This guy in my class hates me. I like him a lot, and he used to like me. I don't know why he doesn't like me anymore. I can't eat, i can't sleep, and i can't think about anything but him.... he's everything to me and i know that guys will run if u say that to them so no one knows but me how i feel. I told him i really liked him but he just told me to fuck off. He's constantly making fun of me and i don't know what to do. Everytime he makes fun of me it hurts me really bad and there's nothing i can do about it it seems.... last week i was in the bathroom crying because of what he said. Yet, i still like him for some odd reason someone please help!!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? chocolate_lover answered Friday April 29 2005, 10:26 pm: You are probably like me, a quiet girl who is unpopular, but not in any specific cliques. Start going out with other boys to get your mind off of him. Stand up to him, make it seem as if he is pathetic. That will be really hard, i know. To get you mind off of him, you may try diff. sports. Try to get closer to his freinds who are girls, and tell them how horrible he is. this will be harder if they are popular, but it is worth a try. He is a jerk a very big one at that. If you pull the sides of your eyes up, tilt your head back, and blink rapidly, you will stop crying faster. Try this, i know it will work from personal expiriance. Good luck with solving your problem about this jerk. [ chocolate_lover's advice column | Ask chocolate_lover A Question ]
JumpStartToPureAddiction answered Friday April 29 2005, 8:48 pm: well you should tell him how you feel...(not the whole "cant eat, cant sleep" thing. that could scare him off) but tell him that you really do like him as more of a friend and that when he calls you names or makes fun of you, it really hurts you on the inside. maybe he will let up a little! hope that helps!
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Sweetshott88 answered Wednesday April 27 2005, 11:25 pm: First of all, you need to pick yourself up and know that you don't deserve to be treated so badly! If he is going to act this way then he isnt worth your time. I understand how tough it may be to move on (believe me i am in a situation myself right now) but you need to keep your head up because there are plenty of other guys out there who will treat you like the princess you are <3 [ Sweetshott88's advice column | Ask Sweetshott88 A Question ]
Micah answered Wednesday April 27 2005, 10:07 pm: if he hates you that bad, for a reason you dont know, then hes a waste of time. and i know it may be hard for you to think that because it sounds as if your in love. but really... no matter how hard it is you need to get over him if he strongly dislikes you like that... so you can meet new guys, you know? but i always tell everyone this when it comes to somehting like this: follow your heart. [ Micah's advice column | Ask Micah A Question ]
xForeverxForgottenx answered Wednesday April 27 2005, 9:47 pm: dont worry, this happened to me before. i know you like him a lot, and it is hard to deal with. me, i moved on. but i dont want to tell you that he likes you because that might not be the case, which my frends did to me. but it also might be the case. just try not to seem like he bothers you, or make a comment back to him. if you do want to do that and you need help with saying something back, just leave one in my inbox. im sorry this happened to you. he might admit that he likes you, but dont let him run your life. surround yourself with friends and try not to think about him. trust me i know its hard. but everything happens for a reason. hope i helped.
~Kare [ xForeverxForgottenx's advice column | Ask xForeverxForgottenx A Question ]
karenR answered Wednesday April 27 2005, 9:16 pm: You really need to get out there and find someone else to give your attention to. If someone tells you to fuck off they usually mean it. Don't waste another tear on this jerk when there are plenty of nice guys in the world. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
OhMyGodAshley answered Wednesday April 27 2005, 8:34 pm: Well no guy is worth all that. If he is acting like that, he is not worth your time. You are much better than him. Girls tend to get attached alot eaiser than boys, so it's hard to let go but sometimes for the best. Maybe he is playing hard to get? Or maybe he doesn't want a relationship? Who knows but Everything happends for a reason, remember that!
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