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ok me and my friend are really close she is like my sister but a year ago she started to hand out with other people and she gets drunk every night and does drungs and parties a lot (i mean i party to but not like her) and i have notest she has started cutting heself and she has just been mean to me and if any of u read me last advice u kno i just found out that i am pregnet i try to tell her and talk to her but she just wont talk to me......plz help me i dont now what to do i am soo confussed i am scared of lossing my best friend-----thanks
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This is a theory called natural selection. It's just best to let nature run it's course to remove the lower end of society. It's for the best.
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tell her to stop cutting stop hurting you friends and hopefully she'll listen drinking to much isnt good for you she could get achohal poniing and stuff and you dont want anything happeing to her like her getting raped make sure you go to every party she does if she gtes to drunk drag her out og thta house and drive her home make sure you keep a good eye on her so nothing bad happens
stay in touch with her
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CONGRATS! (on the baby!) Well... she sounds like a bad best friend to me, (but if you like her.. than she must be good.) I say call her and invite her to your house where its just you and her, and tell her your pregnant. Then tell her about how she has been treating you, and say how hurtful it is, and say how much she matters to you. Hopefully she'll understand, and if not, i think you should just not care.
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Here is a website for those who have friends who cut. I think you find it helpful. :)
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i know its hard to see that ur best friend is changing, but people change. She may not even realize that shes hurting you. I had a "sister" like this she didnt care abotu much either and she had a adiction to to cutting. she made everyones life a living hell. i had to dump her as my sister and made her my friend =/ cus i feared that she was guna make me be something to her i didnt want to be. so your options are probly A:deal with it B:talk to her about it one on one C:dump her. sory to be harsh . good luck. i hope everything works out for you. it always sucks loosing a friend.
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