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What does emo mean? I am really confused...Everyone says i look emo in all my pics but i dont even know what emo is...can someone explain it to me?
emotional? i think, thats what people tell me anyways.
I have big and boring dark brown eyes..I don't like them at all..I want to enhance them in some way. What should I do..and what colors should I use? Also..how do you acheieve "soft/shy/pretty" eyes?
use eyeliner...not a lot though!!!! and also use a light brown color...dont go black!
I am going to the beach in 3 weeks and i was wondering, what are some ways to tone up your stomich area? I am not realy confident but i love my bathing suit and i want to feel nice in it. I am 5'3 female that weighs 120pounds, Im 13 in 7th grade. i do cheerleadin in the summer but that doesnt start till the 22nd of next month!!!
I just want some simple stuff to do like before bed.. like quick exercises maybe a website or two! Thanks!!!
--Thank-You--
crunches or sit ups!
I'm a senior 18/m and I've liked this freshman girl the whole school year. She's in one of my classes and sometimes I see her around school and the movies and stuff. I think she likes me, and we've hung out before, just as friends. Were pretty close and I just want to maybe have a chance with her before I go off to college. How do I get this chance and is it even worth it?
yes its worth it! ask her out! be smooth about it though...like ask her to see a movie wih you or something...hope i helped!
-ally-
I have no idea where I want to go to college. I have an idea of what I want to do but where do I go? Scholarships would be nice. I've been looking but I think I'm just really lost now. What should I do?
look into the college that is most about the profession you want. scholerships are also quite hard to get but try your hardest and you will be rewarded with something! hope i helped!
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I'm drawing a comic about me and two of my friends and our daily life at our high school... with a little twist. What should I call it?
i think if you took the name of the character mentioned the least amount of times should be the title. ex: sally
I'd like to start a tradition with the theater that I'm in. Any good suggestions and ideas?
in my theatre class before our major spring play (which is tomorrow....wish me luck!) my director takes down one ceiling tile down and we all either put our handprint on it or sign it with our name and charactors name...its a fun idea! hope i helped
-ally-
Hi my dog Jefferson, Great Pyrenees 10 years old died on May 5th. He had a tumor in his foot and on may 4th he didnt move and wouldnt eat. So I got really scared and thought about what could happen. Then the next morning he was outside with his tongue out of his mouth with a pool of saliva. His blinking reflexing weren't working anymore and he was breathing very shallow. Well when I got home he had died. And it was very sad for me and I cried a lot for the first 2 days. Now I just only cry when I see his hair somewhere. I really miss him and I've had him for 9 1/2 years. I dont know what to do right now because I miss him soo much and I need advice to make me feel better.
omg im so sorry! when i read the story it almost made me cry! i recomend when you see his hair somewhere insted of crying try thinging about all the good times that you and jefferson had! i know this is a rough time and its a sad experience but thinking positivly through this will help im sure! hope i helped and onece again im SOOOOO sorry!
-ally-
my hair is pretty dark so i want to dye my hair to a brown color ..i dont want to use hair products because me and those dont mix well together because everytime i try it doesnt work.. so is there anything i can use? iheard if you put suntan lotion on ur hair it would come out lighter? should i try that?
well i dont know about that but if you get chloriene in your hair and hang out in the sun for a while it will lighten up a bit. also if you wanted to try homemade highlights all you have to do is put some lemon juice in your hair and let it set a while. hope i helped!
-ally-
Hi in my opinion i look nice the way i am...but the thing is that my arm has like a flub there and i just want to get rid of it. what can i do to get rid of the flub? any exercises for my arms? it's on my upper arm and it's just disgusting! please help!
any cardio workout would help that problem and i also recomend push-ups, pull-ups, and lifting weights might do the trick...you also might wanna try a combination of the exercises...hope i helped!
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is it possible for a girl to get a infection or anything from a guy with like dirty and ishy fingers and he fingers you?
yes!
Oh so my friend cuts..but she hasnt in like 2 weeks. i knew about it since she started (shes been doing it for like 1 and a half months). so today this morning she told our other 2 friends, she didnt tell them before cuz she didnt want them to get mad. my friend (the cutter)told my other 2 friends NOT to tell anyone like a teacher or any body. but 1 did it anyway. and now my friend (the cutter) is all mad at the 1 girl who told. i dont know what to do. so what should i do. ive been supporting my friend (the cutter one) through all this. but what else should or can i do?
try to get your friend help as fast as you can! cutting is so dangerous!
-ally-
p.s. you need to support her through all this also!
Well I have a party on Friday and it is a pool party.. but I am also just starting my period... I know I can use a tampon.. but I am afraid it will leak.. will it? and should I use it?
if you have a heavy flow it might but you just have to remember to change it every now and then. but really if you use one you should be good for the pool! i recomend using one! and if you want to use a good brand i recomend using kotex! hope it helped!
