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ive been going out with my boyfriend for a while now but he hasnt told his parents at all so they dont know about us but i think they know something because all of a sudden me and him started hanging out a lot more and so the other day at our track meet his mom was spying on him and since it was cold outside we were sitting pretty close and he was holding me and his mom got all upset and was yelling at him i dont know what to do because i dont want him to keep gettin in trouble for being with me he says he doesnt care because all he wants is to be with me and his parents dont want him to date until he is 16 but he is already and has had girlfriends before me but none have been as serious as ours is now and i think he should tell his parents but i dont want his parents to make us break up because we really love eachother please help -- should he tell his parents about us-- sorry its so long!! x0o

he should tell his parents. If you don't want him to get in trouble.I've had the same situation Yeah, it definatly helps to tell

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I need to make a cd for this dance/party. What are some good songs,like hip-hop or something you can dance to? Thanks a bunch.Oh, and by the way, what was that onesong from last year with trick daddy ... ahh i forgot who else and what it goes like. maybe someone knows? thanks a bunch. easy rating. =)

um... ALL THE OUTCAST SONGS! andfrak a leek. stuff like that

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I have a friend that has been drinking and stuff. I've told her not to but i know she doesn't care. And now everybody is all like yeah i drink a lot and i've gotten drunk and smoked that. It seems like everybody smokes and drinks! it's crazy we're all still young! I don't do that kind of stuff and I feel weird like ppl think it's no big deal drinking and i say it's wrong and they think i'm weird. I'm so confused! does everybody do the drugs? i'm not going to start doing them but should i still speak up and say they're wrong?

no DO NOT START DOING THEM! Speak your voice. Does it really matter what others think about you?

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Ok. There us this guy named Josh. We have had plans to go out after my best friend had broken up with him (for the 50th time). We wanted to wait a while so she wouldnt get mad and so she would get over him. Well it turns out she isnt over him and hes not over her, but he still likes me. So i see him flirt with her all the time, and it really hurts. I know he still likes me because we always flirt together all the time. But i just dont know what to do. I don't think he can choose between me or her. I REALLY like him. But i dont want my best friend to hate me. And i am affraid that if she goes out with him again i will be really hurt and depressed, i have a funny feeling i wont want to hang out with her anymore. PLease help! I dont want to loose my best man or my best friend!!

Tell your best friend he is flirting with you too. It's better to have a friend than a boyfriend

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everyone keeps tellin me i don't need to lose weight but i still feel i need to. does anyone know of someway to find average weight for height?

ask your docter. somtimes they even have a chart addressing it. Hope I helped

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Okay.. I will admit.. i'm a stoner.. I like drugs.. I'm just starting to wonder what these drugs will actually do to me in the long run. If you can get me any sites or information on the drugs listed .. Please tell me... I rate high

1. Cigarettes
2. Marijuana
3. Crack/ coke
4. Acid
5. Meth

http://www.usnodrugs.com/marijuana-harmful-effects.htm

http://teenadvice.about.com/cs/teenlifefaqs/a/drugalcoholFAQ_3.htm

Hope I helped. I suggest going to drug rehabilitation

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is it safe to try inserting a tampon if you dont hae your period? (just for practice)

I guess so. Actually, that's pretty normal for all us girls to do. LOL

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sorry i didn't know where to put this so i just put it here .. well a few weeks ago i found out that i was pregnant. i decided that im going to have the baby but the problem is that i have an eating disorder. i know it's probably bad for the baby but i've been doing it for so long that i can't stop. Does anyone know how badly it can hurt the baby or what it can do to it?
14/f

DO YOUR PARENTS KNOW? that is the key. They may know what to do. It sounds like you really do need help with the baby. And remember, the father's family needs ti help too. I want you to write to me every day. K? thell me how your doin and how I can help. K, sweetie? Hope I helped

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i really like my friend and i poured my heart out to him (after we told him i liked him 3 months earlier!) and he goes oh you still like me???? and so it was awkward for a while but hes been liek more normal anyway like this week is spring break and he hasnt been on so i went on an old sn and he WAS on so i found out HE BLOCKED ME!!!! i am so upset right now and i keep trying to get over him..please help me what to dO?!?! i am 14 female--hes 14 male

ask him why he blocked you. Tel him your upset and that you can't help likeing him. Tell me how it works on my feedback or inbox.

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i have been friends with this guy for a while now and umm we are really good friends. ALL of our friends say we should go out cause they all know that i like him more than a friend they all say we look so cute together and blah blah blah and he even knows i like him cause we talked about it one night but he said he just wanted to stay friends cause he didnt think of me as more than that. i was okay with that or thats what i told him but im really not i want to be more than that but i just dont know what to do he like this one girl that i dont like that much not cause he likes her but because she is a hoe!!! when im around him i feel like i can tell him anything even though he tells his friends but i dont care, he just makes me feel free, i guess you could say. his parents seem to like me but im not to sure cause i get nervous when im at his house. i dont know what to do can you help??
17/female

Tell him exactly what you just told all of us. Tell him that what you told him wasn't true. You really like him and you really would like to be more than friends.Tell me how it works on my feedback or inbox.

