Well let's see my name is Ashley, I'm 16, I never say where I'm from unless I know you because too many people steal my pictures or like to stalk me, whatever it's old. I'm just here out of boredom and I like to help people! Ask anything
Website: Picturetrail
Gender: Female
Age: 16
MSN: ohmygodashley@hotmail.com
Member Since: April 27, 2005
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Last Update: April 28, 2005
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my friend called and asked me for a blank Cd and I told her I can't get her one b/c they are my brothers.She kept saying 'oh just ask him' so I said 'i can't, because i had my other friend over and we were watching a movie`I am constantly giving her stuff.i'm not even kidding. I give her clothes,i bought her lunch today(didnt even ask her to pay me back!)when i told her i couldnt she's like 'ok, whatever bye'i thought that was really rude.when people say the word 'whatever' to me i find it offensive and she hung up on me.what should i do? i did nothing wrong and just stuck up for myself... (link)
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You need to stop giving her things, because now she just expects you to drop everything you are doing to do something or give her something. It sounds like she is using you for things, so maybe you should try to talk to her about it or just stop giving in to her. I'm not sure, but I have had people like that in my life, and I just let them go because they weren't true friends ya know? If you did nothing wrong, I think maybe you should take that into concideration.
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well i have been depressed lately well since last year and i have cut myself all the time. sometimes even more then one time a day. i have so many scars and my mom knows i did but she thinks i stopped. and i am stressed and i haven't eaten because lately i think im fat, i think i am going anorexic. i need help because lately i'm different. (link)
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Do you have any good friends you could talk to about this? I have never been through the whole cutting thing but I have been through depression and anorexia and if you would like to talk more about this, feel free to e-mail me if not I honestly think you need to find someone to talk to about this. Do you know what made you depressed? Maybe, find something that you are passionate about and concentrate on that. I know I probably sound stupid saying this but you really need to talk to your friends and/or family because that's the only way I got through it all. I know I didn't help much, but if you need to talk, let me know!
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random question, but if you marry your highschool sweetheart right after senior year and before college, is that a bad thing? like will that cause problems with being married and going to school at the same time?
and basically is it bad to just get married at that age in general? is it hard to handle money, buying homes, etc?
because I really want to ask my beautiful girlfriend that I've known my whole love to marry me, but I don't want it to cause problems. (link)
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I think you should wait a little while longer. College is a big change and it can change people. And everything is so expensive these days so unless you have a great job and everything I honestly would wait until you could provide a little better.
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my bf has long shaggy hair and he told me that he might shave it all off! and im kinda nervuos cuz i dunno wut he would look like, how can i tell him not to shave it with out it sounding like 'i think you would look dumb with out hair' i wanna b nice about it.. how can i get him to chang his mind? please help asap b4 its too late (link)
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Just tell him how hot you think his hair makes him and that it turns you on, or it's one of his best features.
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Whenever I try to put a pic on advicenators or myspace it doesnt work.. On advicenators it says it has to be less than 15k how do i make it less? and why doesnt it work on myspace? thx!! (link)
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Mine said that too and I uploaded them to photobucket instead of adding it from my computer and it accepted it. So try that!
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okay well ive liked this guy for a while now.. he used to like me to.. we used to talk on the phone for hours everynight sometimes we would stay up untill 7/8:00 just talking non stop we used tp hang out,he was my first kiss and to tell u the tuth i never liked anyone as much as i like him.. well then him n my best friend got in a fight he was saying the meanest things to her and i found out he threatend to kill his ex girlfriend because she brokeup with him and he has a lot of physiological i guess u can say loll.. but still after all this i still cant let him go, we never got in a fight & he told me even tho our friends hated eachother and we hated eachothers freinds we could still be friends and things were fine.. but then he just stoped calling me whenever i would call him he would rush me off the phone, online he will barly even talk to me any more when we do see eachother he smiles n says hi and thats it. i tryed to talk to him about it and all he said was it was b/c i was with my friends so he felt weird and he said that next time i should go up to him and talk to him. i can understand that but he still wont talk to me and i know hes bad news and hes ignooring me ect. but i cant seem to get over him.. do you think i should move on what are some good ways to? thanks
- sam
14, female (link)
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Hmmm this seems pretty complicated to tell you the truth. I will put myself in your position though, I don't think a relationship would go very far if you didn't get along with each others friends. It's hard to juggle both, if they hate each other. But to me it sounds like you deserve better, and maybe you should try to ignore him for awhile and see if he decides to try and talk to you again. Maybe try to get involved with another guy, to make him jealous or something. Just go out and have fun with your friends, they will always be there for you, guys wont. That's all the advice I can think of, sorry it's not too great. Good luck though
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Hey! My sister is 10 and she wants a Summer job. Her and her 2 friends want to. They keep bugging me for jobs they can do and I really have no idea what 3 ten-year-old girls can do! If you have ant ideas please tell me! Oh yeah, remeber they're 10!!! 10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10~10
Please don't say any hard jobs for teens or I rate 1's. Thanx! I RATE! (link)
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They probably can't get "real" jobs anywhere. Maybe they can like baby sit or clean houses or something small like that. I have no clue why a 10 year old would want a job! Anyway that's all I can think of, sorry!
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Well I have a party on Friday and it is a pool party.. but I am also just starting my period... I know I can use a tampon.. but I am afraid it will leak.. will it? and should I use it? (link)
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I think you should use one, chances are it wont leak, just make sure to change it every few hours and if you feel like it's leaking just go to the bathroom and check!
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there was this boy, who was a really good friend of mine. and then, one day he told me that he hated me and that he always hated me and that i was annoying and him and i were really tite. today is his birthday, and i called him to tell him happy birthday, b/c i am the GOOD person in this friendship, and he was pretty mean! what should i do??? why duz he hate me so much??? should i tell him something? (link)
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It's hard to say why he hates you, he probably doesn't even have a reason. Guys are assholes most of the time. Are you are probably better off not having him as a friend if he acts like this! Good luck hun!
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This guy in my class hates me. I like him a lot, and he used to like me. I don't know why he doesn't like me anymore. I can't eat, i can't sleep, and i can't think about anything but him.... he's everything to me and i know that guys will run if u say that to them so no one knows but me how i feel. I told him i really liked him but he just told me to fuck off. He's constantly making fun of me and i don't know what to do. Everytime he makes fun of me it hurts me really bad and there's nothing i can do about it it seems.... last week i was in the bathroom crying because of what he said. Yet, i still like him for some odd reason someone please help!!!! (link)
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Well no guy is worth all that. If he is acting like that, he is not worth your time. You are much better than him. Girls tend to get attached alot eaiser than boys, so it's hard to let go but sometimes for the best. Maybe he is playing hard to get? Or maybe he doesn't want a relationship? Who knows but Everything happends for a reason, remember that!
xoxox-ash
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