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I don't even know if I should be worrying about this...but I've been at a new public middle school for four months now. I have eight friends that I hang out with, and the rest are people I say "hi" to. I'm a really shy person, and I know that's part of my problem. How do I get those people that I just say "hi" to as my true friends? And I'm afraid that I ever try to hang out with these friends they'll think I'm weird or something. I keep getting nervous that I'll never really gain these true friends. I don't want to be forever that new girl that nobody knows or cares about. Please help, I rate fives. (link)


How do I make the font "Terminal" supported by Mozilla/Firefox? I asked on the support forums on the site and I had no idea what they were talking about.

thanks. (link)


Hi. i have got a laptop bought for me for xmas and when i get it i want to have broadband internet on it and use it wirlessly around the house but what do i need to get in order to do this? (link)


how do you pronounce gynecologist (link)


my boyfriend is scared that my dad is going to find out about me and him!! idont want him to be scared but at the same time i am scared too!! what do i do?
xoxx (link)


hi my friend shes always soooooooooo obsessed with the hair on her stomach and back. What am I supposed to tell her. IT gets me really crazy.
Is there anything she could do to get rid of it. Do a lot of brunettes have a lot of hair on their stomach or back. Whenever she asks me these questions I kinda blank and say beats me.
But please tell me so she can shut up about it.
Oh sorry shes 13 a dark brown brunette close to black. Shes worried guys won't like her because of it because shes never seen any girl with hair on their stomach or back etc. etc. etc. Help me make her feel better. BOYS she needs your advice as well. Oh see also wants to know if brunettes and blonds have a lot of hair on their stomach or back? Thanks (link)


ok me and my friend are really close she is like my sister but a year ago she started to hand out with other people and she gets drunk every night and does drungs and parties a lot (i mean i party to but not like her) and i have notest she has started cutting heself and she has just been mean to me and if any of u read me last advice u kno i just found out that i am pregnet i try to tell her and talk to her but she just wont talk to me......plz help me i dont now what to do i am soo confussed i am scared of lossing my best friend-----thanks (link)


my friend says shes gonna kill hetself how can i stop her without telling anyone (link)


there is this one girl danielle i cant stop thinking about we used to be friends and went out but we broke up then we stoped hanging out for a while but then some guy hit her and i relized how much i still liked her so i went and beat him up pretty bad (concussion hospital) but that led to some consequences like got arrested suspended broken knuckle suspension from school lawsuit but i liked her in such i way i didnt care what happened and then we were real close for a while but one day she stoped talking to me and ignored me pretty much and i thought i was over her but then the other night i had a dream about her that made me relize i still had feelings for her i dont know what i should do i cant stop thinking about her
can some one please help me
14/m (link)


ok so the other day i put on a pad from my moms package of em (they were light flow ones) just to see what a pad would feel like when i finally got my period. well omg it was like wearing a diaper, it was huge on my underwear and i couldnt even like move in my pants lol cause it itched and was so big.. why is this what am i going to do when the time comes for a pad! (link)


Hi i'm kaytee and this is my story: well i got my boyfriend last summer and im seriously in love! ever sice school started things have changed...almost every boy at my school says im hot and sexy, how they wanty me and how they would die to do me..its because my breast size changed and all that....well when my bf finds out he gets furious and he blames it on me! sometimes he gets so mad that he'll hit me and sexually abuse me (even though i do have a sex life w/ him) anyway sometimes it gets really serious and i know that breaking up w/him is not an option. even thought he does this i would never break up w/ him because i love him to death and i know he loves me..he does this because he always wants me and wants me to keep me forever. and also i know that he has anger mangement but id still rather be w/ him than break up you could just suggest things i can say it would be a HUGE help..thank you!
xoxo
kate (link)


I quite often wish that I am more ill than i actually am. I found myself wishing that I could be in hospital over a christmas at some point. I was always ill as a child and spent a lot of last year ill with depression and glandular fever and in a way... i miss it.

I find myself exagerating all aches and pains, I almost like the pain sometimes.

I feel so messed up, do any of you guys ever feel like this? (link)


Here it is. I was going out with this girl and I fell in love with her, but she broke up with me and said she didn't know if she like me anymore. So I of course was devastated. But I started talking to a friend of hers who I never talked to before about it. She was very nice and helpful and we kept talking and I started to like her. We were kind of going out behind my ex's back and she found out and flipped saying how she still liked me and was going to ask me back out, but eventually said she was over it. So all three of us hung out one night( I know awkward huh?) So I was real qieute the whole time my ex was there but my ex and the girl I liked were being goofs like girls do. And when my ex left I stopped being qieute and I was playing around with her. I stuck my hand up her shirt, but did not touch her breasts. I was just rubbing my cold hands against her stomach being like playful. She was saying stop but giggling at the same time so I didn't know she was serious and I gave her a wedgie I was just like trying to play around. She seemed fine afterwards cause we were hugging and stuff. So I left and when I got home I IMed her and she was like you move too fast I don't like you anymore(I forgot to mention she has never done anything with a guy before she was real shy)I was like I'm really sorry I didn't mean anything by it. And she was like I kept telling you to stop, but I didn't know she was serious like I said before. So I felt like I raped her, but everything was resolved and I knew I didn't, but I still screwed up things between us. She says she still wants to be friends and stuff.So now I don't know if I still like my ex or if I still like this new girl. I mean I think I might have feelings for both and I don't know what to do now. I guess if I tried I could get with either one, but I don't know who I should try. (link)


Alright, I was the one who asked where you can mix songs. I have enough answers, but I don't actually know how. So if anyone could tell me how (step by step) to mix songs on windows media player, that would be greatly appreciated. Thanks. (link)


Well my name is Michael and my girlfriend refuses to call me that. She only calls me Mike. She also hates it when others call me Michael and corrects them with "Umm it's Mike not Michael." Even my mother. But she says it with more respect talking to my mom. Does this seem werid or overly possesive to anyone? Or should I just go with it? (link)


oh k well..i never kissed a guy before and im in 9th(i know) and like this kid it 11th and he always wants me to go over and i wanna go im just a little nervous cause i dont wanna mess up with him tho.. ya know?

~confuesd (link)


I have a uncle (48) who came to visit me(female 25). I was showing him around my condo and he would not enter my bedroom area. what does this mean. this confused me! Could you help me to understand why he did that? Thank You Gems (link)


Okay my friend is a cutter.... ive talked to her about it and i was wondering...... does any1 know any good songs about people cutting.... it may sound weird but she said if she had sumething to relat to then mabey she woud stop!!!thanks (link)
Tell some one.
Parents.
School counselor.
SOMEONE!


what are some excercizes i can do for my lower back/sides?
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My parents are in cali and my sister , her boyfriend, and her baby live in our basement last night i snuck a boy in and my sister caught me she was constantly yelling at me like she was my mother and telling me i was a slut. She keeps threatining that she will tell my mom and dad which i know she wont unless i make her mad again. No one in the house will talk to me and i dont want my sister to be mad at me anymore and i dont want her to tell my parents. I wish i could turn back time but i know i cant does anyone have any ideas? (link)




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