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Boys VS. Friendship
Ok. There us this guy named Josh. We have had plans to go out after my best friend had broken up with him (for the 50th time). We wanted to wait a while so she wouldnt get mad and so she would get over him. Well it turns out she isnt over him and hes not over her, but he still likes me. So i see him flirt with her all the time, and it really hurts. I know he still likes me because we always flirt together all the time. But i just dont know what to do. I don't think he can choose between me or her. I REALLY like him. But i dont want my best friend to hate me. And i am affraid that if she goes out with him again i will be really hurt and depressed, i have a funny feeling i wont want to hang out with her anymore. PLease help! I dont want to loose my best man or my best friend!!
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Hoes before bros. It is like an unwritten law that you aren't suppose to date your best friends boyfriend if they have been dating atleast more than once. I can see if they went out for like a week. But as you said they were on and off. He thinks he is a "player" since he knows the fact that both of you like him. He isn't a good boyfriend as you aren't a good friend for making plans to go out with your bestfriends boyfriend while they were going out.
-Brianna
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ditch the guy, it's very clear what he's doing and that's playing both of you girls. he's not worth the time nor effort it might take to rebuild a friendship. and if your friend has dated him like 50 times then she needs to get over him and move on because it's clear it won't work out. both of you move on and find another guy, preferably one that your friend doesn't want
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Tell your best friend he is flirting with you too. It's better to have a friend than a boyfriend
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i had the same problem in november .. i was so confused just like you well what i did was tell the guy that he needed to pick me or her and he said i dont know i like both of you and then i said well think about it for a week he did and replied with the same answer so i took it as a hint he didnt like me better then her and he didnt want to tell me so i just said fine this little thing is over bye and it turns out i was right he didnt want to tell me he went out with her the next day dont like him he is trouble try your best not to
hope i helped
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I hate to say it but your best mans heart belong to your friend. He may like you as a friend but if he still wants her back...she has the heart. I think you need to find someone else and forget Josh. You would always be worried that she could take him from you if you did get together. Why make yourself miserable.Get out while you can.
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well talke to her and ask her if shestill has feelings and you dont need to go out with your best friends ex that is the number one ruule in friendship but i aint critizing you or nothing like that but just talk to her and tell her you like him alot and if she gets mad then dont worry about him b/c if you let a guy come between your friendship then he isnt worth it ya know trust me i know what i am talking about it happened to me and i lost my bestfriend i wwas for sure that she didnt like him no more but i was wrong i mean but i relized a guy aint worth lossing your friendship over well i hope i helped
best of luck and keep me posted
nikki
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Tell your best friend how you feel. It is not right for her to keep breaking it off, each time taking a peice of your heart with him. If she still doesn't understand or gets angry, you may want to hang out with some of your other friends for a while, until she realizes that boys aren't worth losing a friendship. When a boy is undecided between two girls, they usually see different qualities in both of those girls. Be flattered that he likes you, but find someone else to crush on. If he can't pick between you, then he is not worth it.
~oxkatekaylaxo
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first of all you should have waitted for them to get over each other, not just her getting over him. and word of advice, you should never, in your life put any boy over your best friends. not even your best friend you shouldn't put a boy befor any friend because good friends now a dayys are really had to find....
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You made a big mistake by even dating him, you should have waited way longer than you did. I think you and your friend need to ditch this guy, you and him making plans to date while hes dating your best friend wasn't good either. As you can see, you weren't being a very good friend to her to begin with when this guy was in the picture. You both need to get over this guy together, because hes hurt you both, he hurt your friend by dating you, he hurt you by flirting with your friend when he said he liked you. I think its obvious that best friends always overpower boys when it comes to contest. So, you need to talk to her about not seeing this guy anymore period. Remind her of how much 'heck' its caused you both in your friendship.
-TheTeenGirl
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