Member Since: April 26, 2005
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Last Update: April 26, 2005
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I'm so fed up. A year ago I moved house and I hate it where I am now. My 'friends' hate me, they're always making fun of me and sneering at me and saying stuff about me which isn't even true. They're just so immature and I don't join in with the childish things they do. So they call me boring. I never go out, I just stay at my computer at weekends because I have no friends to go out with. I hate my life so much. I used to have the best friends in the world, and sometimes I cry because I miss them so much. although I sort of keep in contact I've only seen them twice and I can't get used to not seeing them everyday at school like before. I want to move back to where I came from because my friends hate me, but my mum likes it here and won't move back even though she knows I hate it. She says I'll get used to it and she doesn't understand. I think I have social anxiety anyway but she doubts it, it's like she thinks bad things can't happen to us or something. It's not really the actual place, just the fact that I have no friends, no life and my old friends are so far away and I miss them so much. I can't make new friends because I'm way too shy, I can't just go up to people and start talking, they probably hate me anyway. I often think about dying and stuff but I'm too much of a wimp to actually do anything though. Please help, I need to get my old life back, but how can I when I have no friends and I can't make any more? Thanks x (link)
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I know how you feel i have moved schools and making friends can be hard. Dont let that get you down though, this new town must have something, like is there a sport you are interested in? if so join it, you have nothing to lose.
At school hold your head up high, dont be so negative, just smile. Draw yourself away from the computer, go for a walk, try something different, talk on the phone to your old friends.
If you cant make any new friends, consider something like maybe boarding school? or moving to a different school in the same town if it is big enough.
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Every year i have a friend party. This year i want to have something rly cool and i want to have like eveyone there. The only thing is i know a theme might b totally nerdy but i need some ideas for my party. Like games we can play and stuff we can do. I have a rly big backyard so i want to have it there. Any ideas??
*~Sam~* (link)
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1. If your having it at night, get everyone to wear anything black and white. You can get these lights which make the white glow so it looks really cool as its pitch black and all of a sudden you have this person that goes past and they have like a white glove on or something.
2. chocolate never goes wrong.
3. just aim to have fun and that way everyone else does, dont worry about it it will all work out.
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okay..im ending my freshman year. I realized theres one thing i know i could do for the rest of my life, thats play basketball. Now theres a real problem which is im only 5'4 and i dought ill get to much taller maybe 5'7 5'8 IF im lucky. Well this summer im gunna train for ball but STAY on JV so I can be with the same coach. Im talkin bout followin a strict diet all of that.
Do you just think im wastin my time? I mean I do live in a small town where hardly anyone gets noticed and i do have a height disadvantage. (link)
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Do you love Basketball? If you really do then pursue it, dont let your height get in the way of things that you really want to achieve. Just keep on trying and one day if its really what you want to do then just go out and do it.
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