dancing, not telling me who he likes when he ALWAYS does and waiting for me after every class but he never asked me out and still hasnt. Do you think i should tell him how i feel? i would make a totally BIG fool of my self telling him this and then him not liking me.... is this just a friend thing? ive tried to make the first move by hugging him but still nothing... plz help i like him.. ALOT! (link)
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give him some more signals,and then if nothing happens,then tell him how you feel and tell him to be honest,and if he says no then know that their will be other guys that are perfect for you!
and to answer your question if he says no(which he probably wont since your prolly a really good person)anywayz,if he does say no,it might be a little akward after that,so just be cool about it and dont pretend like you didn't ask him!
xoxo~Heather~xoxo
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I am terrified of asking someone out and being rejected. I don't want to be made fun of and it would hurt me. I have always seen boys I like go because I have been to afarid to say anything. I don't want that to happen with the current guy I like. So my question is how do I get over the fear of rejection? Thank you. (link)
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just go for it,and if they say no,then just know that their will be other guys!
xoxo~Heather~xoxo
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I'm 16 and I have this friend I have known for like 5 years. She's like a sister to me and I love her to death. The bad thing is that I feel like I can't trust her. I went to my ring dance and I didn't want to go with my ex-b/f who still likes me and I didn't want to hurt his feelings so I didn't tell him. Well I told her and my other best friend not to tell him or mention anything about the ring dance to him. Well they didn't and everything was ok and all then he came up to me at karate class (we take karate together that's how we met.) and told me that my friend had told him I went to ring dance with someone else. I couldn't believe she told him then she was talking about me to this other guy that I didn't like but he liked me. I stopped talking to him cause he was bad news and all. I don't know what to do with her. Please help me.
~confused chica~ (link)
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if you feel like you can't trust her with your secrets or anything then you should talk to her about it,and if she does it again after you've talked then you should probably end the friendship and find someoneelse you can trust and all that!
Good Lucks!!!
!~xoxoHeatherxoxo~!
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ok my best friend jayla thinks she's pretty and acts like she the prettiest one in the world. I don't like the way she acts. Her personality I don't like. She be calling other girls ugly at one minute and then the next minute, she sees her givng someone eles candy, she(jayla)holds her hand out, and expects that girl to give her candy. Now I don't know if I should be her best friend and I don't know if I shoudl even be her friend at all. She sometimes be calling me and my friends ugly, and I hate that!!! I sometimes feel like saying something mean back. But any thing that comes out of my mouth that is mean, it sometimes goes too far over the limit. she think I forgot all the things she be syaing but I don't!! and she also don't be having my back. If I were to get in a fight, then she wuold just watch. But my other friend Cornita promises she will have my back, and she do. I like Cornita alot, not like that, but as a Best best friend forever and always. Jayla, she used to be a good best friend to me now she isn't. (link)
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dump jayla,she sounds like a real snob to me,tell her she can either stop all this crap or take a hike!
***Heather***
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My brother died 2 weeks ago and I really don't know what to do. I lived with him because my mom died 3 years ago and my dad used to beat and rape me. He was more like a father than a brother to me and I really don't know what to do. I've been staying with my friend until I get a foster family and she is always asking me if I'm ok and I'm really not. I don't know what to do with myself. I even tried drugs and I've been drinking a lot. I just want to kill myself and I'm so scared of what's going to happen next. I love him soo much and he was pretty much all that I had and now he's gone. I haven't even cried because I just can't, does that mean that there's something wrong with me? Why can't I just cry like normal people do when something happens to them? I really think that I'm a horrible because I can't even cry for my own brother. Please help me (link)
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i was like that before,when my dad died,but then i just decided i really needed to cry and let it all out and stuff,so i did,i thought of all the stuff we did together and thought of him and i cried for a loong time,and now i feel much better and im not holding the tears back,so dont drink,or take drugs,it wont help at all,think of him and just cry,dont hold it back,dont let it build up inside of you.
lots a luv,Heather,im me if u need to talk or anything!
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Ugh I'm chinese..yeah yeah..the first thing that comes to mind are those tiny tiny eyes..whatever..but yeah i'm so insecure of myself.. is there anything i can do to make them look BIGGER?! pleaseeee..(don't say surgery!..im only like 13) but yeahh please help..here is my ratins system: (5)-great advice, (4)-ok advice but somewhat questionable :-\ (3)-about to fall off the curb kinda ok but useless advice, (2)-unhelpful and useless,(1)-if you critisize me or basically give useless advice..thanks in advance! (link)
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ha,know what your goin thru sister,im a bit eskimo,and i've got those kinda eyes,the ones that look like their half open,you should be PROUD as hell to have those kinda eyes,i kno i am,there REALLY rare to have those eyes,they look so exotic and different which is soooo awesome,guys will totally think your the cats meow,lol,having those kinda eyes is kewl cuz the best part is people will say...those arent regular!i lov having these eyes!me,u and our eyes ROCK!im or something!!!!
lots a luv,
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Hey um... Me and My boyfriend were all okay until one night me and him made out and see before we were boyfriend girlfriend we were like brother and sister (We had a brother sister relationship)
So once that night we made out and I asked him about what he had thought and he said, "I feel as if I am kissing my sister so I was like ok!" So we took it slow and then anthor night he came over we kissed like twice and he still says I feel like his sister then come to find out he says I am almost starting to feel like his girlfriend what should I do see him or Not??? I'll Rate just leave sum answers
Mwauh Taryn (link)
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hm....kissing your sister...a little strange,lol,jk
well,ask him if he likes kissing his sister,or if he feels a little uncomfortable with it,or just ask him he could stand kissing his girlfriend!
