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I don't beat around the bush. My advice may be harsh, but I'm not sugarcoating anything to keep your bouncy, sticky-capped ego from being hurt.
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I swear I'm not trying to brag, I'm 13 and only like 70 pounds, I sit in front of my computer all day, I eat a bunch of crap food, I go to McDonalds all the time, but you can still see my spine through the front. How can I gain weight? I rate high usually, but smartass answers will just result in me asking "Why do you suck so much?" as one of those personal questions.
If you are concerned about your weight, go talk to your doctor about it. Sitting around and eating junk food isn't the best way to gain weight, especially if it's mostly fatty foods and McDonald's. It might not show on your body, but putting that stuff into your system could have bad long-term side effects if you eat it too frequently.
With the money I get for my birthdy next month I plan to buy some sort of MP3 player. I have been researching it on google. I have come to, two different MP3 players I might consider buying. Zen Micro 4GB or the iPod Mini 4GB. My boyfriend has a iPod mini but I don't know if that is what I want because I'm always hearing people complain about them including my b/f. So before buying either of these do any of you know any pros or cons of either products? any help will be very appreciated. Also of there is any thing tha you feel is better than these products let me know
I use a 4GB iPod Mini and I haven't had any issues with it that weren't fixable. The only thing that annoys me about it is that sometimes it'll go wonky and I have to reset it..you only hold down two buttons but for some reason mine never likes to reset. I like the click wheel, using it is very simple and intuitive, and it's incredibly easy to set up and use. I'd look around people's ratings of the two products at amazon.com and other sites before deciding what to get.
me and my ex are talking tomorrow at chruch and I would like to no if you have anything I can use to get through to him? because I want to make it work got any ideas? help.
Well, I don't really understand what you're asking and...if you're trying to get back together with your boyfriend why are you doing it at church? Wouldn't you rather do it in a more private place? But if you want to "get through to him" just tell him the truth. Boys, contrary to popular feminine belief, cannot read women's minds. He will not pick up on subtle hints. Tell him the truth, don't beat around the bush, and what happens happens.
Hey im making a cd for excersizing.. and i was wondering if anyone new some good songs fer like.. a dance type thingy.. ?
I have .. These Boots- Jess Simpson
Do Something- Brit Spears
Switch- Will Smith
Pon de replay- Rhianna
These Words- Natasha Bedingfeild..
I need LOTS more ! :-) please help!
I don't know if you're into techno or not, but try going to a CD store and buying some sort of compilation album. I liked working out to the Happy 2b Hardcore series, all the songs were fun, upbeat, and good for dancing/exercising.
My mom gave me her old messenger bag and it's in pretty good condition. It's purple. But when we put it in the wash, we forgot that a pen was in there. It leaked on the black part on the inside, so it looks like a copper splotch. Is there any way that I could make this look like it belongs or hide it? We threw away the busted pen.
If you don't want to cover up the splotch with a patch, pin or other bag accessory, try buying a purple sharpie pen or other permanent marker and color over the spot. When the ink starts to wear off just color over it again. It's not the best fix, but it does work.
Does anyone have any tips for how to redecorate your room with very little money? I don't want to paint it or anything, but I want it to look less plain.
Try moving the furniture around your room. Doing that might solve your problem...if you're not satisfied with that, try buying some potted plants to hang from the cieling, get some posters of your favorite band, go through old stuff in your storage and see if there's anything cool there that you missed. Garage and estate sales are also great places to find cool items for your room.
listin, i need to make as much money as fast as i can plz help, im 13 so i cant work at a reastrunt or anything plz help!!!!!!!!! need money quick!!! i rate high!!!!!!!!!!
Garage sales are great if you have stuff worth selling.
I dont know why i feel so hurt by my boyfriend. I live in florida he lives in pensavainla we promised not to date anyone except each other this year until we see each other next summer. Every time i send him an email or write him a note and he doesnt respond my heart crumbles. its said that distance makes the heart grow fond but being away from him is killing me. I dont know what to do. I never felt like this before I love him soo much! Please Please help. Im tired of crying myself to sleep.