-ally-
i dont want to sound desperate.. i mean i want HIM to ask me and tell me first.. i dont want to be rejected..
-Ck
that might not be an option...but if your willing to let him go then you can wait for him to make the first move. if you want to get this done i think you should make the first move. do whatever you feel in your heart is best for you!
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Okay, I'm a pretty preppy girl. I have lots of friends, and we all are into fashion, and dressing our best. Anyway, I have a secret love, that's so far from fashion I'm afraid my friends will hate me for it. It's skateboarding. I loove skateboarding so much, and I always go skateboarding after school with all the skaters at the park and stuff. It makes me happy, I love learning new tricks, and doing all that guyish stuff. It's so weird, but I feel like I can't tell my friends. Well, now they're all getting curious about why I don't have as much time to hang out with them..and I'm starting to run out of excuses. I've only told one of my friends (whom I'm actually not that great of friends with, someone whose 'out' of my group and in a 'less known' group, but she's wonderful) who I never really thought much of, until I learned she can keep my secret. She's such a great friend, and I'm wondering why I feel like I can't tell my other 'friends' about my secret passion for skateboarding. What am I to do? Should I just come out and tell them I like skateboarding? (I don't think that any of them will take this badly, but sometimes girls can be really.. picky about things, and some of my 'friends' may ditch me because of this) Find new friends? Only tell some of them? Aghh, help!!
SAM♥
you should tell them and if they ditch you then they arent good friends! you always have that one girl who likes you for you! be open about yourself thats the only way to live life!
love you
-ally-
okay so theres this guy at my school who i like ALOT and well its my last year there and i want to date him. and i think he likes me back bcuz hes always flirting with me so of course i flirt back! and the years almost over. what do i do?
-Ck
i suggest you telling him how you feel...gather up the courage and ask him out!!! if yall start going out over the summer chances are it will continue through the next school year even if you dont go there anymore! but the worst that can happen is he tells you no. but the bottom line and the most important thing im saying is just tell him how you feel!!!
love you
-ally-
hey my friends birthday is coming up and she is having a garden party. but i dont know what to wear. nothign to fancy as she has a bouncy caslte coming for her cousins but i know me and my mates will go on it.so i have no idea what to wear or what to do with my hair!any ideas thank you so much! ill rate every answer that i get!
i think you should let your hair go wavy/curly and put some gel in it. you might think about wearing a cute floral skirt with a nice little top. hope that helps!
love you
-ally-
This guy in my class hates me. I like him a lot, and he used to like me. I don't know why he doesn't like me anymore. I can't eat, i can't sleep, and i can't think about anything but him.... he's everything to me and i know that guys will run if u say that to them so no one knows but me how i feel. I told him i really liked him but he just told me to fuck off. He's constantly making fun of me and i don't know what to do. Everytime he makes fun of me it hurts me really bad and there's nothing i can do about it it seems.... last week i was in the bathroom crying because of what he said. Yet, i still like him for some odd reason someone please help!!!!
well you should tell him how you feel...(not the whole "cant eat, cant sleep" thing. that could scare him off) but tell him that you really do like him as more of a friend and that when he calls you names or makes fun of you, it really hurts you on the inside. maybe he will let up a little! hope that helps!
love you
-ally-
hi i've been with my boyfriend for quite a few years now, but unfortunately, everyday i start to think to myself that i should leave him. why is because every single time we get into fights, he never is willing to stay and work it out. he either hangs up the phone and ignores my phone calls/messages or says "just drop it" with an attitude. he also calls me names like bitch when he loses his temper, and personally, i've had enough.
but as you can imagine, i have grown emotionally attached to this guy. i fell in love with who he once was, a sweet, considerate, man. but now it's like i don't know who he is anymore and lately it's just the only thing i can think about is how the quality of our relationship is slowly crumbling beneath us.
i personally do want to call it quits, or at least take a break from each other for a little while, but he refuses. he says things like he can't live without me, and if i leave him he'll kill himself. in a sense i feel that i'm forced to stay in this relationship because i don't want to live knowing i made someone commit suicide over me.
it's a really sticky situation, and i don't know what to do anymore. i do love this guy, but i feel as though i'm falling out of love with him for the person he has become.
please help...
yes that is a problem! you should try to get him to get help and tell him that you are doing it for the sake of both all yall! if he is threating to kill himself over you then this guy needs help! im not tellin you he is a bad person he just has a temper. i hope what i said will help you in some way!!! i hope to see you get throught this!
love you
-ally-
Hey, I have like little red dots on my arms, thing is, they are only there some of the time. They dont itch or hurt, but its embarassing to wears short sleeve shirts when they are tehre! Does any one else have this problema nd if so what can i do to prevent and stop them once and for all!? Thank you
sorry i dont know any brilliant cure for your problem but i would suggest going to the doctor and telling him about it....hope it helps!
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