Here it is. I was going out with this girl and I fell in love with her, but she broke up with me and said she didn't know if she like me anymore. So I of course was devastated. But I started talking to a friend of hers who I never talked to before about it. She was very nice and helpful and we kept talking and I started to like her. We were kind of going out behind my ex's back and she found out and flipped saying how she still liked me and was going to ask me back out, but eventually said she was over it. So all three of us hung out one night( I know awkward huh?) So I was real qieute the whole time my ex was there but my ex and the girl I liked were being goofs like girls do. And when my ex left I stopped being qieute and I was playing around with her. I stuck my hand up her shirt, but did not touch her breasts. I was just rubbing my cold hands against her stomach being like playful. She was saying stop but giggling at the same time so I didn't know she was serious and I gave her a wedgie I was just like trying to play around. She seemed fine afterwards cause we were hugging and stuff. So I left and when I got home I IMed her and she was like you move too fast I don't like you anymore(I forgot to mention she has never done anything with a guy before she was real shy)I was like I'm really sorry I didn't mean anything by it. And she was like I kept telling you to stop, but I didn't know she was serious like I said before. So I felt like I raped her, but everything was resolved and I knew I didn't, but I still screwed up things between us. She says she still wants to be friends and stuff.So now I don't know if I still like my ex or if I still like this new girl. I mean I think I might have feelings for both and I don't know what to do now. I guess if I tried I could get with either one, but I don't know who I should try.
ultimate-me answered Tuesday December 20 2005, 6:25 pm: okay honestly i dont think you should try anyone anymore.... and im saying this because like you can't just take you ex back..love is not a game so like forget about her and like the other girl i dont get how you could like go out with her after you feel like you raped her.. like i know you have feelings for both but i think you should just move on!
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XoXoSwEeTbLoNdIeXoXo answered Sunday December 18 2005, 9:23 pm: hey i think that you should try and like someone else besides those 2 girls because now you hurt yourself going through all that. and you hurt your ex way to much by going out with her best friend and then playing around with her friend behind her back again. and you know that best friends tell each other everything.well i hope i helped if you have anymore questions drop one in my inbox. i will definatley have some more advice because i was in you kind of situation... so you can definatley talk to me anytime. XoXDonna [ XoXoSwEeTbLoNdIeXoXo's advice column | Ask XoXoSwEeTbLoNdIeXoXo A Question ]
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