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I'm in an online relationship right now and I know how you feel. Since you're feeling really upset about it right now, I'd suggest writing him an email and arrange a time you can call him. If you don't feel comfortable talking to him, then try putting your feelings down to words. He might just be really busy.
ok, so me and this guy have been dating on and off for 8 months. He's always the one who breaks up with me and I'm always heart-broken when he does. Then he says he loves me and wants me to go back out with him. I know what your thinking, why doesnt she just leave him behind? The thing is, i cant. Im pretty sure I'm in love with him, but i dont know what to do. He told me he loves me, but he isnt IN love with me. Any guys know what this means? And what do you think i should do?
Thanks Bundles,
Jessy
The I love you but I'm not IN love with you comment basically translates into, "I'm a dog and need a girl to keep me entertained." He's using you, stop letting him hurt you and leave him for good.
so i had a pimple in my forehead and i started picking it .... until it eventually bleeded so know its all red/perple ugly and it has a scab any ideas of how i can get rid of it fast ?
Try putting some neosporin or other antibacterial ointment on it.
Ok this morning, I woke up and there was this tiny blemish/zit thing down there..idk what it is!! Please help me..im freaking out..It's like a dot smaller than a zit but bigger than a blemish and there's a whitehead or something in it...I've never had sex..and no one has been "down there"..please help!
Since you haven't had any sexual contact it's probably just a zit. Just leave it alone and it'll go away on its own. Don't worry, it's not herpes or anything.
well today is my bf's birthday so we are going to lunch at a nice (in other words, expensive) resturant with another couple. i invited him, so does that mean i have to pay for him? its a pretty expensive place and im 14 and he's turning 15. thanks!
If you don't want to be incredibly rude then yes, you should pay for lunch. You can't just invite people out to celebrate and then expect them to pay for their food. It's like a birthday or Christmas party, people aren't supposed to bring presents for themselves, right?
Okay, so I'm bedridden for a while. I certainly don't enjoy readering, but I figure it will pass the time.. so I'm not just stuck laying there like a useless moron. I like those cheesy little romance plots and all that sensitive bologna, so if ANYONE can think of something I might enjoy, I would DEFINITELY appreciate your recommendation!!
"Mackenzie"
Here are some of my favorite romantic books:
+ Wuthering Heights - Bronte (mystery, romance, ghosts, it has it all and doesn't feel outdated)
+ My Antonia - Cather (considered an American classic, it's a beautiful book about a Bohemian girl named Antonia and her life on the prarie. Sounds lame but is a fabulous read)
+ Bridget Jones' Diary - Fielding (quick, hilarious, modern)
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okay .. well i'm going out with this really great guy, but before he asked me out we were like REALLY tight friends .. and right now i dont feel like we're getting anywhere and we might not last for much longer. but the thing is he really loves me, and i really do love him too but i wanna break up with him, so if we get in a fight we won't lose our friendship too. he's an awesome guy .. but i like someone else too, and i'll never have a chance with him if i'm tied ((spelling .. ?)) down with my current boyfriend. i KN0W THiZ iZ L0NG BUT PLEASE HELP ME!
If you actually loved him you wouldn't be interested in any other guys. Stop playing with his feelings and just break up with him if you don't want to bein a relationship with him. What you're doing is selfish and mean, and breaking up with him for another guy will probably fuck up your friendship. Being in a relationship isn't just about you and what you want, it's also about your boyfriend's or girlfriend's needs and feelings. If you can't respect them then why bother being in a relationship?
Do what you think will be best for the two of you but please understand that your actions do have consequences and that you will need to deal with them.
i went up to my grandma's house this summer, and when I got off the plane, i went to the bathroom, and i found this clear/white spit-looking stuff that smelled really bad come out of my vagina. what is this stuff, and is this normal, because it never happened to me before and i dont know what to do.
please answer, i rate high
It is vaginal discharge but it doesn't necessarily mean you're going to get your period. Discharge is the result of your vagina cleaning itself. Most women have vaginal discharge every day, but rarely notice it because there's usually not very much. Some women may have more discharge around their period, which, if you are due for your period, could be why you had so much. Otherwise, it may have just been the first time you really noticed.
everyone at my school says cheerleading is a sport and some say it isn't a sport..don't answer this question if you are going to write something mean or stupid. so is cheerleading a sport? and if no why is it on espn?
