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SecrEt LovE
ive been going out with my boyfriend for a while now but he hasnt told his parents at all so they dont know about us but i think they know something because all of a sudden me and him started hanging out a lot more and so the other day at our track meet his mom was spying on him and since it was cold outside we were sitting pretty close and he was holding me and his mom got all upset and was yelling at him i dont know what to do because i dont want him to keep gettin in trouble for being with me he says he doesnt care because all he wants is to be with me and his parents dont want him to date until he is 16 but he is already and has had girlfriends before me but none have been as serious as ours is now and i think he should tell his parents but i dont want his parents to make us break up because we really love eachother please help -- should he tell his parents about us-- sorry its so long!! x0o
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he should tell his parents. If you don't want him to get in trouble.I've had the same situation Yeah, it definatly helps to tell
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I think that when he is somewhere, you should introduce yourself to his parents. Bring a small gift and try and talk it out with them.
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Being on good terms with his parents is obviously a good idea. However, if you love each other then you should be abe to be together. I do not agree with his parents keeping you apart, but he should definately respect their decision because those are his parents. This is a tough situation and I wish you better luck in your future with this guy. I hope you can make his parents understand. In fact, maybe you two should sit down with his parents and talk it out. Try to establush a commin ground. Best of luck!
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I think that he should sit down and talk to his parents and tell them that he loves you and that you mean a lot to him and if he won't maybe you should, tell his parents that you love him and that they need to let their little bird use his wings and stead of keeping him in a cage, understand? or maybe you could all have a talk together so everything is out in the open, well hope i helped
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Make him tell his parents. They arent going to respect him anymore if he keeps lying to them, and they find out. Maybe if they realize how mature he is for being truthful they wont care as much?
Also, if his parents make you break up, then maybe its for a good reason. Wait to see if you guys stand the test of time. You can still be good friends, jsut cool it on the whole boyfriend/girlfriend scene. If you do stand the test of time, and DO get back togehter once he turns 16, then I bet it would work out even better than if you guys keep lying and snekaing around.
Good luck with that
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well tell your boyfriend 2 talk 2 his mum cos nobody can stop true luv it happened 2 me and my girlfriend dont worry it will work
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He should if he doesn't want to sneak around with you. I don't think a realtionship needs added stress. He needs to sit down with his parents and do some serious talking. :)
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He probably should. Maybe he can invite you over for dinner. But if he is say 15, you can wait a little bit for goodness sakes. You two are just beginning your dating journey. His parents are just trying to keep him from growing up too fast. Now he may decide to rebel, but that is normal teenage stuff. Just keep talking to him and when the time comes you will be able to date more openly. And its more fun when he can drive, even if parents have to come along.
You could also try to get your parents to talk to his parents about the situation. Maybe then you two could be chaperoned. Good luck.
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Well, considering the seriousness of your relationship, being on good terms with his parents is probably a good idea. And if they're going to be mad if/when they find out you've been dating despite the fact that they don't let him date, it could make for problems. So yes, I do think he should seriously consider telling them.
However, you're probably right in thinking that his parents may very well tell him he can't date you. Maybe you could compromise? Like set parameters for your dates- just group dates, or hanging out at his house when they're home, stuff like that- yes, it isn't ideal, but you wouldn't have to end the relationship. And who knows, you may still be together when you're 16, and then you'll be glad you can still date.
May I ask how old you are now? You didn't say, and I was wondering how many years away your bf is from 16.
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