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please help me. I am at my lowest in a long time.
well, last weekend I thought life couldnt get worse, but monday, a little before lunch, it did.
I was chatting with who i thought was my best friend, she said that she didnt feel the same. I thought we had something special. I was sad, then angry, then sad, then angry again, and ive been sad like since i stopped being angry again. About two days later, I asked a question to this friend asking for her advice on my situation, then I chatted with another friend {who is a girl} and linked her to the question, she told me that telling my thought was best friend that i understand why she might feel that way{and i do}, i did, i dont think it helped. Later I asked a question for finding a website that talks about girls, and tells guys things that they need to know about girls.
I have this feeling like I want to forget about her, but i dont {kinda relates to the cant live with'em, cant live without'em saying}. I have been sendig her multiple friend requests on the site where she, and i have a blog. It seems like she wants to forget about me too, but she says differently.
I will give fives for exelent advice.
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Okay, i hope im right, but i cant promise anything. by the way, please read this before leaving, i relate to you, and elaborate on things longer than i should, but i give good advice in the long run. Ok, your friend seems like she was pretty close, so you have to be pretty upset. I reccomend either one of two things. Try to do your best and make new friends. I know it will be hard to get close to another friend again, but if they are loyal, it will feel so good to have someone to confide in! Another thing would be to take up a hobby, or start going to a safe and healthy club. This is another way to make friends. You'll need new friends to get over the old ones. In time, you will find that these new friends should help you out. In due time, you will forget about the old friend you had. If she decides to come back, i wouldn't let her. she had a chance, and she blew it, so she needs to realize that she had a great friend, and now it is lost.
I appologize if i called a friend of yours a girl, or anything like that.
signed,
M.J. (askannette)
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if she doesn't feel that you guys are best friends that is ok friendship like that doesn't need to be 2 way. Maybe why she is ignoring you is because you don't tell her how you are feeling so have a sit down with her and talk about it don't go to other people to find out that could make it worse and don't worry about her accepting your friend requests and if she is really trying to ignore you then she doesn't deserve to be your friend and is probably missing out on one great person.
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