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I don't know why but I am scared of love, but I want it so bad. I am 19 and have still never had a boyfriend or even a first kiss because I want my first kiss to be special. I am considered an attractive girl and guys like me and I like them too but I won't let anything happen because I personally feel like I don't carry enough self-confidence which my friends get angry about. I think I worry about life in general and I'm scared that I'll just end up alone forever. What should I do?

Your problem is you are afraid you will get hurt by the one you love. That's why you don't want to take the risk.I say, take a whack at it.
You may not be ready for your first kiss and save it for someone you truly love. Tell me how it works on my feedback or inbox.

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My mom wants me to be a total conformist: make-up, trendy clothes, dumb girl for a regular guy: you know. I really don't want to because it is so not me but she doesn't care. What do I do?
15/f

Tell your mom you don't want to be like that and your seriously not like that. Tell her how you are and that your not just a regular dumb girl. Tell me how it works on my feedback or inbox.

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ok so i like this guy ALOT we hold hands at school and are togteher all the time. he likes me alot too. hes so sweet. but we BOTH jsut got out of long relationships and don't want a relationship right now. but its practically like we are going out. and EVERYONE is asking BOTH of us.. "do you like her??" "do you like him??" "i heard u like him..are you going out!?" like seriously soo much people...people i barely even KNOW..its getting soo annoying. i usualy just say yea i do...but its getting super annoying. how can this stop..i dont want to be rude or make it seem like i dont like him but people need to mind their own freaking business!

tell them to leave you alone and even if you two were going out, they would need to mind their own buisness. Tell me how it works on my feedback or inbox.

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Hello everyone, how can you know if it is really love or not. There's this guy who I have a crush on for four years plus already and I still can't forget him. Whenever I see him last time and he goes near me, my mind can't think anything. It's like my mind is saying say something say something but I can't think of anything to say. Now, I'm worried about him and I don't know if this is really love. If it is, could it be possible that love exist at my age? I'm 16. And could it be possible that you love someone you don't know really that much?

it is love. I've love this guy, let's call him bob, for 4 years and I can't forget about him. and yes. Love can exsit at your age

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What jobs can you get if you are under 16 because i need to earn some money. Or can you think of any other ways of getting some money. Thanks

work at a piggly wiggly, dog walking buissness,
pet sitters, fast food resturant Tell me how it works on my feedback or inbox.

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Okay...I have alot of friends. But, there is this boy that i have been friends with since like forever. But whenever he has a gf we dont talk at all. it's like we dont even know each other. If i talk to him, or call him his gf will think i'm stocking him or i like him. Someone help me....What should I do? If someone could help that would be great. Thanx

ask him why he's blowing you off. Tell him even though he has a girlfriend that he has no apperent reason to just totally ignore you. Tell me how it works on my feedback or inbox.

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14+f ...all right.. well I dont like hugging people.. i just dont.. like after achieving something amazing.. or saying hello/goodbye... i just HATE giving hugs and try to avoid them.. like.. i dont know.. I think i'm just afraid... is there like something wrong with me??


-Anti-Hug Person

there is absolutly nothing wrong with you. You obviously just don't like the felling of affection. There is nothing wrong with that. Tell me how it works on my feedback or inbox.

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for around 2 years now i have had this white stuff in my knickers.. what is it and what dus it mean??
My mum started her period when she was sixteen ad im 13 so i neva thought i meant i was gonna started my period soon

that white stuff is perfectly normal. It does not mean you are about to get your period. I forgot what it is called. sry. Hope I helped.

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I ADORE MY MOTHER! and i feel a little bit bad about writing this, but i think i should because i dont noe what to do anymore. let me begin... i go to an all girls school, and towards the end of last year and over the summer was when i really started meeting guys. so, the first times she would sit right next me and watch what i was saying. and she still duz that. she doesnt sit by me when im on the phone anymore, but this summer i was on the phone w/ my first love, she would sit there and listen to everything we said. but, she still sits by me when i'm online and i dont noe what to do. cuz, now its beginning 2 feel like a security to hav her there because i dont noe what to say to guys. and when im on the phone, i do! and she updates my profile and goes to places for quotes and puts them in my profile while im @ school and makes me invisible. and i dont even like the quotes sometimes. i've tried talking to her. and ive tried to get other people to talk 2 her... like my aunt, and a friend of mine. and when i tell her, "im gonna tell tia," she goes, i'm not afraid of ur aunt. and she duznt listen to my friend either! i dont noe what to do anymore. when i talk 2 her, she says she'll stop and then she doesn't. i cant change my passwords b/c she'll get mad. but, she's a single mom and i'm her only child. i understand that we're close, like best friends, but i'm 14 years old and i need a little privacy

TEll your mum you want a little more pravicy. I t may be very herd, for the both of you. But, you don't want her to come inbetween you and your husband when you get older. Tell her that you know shes trying to keep you safe and you love her soo much but u need your space. That you are getting older and that you two will still be the best of friends.Tell me how it works!

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i am starting to like this guy but no one knows. he sits next to me in one of my classes, and yea we flirt =] but one of my good friends has started coming over to my seat lately before class and really flirting with him and he flirts with her.. and the last couple days its been really bothering me b/c she never came to talk to me (but really she just talks to him) until him. should i say anything..? what else should i do?

Tell your friend that you seriously do like him. If she can't handle it. I suggest new friends.Tell me how it works!

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