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Lately i have been sad all the time im never happy anymore im always mad and sreaming or sad aand crying.. why im i like this all of a sudden..
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it could be a sign that your bi-polar,which is when your in one mood,like happy,and then the next minute your really mad and grouchy,my friend has that.if you are bi-polar,or if you want to find out,go to a therapist,they can tell if your bi-polar by talking to your for a while,and if your therapist tells you that your are bi polar then she has to write a perscription to the doctor so you can take medication for it,or you can just talk to your mom about it too!
good lukkkk
lots a luv,Heather
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okay so im not like fat but i dont hae a flat stomache and i liek take my moms diet pills and take them every morning, i dont really think they do anything but who knows.. i just wanna like get a flat stomache i think i need to do sit up to this tape i have but idk i dont ever have time and i dont wanna like throw up all the food i eat i think thats gross but does it work faster than sit ups?? (link)
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dont take diet pills if your not fat,that definently won't help,start eating more,that may help it,and do sit ups,push ups and stuff,so the goal today is eat more,not lots more,just more than you eat right now,and workout!
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i think i'm bi because i like girls and guys. i really like one of my friends like that but i have no idea if she is bi too. i think she might be but i really don't know. whats something i could do to let her know i'm a little interested, without freaking her out? (link)
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um...start kinda throwing it out there,like say,soooo i kno this girl whos bi,shes really nice tho.and see what her reaction is,if that doesnt work,play truth or dare,and when she picks truth,ask her about it!
good luck with it!
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What things make your face break out or makes you get pimples? (link)
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soda,and junk food,try eating healthy foods and drinking more water,that will make your face smooth and clean as silk!
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So I really like this kid. I went out with him last year in 7th Grade for a month and in 5th Grade when we were young which didnt mean much. Last year I didnt like him at all really and now I just cant stop thinking about him! We flirt all the time and two of my friends have said to me I think blank likes you and my other friend asks if I like him .. and I really do! When my friend said to him [ hint hes not friends with this girl ] she said to him well dont say anything but blank likes you and he said well were really only friends. We have beeen sitting on the bus together and always are smiling talking and making eye contact. There are so many signs but im not sure if i should get over him or do something about it? please help!!! (link)
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confront him about it girl!talk about it and stuff,and if your REALLY desperate to find out...then kiss him,that should definently help you find out,if there are sparks and all that good stuff and he smiles,then you TOTALLY know he likes you,but if not,then just get over him and move on to someone who you like and who likes you back!GOOD LUCK!
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people always say i am outta style and im worried because i really want to fit in what should i do! (link)
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who cares what other people think,it only matters what YOU think,your clothes shouldn't make you fit in,it should be your personality and everything great about you to make u fit in!find some friends who like you for YOU!if you think your clothes are cool,then thats ALL that matters,keep your head high and keep a high self esteem!
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sorry is this is long but I really need help so please don't skip over it
Ok my parents have been divorced my whole life I don't even know who my dad is. Well my mom has serious problems with finding guys. They usually beat her or cheat on her. I've had about a dozen stepfathers and all of them treat her like shit and she doesn't deserve that. Well my newest stepfather Richie has been with my mother for 2 years now and she is really happy with him. I've never seen my mom this happy before. He is soo nice to her. But the thing is he has a son (my stepbrother) who is constantly hitting me and raping me. I tried talking to my mom about it and she said that she would talk to my stepdad and my stepbrother. She did and then it stopped for a little while but then he did it again and it was even worse than it was before. He had a couple of his friends over and they thought that it would be fun to beat and rape his 14 year old step sister. I talked to my stepdad and he told me to stop making things up. He told my mother that I was making things up and they sent me to a shrink. Needless to say my stepbrother continued to do these things to me. I confronted my mother again and she told me to talk to my stepdad. I did and he told me that I was lying and that even if I wasn't I needed to get over it because we are a happy family and we all have to make sacrifices I told him that that was wrong and he hit me! Now he's been hitting me too when my mom isn't around. I don't know what to do. She is soo happy and she deserves to be. I don't want to ruin this for her. My question is should I just deal with this so that she can be happy or is there anyway that I can get help without ruining this for her? (link)
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take a deeeeeeeeep breath....that probably doesnt help does it?but still......this guy needs to be put in jail,right now it doesnt matter what your mom wants,concentrate on what YOU want,you CANNOT let him do this to you anymore!call the cops,your mom will understand,sooner or later.you cant let your stepdad and stepbrother put you through this crap ANYMORE!im serious,talk to a guidance counselor at your school,go stay with a friend or a family member where your safe!im really SORRY this happened to you,if you need to talk or need anything,go to my column,myblankyandme1367,and talk to me!
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