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Hey babes.
Okay.. soo my friend kinda likes this kid. but she also likes another kid too haha its kinda confusing. and like ive seen one of the guys she likes and he is super HOTT and seems really funny. and i wanna meet him but my friend is wayyy to shy and i dont wanna be like yeah lets hang out with him and she'll be like why? and i'll be like i dunno..i mean she knows i think he is cute! but she wont have the nerve to hang out with him. i dont wanna wait to meet this kid he is sucha cutie! and then i will feel bad if i do meet him that we will start to flirt or something or he will look at me (sorry i dont wanna sound like selfish or anything) but then IF he does do that what do i do? i would sooo wanna flirt back but then i dont want her to get mad..but ugh i dont want to wait for her forever to make a move you know? i dont even know if she would get mad! and i dont wanna ask her..like what if he flirts with me or something because i dont wanna sound conceited. well i hope you know where im coming from
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Oh I know it`s not what you want to do but you need to talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel and tell her that you think the guy is cute and you would like to meet him and you might flirt with him but if she has a problem with it, then you`d help her become over her shyness so she can meet that guy and you won`t. But just make sure you tell her what you mean by what you say to her, and make sure she doesn`t take it the wrong way. Good luck babe !
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hey there, well i think that if your friend likes him then you shouldnt really do anything with him untill your for sure she doesnt any more because you dont wanna ruin a friendship over a guy. buuut, you could ask her to like hang out with a bunch of girls and guys and then you could get a chance to see this guy or even meet some new ones. and you could ask her if she would pick one guy who would it be and tell her she should really just pick one or something but dont make it so you go right to the guy if she doesnt pick him because she could still have feelings for him. if he does flirt with you, you dont have to completely blow him off but dont be realy flirty with him other wise you could upset your friend. hope i helped!
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Hey sweetie.
AHH!! I hate those situations. Well, your friend thinks this guy is hot (the one you like think is hot too) and another guy is hot. Sooo, she shouldn't be too hurt.... right?
Buuuut, I think you should try talking to her about it. That's just the right thing to do, so she doesn't get too hurt, mad, upset, etc.
Just be like "I know you like _______ and ________, but I think _____ is hot. I really wanna meet him and hang out with him, so I can get to know him. But, I don't want to just hang out with him if you don't want me to. We could always hang out together like me and ____ and you and _____"
Just say something like that and see how it goes!! It's not like you two can't be friends either ;)
I hope this helps and if you still need help, just leave a message in my inbox. Tell me how it goes.
♥ Kourtney
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