I guess it depends upon what your definition of a sport is. Competetive cheerleading can be very physically demanding, but lots of teams just stand around and shake pompoms. As for being on ESPN...they run spelling bees and Scrabble competitions. It doesn't have to be a sport to show up on ESPN.
I used to cut but I've stopped since January. Now I've been thinking about a lot again, and itching a lot. Last night I actually did cut. In a way I want to cut, but then I don't want to get into all of it again, it's crazy. What do I do? And don't be an idiot, please take this seriously.
I nearly went down that path in the fall, but I knew that it wouldn't help my problems so every time I felt like doing it I would stop, take a deep breath, and talk out loud to myself about what was upsetting me. I would work everything out right there, confront it, and if I was still feeling bad I would remind myself that hurting myself will only make my problems worse.
If you don't think you can fight your urges off on your own, I suggest finding a coulselor in your area (most towns have youth centers that can refer you to free clinics) and having them help you out. Counseling might seem like a scary thought, but isn't cutting again even worse?
Alright so i have been going through alot lately..and I was a lil upset so i felt like sneeking out and going for a walk.. well my friend said he would go with me.. so at 1 we snuck out.. I thought I might ad in that I have always liked my friend but i know we will probly only ever be friends. well when we was walken.. and just talken.. my mom pulls up.. and gets really mad.. and emberisses me infront of him. so Yeah i was caught.. Well I told my mom not to talk to me.. cause I was really upset. So today if I want to do anything im probly going to have to talk to her about it. What do I say?
Just tell your mom the truth. She'll be more likely to be sympathetic towards you if you let her know you've been having a tough time (stress, depression, whatever) than if you make up a lame story. Also, a lot of moms are really good at detecting lies, so if you make up a story she could find out and just get more upset with you. If you don't want to divulge the details of what's bothering you, just say to her, "Well, lately I've been feeling kind of _______ because of _________ but I don't really want to talk about it." You don't have to tell her what's wrong, though moms can usually help out and have been in the same place before as well.
I'm scared, i dont know what to do. Should i involve myself into sexual intercourse? Theres this boy, and i've known him for four years.. He has been t here for me through everything. I recently dropped the highschool scene and went for cyberschool.. It was all because of some friends that wern'et being so friendly... And out of all people he dumped his girlfriend because of me and took my side on it. My bestfriend was his girlfriend. I sorta felt bad about it... But then he told me all the stuff she did to him and how she hurt him. She had cheated on him... and she admitted it to us. He has been there through everyhting... We talk all the time and we are each others best friend. We want to take that further but not sex... When it does come up though... Whhich could be at any given time... How should i react? Should i just give it up? I'm scared because i wouldn't know how to telll my mom... Me and her are sooo open with eachother and i tell her EVERYTHING. but what happens when i lose my virginity and need to go to the gyno? We're gonna hangout at his place this Thursday and i get to meet his family... They are soo nice to me on the phone... hope they are in person to... wish me luck...
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If you have any doubts about having sex then you should wait until you feel 100% ok about doing it. I lost my virginity to someone who I knew like your friend and he broke up with me and now I can't really talk to him anymore because I still feel hurt about our breakup. Having sex is a big comittment, not just because you're losing your virginity, but because you're bonding with a person in a way you never have before. Please be careful and if you think for one second you shouldn't have sex or aren't ready then stop and wait.
I have tried to eat exactly 3 meals a day iwthout anny snakcs, but I'm having trouble. As soon as I come from school I NEED a snack. How can I keep myself occupied while I'm doin homewrok so I don't snack?!
Actually, a lot of nutritionists think that it's better to eat six small and healthy meals a day with healthy snacks in between than to just eat three meals a day. It helps you control how much you eat, keeps your metabolism up, and doesn't let you get so hungry that you end up binging on something large and unhealthy.
If you still want to do just three meals a day, try eating a yogurt or small salad when you get home. You don't need to eliminate snacks to lose weight, just the unhealthy ones.