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no friends, no life..
I'm so fed up. A year ago I moved house and I hate it where I am now. My 'friends' hate me, they're always making fun of me and sneering at me and saying stuff about me which isn't even true. They're just so immature and I don't join in with the childish things they do. So they call me boring. I never go out, I just stay at my computer at weekends because I have no friends to go out with. I hate my life so much. I used to have the best friends in the world, and sometimes I cry because I miss them so much. although I sort of keep in contact I've only seen them twice and I can't get used to not seeing them everyday at school like before. I want to move back to where I came from because my friends hate me, but my mum likes it here and won't move back even though she knows I hate it. She says I'll get used to it and she doesn't understand. I think I have social anxiety anyway but she doubts it, it's like she thinks bad things can't happen to us or something. It's not really the actual place, just the fact that I have no friends, no life and my old friends are so far away and I miss them so much. I can't make new friends because I'm way too shy, I can't just go up to people and start talking, they probably hate me anyway. I often think about dying and stuff but I'm too much of a wimp to actually do anything though. Please help, I need to get my old life back, but how can I when I have no friends and I can't make any more? Thanks x
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WOW! This is perfect! Honeslty, I went through the SAME EXACT THING!
I moved when I was a freshman in highschool-- lost most of my friends (altho some stayed in contact) and I had no friends here and the people were a little less than retarted.
Seriously, just stick it out. You are a strong person wether you realize it or not. However, the sooner you realize that things arent going to change, and ou mite as well make the best of your bad situation, then its just going to seem worse by the day.
I know it will take a while, almost a year and a half for me, but you really cant put a time limit on your emotions. Just give it time. The poeple will ALWAYS be stupid and immature, but you just have to learn to deal with it until you can break free, then hay-- look at the bright side-- you dont have to see them anymore!
I hope all works out for you soon :)
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I know how you feel i have moved schools and making friends can be hard. Dont let that get you down though, this new town must have something, like is there a sport you are interested in? if so join it, you have nothing to lose.
At school hold your head up high, dont be so negative, just smile. Draw yourself away from the computer, go for a walk, try something different, talk on the phone to your old friends.
If you cant make any new friends, consider something like maybe boarding school? or moving to a different school in the same town if it is big enough.
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hey hun, i know exactly how you feel. i was part of the pretty, cool girls i guess in most of middle school then they completly ditched me so i was with a bunch of weird girls who were juet immature. so i chose to stay in and sit infront of the computer. i think that u should be on a sports team or go to the movies or mall and youll definetly find friends.. IM me sometime to talk xox
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dear no friends,
if you are in reasonable distance from your old friend call them and ask them to meet you at your favorite place to hang out maybe twice a week or have a sleep over at a different friend's house every weekend. as for your new friends, they are not really your friend if they cant accept you the way you are because there is nothing wrong with you.
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