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Hi my name is JoAnna, I love to hang out with friends, go to the movies and the mall. My hobbies include: Guitar, piano, singing, and drawing. I love to talk, and I'm definitely not shy about who I talk to or what I talk about. I'm a friend of everyone and to everyone.
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Well there is this guy that i really like and he likes me. He even broke up with his girlfriend for me. He always tells me about how much he loves me and everything. He is .perfect.!, but there is one problem..AGE. His mom won't let him date me bcause he could go to jail. Some of his friends have been giving him hell about it too. Others say we should hookup. His best friend is trying to tell him he wont go to jail. I really love him, what should i do!? (link)
Well I would say what Mama dont know wont hurt. But thats not the right answer. Well if you truly like each other then hook up. But dont get too attached, sometimes older guys while leave younger ones for more "experienced" girls.


hi...i really need help. i am on a dance team and they told me that i had to lose weight. this was about a year and a half ago. right when they told me that i had to lose weight to stay on the team i started getting ideas that i was too fat. and now i think im fatter than fat. so during that i year i decided to skip a meal to see if that would help but then i started to skip 2 meals and now im not eating at all. my best friend keeps saying that im anorexic but i dont want to believe it and i dont think its true. either way i am really scared because im losing weight really fast and all but i dont want to lose it this way and im scared that im going to die or something. i dont want to tell my parents so i dont scare them so what do i do......PLeASE HELP ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
Well if you're not eating at all then your friend is right, you're anorexic. Just try to stick to water and fruits/ Vegetables. That way you can maintain a healthy weight but not starve yourself. And oh yeah, maybe you should tell your parents what has been going on. No matter how many people you get advice from, your parents always give the best.

Good Luck.


i would like to know if there are any exercises to help me gain hip definition? i find that my body shape is like a ruler, i hardly have any curves! i'm not overweight, nor am i skinny but is this possible first of all? i know there are exercises to get rid of love handles like side crunches, but is there any way to add muscle mass in that area instead? (link)
The way I got mine was sitting at the computer and eating donuts. Im kidding but you could possible tone your stomach more, making it smaller. Therefore giving the appearance that your hips are larger.


i would like to remove cellulate, but i do not belive in creams and stuff like that. is there any other method that it is very effective. the only method i know drink alot of water and exersise. I would appreciate alot if there is an other way. (link)
Hate to say it but there isn't any other way. You could possibly watch your calorie intake that way you wont have to exercise as much.


Is it better to wash your hair in cold water or in hot water? Is it less damaging? (link)
Well cold can dry out your scalp causing dandruff, and hot can irritate and sometimes even scorch your scalp. Use warm water.. perfect temperature.


well aim is my life and i go on ALLLLLLLLLL the time, but lately it hasn't been allowing me to go in as my name. it allows everyones but mine-i really need help :( please help me!
-i rate high
thanx (link)
It could possible be the server or something with the ICP address on your computer. Have you checked your modem/cable? It could be a loose wire or shortage.


ok i had sex with a condom like at the beginning of april. im not susposed to start my period until the beginning of may. but every morning for like that past week my stomach has felt just a little bit upset in the morning and a little into the late afternoon. but my bobs dont hurt and im not throwing up and im not smelling anythign unusual. and i just got over having a really bad sinus cold. so should i be worried or not? please help me guys!! (link)
I don't think so. After having sex your body reacts to what has just happened and tries to adjust. And since you did just get over a sinus cold then it could be something to do with that or a reaction from the medicince you took.


Okay well i have been on a diet for about a month now. I have lost 10 pounds. (I'm pretty big so i'm nowhere close to goal weight.) I was wondering if anyone had any tips to speed up the weight loss? And also, I know it takes time, but no one has even noticed that I lost weight so it is starting to really get to me. It is very hard to stick to a diet but I am doing it and no one is even noticing! Some people still make fun of me and it gets discouraging. Does anyone know what I could do to just block out what they say until I lose all the weight? (link)
First of all ignore what Far Too Dramatic said. Keep on that diet, basically watch the calorie intake, cause you dont want to take in more calories then you can burn. And I know you've probably heard this and you dread it but EXERCISE! Not for too long, but start of like 10-15 minutes.. then work your way up.

Good Luck.


what do i do if people are writing bad things about me on somebody elses column?? (link)
Confront the person nicely and tell them to please stop. If they do not listen then just ignore them. Most of the time people like that just do it for the attention.


I have a friend and i dont know how to approach the situation os asking her out, and i wanna be friends with her first. We talk on a messenger and stuff but no verbal conversations at school or anything id love some advice please help.

-Nab- (link)
Well since you talk to her online, try to find out some of her interests and see if you two have some stuff in common. Once you break that ice, then try to confront her at school and make small talk. Then if there is any chemistry there, then a good friendship and possible relationship should form.

Good Luck.


13/f nd i have had my period for a while now but its been a while since i got it and my mother and sister had it twice since my last time and im havent been sexually active since before i started getting my period????wats wrong with me? is it normal?? please help me i rate high♥ (link)
Well since you are 13 your body may be trying to regulate itself. Don't be to worried about it since you're not sexually active. But when you do have it beware, it'll be heavy.


1. well i was wondering if a girl that is 15 turning 16 in 2 months is going out with someone that just turned 25, could that someone go to jail?
2. what if the girl is not a virgin and the cops find out and they try to accuse the boy and she denies it could they file charges???
Thank you! (link)
Answer to #1 is definitely jail bait. Someone over 18 is liable to go to jail.

The answer to #2 is that yes, it is a possibility. Unless your parents already knew and can defend you.


my eyelashers are like tottaly straight!! well i curl them and put mascara and whenever i put mascara on my eyelashes are like not good.. like they are clumped together... does anyone know any good mascara that makes my eyelashes lonnger? (link)
Lash Discovery by Maybelline. Very fine and small brush, helps seperates lashes and gives them a long lucious look.


A while ago, one of my guy friends started pestering me, calling me at random times of night, being mean to me, then being scarily nice to me, then being very flirty with me. We quickly figured out that he liked me, and a few days later he asked me out, and I said yes.
However, as soon as he asked me out he started ignoring me, finally getting one of his friends to dump me a few days later. According the the friend, he was just shy.
Now I'm really confused, not only because as soon as he asked me out he ignored me, but because now we are just ignoring each other totally.
This is stupid, I really want him back as a friend, I really enjoy being around him. And I actually do still have feelings for him as well.
Why did he start ignoring me? And how do I get him to stop? (link)
Seems to me that this guy panicked. Maybe he didnt know what to do in a relationship. Or either he thought it was too soon and changed his mind. Well whatever it is don't sweat it too bad, he'll come around. But on the other hand you could keep trying to talk to him. And gradually start a friendship again.

Good Luck.




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