okay well ive liked this guy for a while now.. he used to like me to.. we used to talk on the phone for hours everynight sometimes we would stay up untill 7/8:00 just talking non stop we used tp hang out,he was my first kiss and to tell u the tuth i never liked anyone as much as i like him.. well then him n my best friend got in a fight he was saying the meanest things to her and i found out he threatend to kill his ex girlfriend because she brokeup with him and he has a lot of physiological i guess u can say loll.. but still after all this i still cant let him go, we never got in a fight & he told me even tho our friends hated eachother and we hated eachothers freinds we could still be friends and things were fine.. but then he just stoped calling me whenever i would call him he would rush me off the phone, online he will barly even talk to me any more when we do see eachother he smiles n says hi and thats it. i tryed to talk to him about it and all he said was it was b/c i was with my friends so he felt weird and he said that next time i should go up to him and talk to him. i can understand that but he still wont talk to me and i know hes bad news and hes ignooring me ect. but i cant seem to get over him.. do you think i should move on what are some good ways to? thanks
- sam
14, female
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? OhMyGodAshley answered Wednesday April 27 2005, 10:03 pm: Hmmm this seems pretty complicated to tell you the truth. I will put myself in your position though, I don't think a relationship would go very far if you didn't get along with each others friends. It's hard to juggle both, if they hate each other. But to me it sounds like you deserve better, and maybe you should try to ignore him for awhile and see if he decides to try and talk to you again. Maybe try to get involved with another guy, to make him jealous or something. Just go out and have fun with your friends, they will always be there for you, guys wont. That's all the advice I can think of, sorry it's not too great. Good luck though<3 [ OhMyGodAshley's advice column | Ask OhMyGodAshley A Question ]
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