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well i like this web site and i am single and i am having some problems i like to hang out with friends and when i have a boyfriend and that is all
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I have to go on birth control because I keep getting headaches and the doctor said that it will put my hormones back in balance. My question is - Will they ask me if I am sexually active and if so, do I have to tell them. When I do tell them do they tell my mom? (link)
yes they will ask you and if you tell them yes then they wont tell your mom. they are not allowed to. so dont worry it is all cofedential. i was scared that they would tell my mom but they didnt

~Hope i helped~


I've liked this guy for over a year now, and he's had mutiple girlfriends. I'm really shy and haven't asked him out yet, nor plan on ever asking him out. He knows I like him, but prefers to reacll to us as "just friends" I don't know what to do. (link)
well does he flirt with you and stuff like that? how old are you and him? just go up to him and say i like you and stuff like that
i hoped i helped for now get back with me


just want 2 let u know u can ask advice on boyz (link)
hey well okay i have another problem.it is about jeremy well he told me yesterday that he wanted to go back out with me and but i had to break up with michael. well i broke up with michael on different ocassions not just for jeremy. well you know how we kissed yesterday huh, well i want to go back out with him and he knows that. he knows that i broke up with michael and he still wont ask me back out. he acts like we go out and my friends say that i am pressuring him into getting back with him, so i asked him and he said i wasnt. okay should i keep doing the stuff with him that i have been doing? i mean kissing him, hugging him, holden hands stuff like that. or should i just wait for him to come to me? i dont know i am so confused well g2g plz write back


this girl named sam i playin my friend for a fool he needs help he does whatever she tells him to do he needs help he even says hi honey to guys if she asks him to hes ubsessed with her and hes a good friend i want him to get out of her spell his name is jeremy (link)
well in order for me to answer your question i need a little more of the story how old and how long so hit me back

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Alright me and my girlfriend have been going out for 8 months now and just recently for the second time we are on a break. Well every time this happen she it seems like she goes and tries to find someone to go out with i dont know what to do about it she keeps telling me she wants to get back together but know i just don't know what to do. By the way im 17 and a junior and she is 16 and a sophmore. what i am asking is what should i do. should i forget about her or should i do something. please could someone give me some advise!!! (link)
okay well if this is the second time then drop here i have dated for a year and a half and he wanted to go on break four times and i even waited and he kept telling me he wants to go back out with me and then he changes his mind and i made a mistake and waied for a week then i met this really nice guy he is 4 yrs older then me yes i have forgotten about my ex but if i was you i would just move on i hoped i help

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thers this girl I like iv known her for years how would I tell her I like her (link)
just go up to her and tell her hey i wanna go out with u b/c i really like you and and i was wonderin what you think just say something like that hop i helped

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well i cant bring my self 2 tell dis gal dat i luv her ashley gav me advice but i cant bring myself 2 say it (link)
well if you cant tell her that you love her then you dont love her i mean dont be embarrased to say it just go and say it and if you think you mean it then just go ahead and see what she has to say sorry if i wasnt no help

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I believe in sex after marriage, but my boyfriend is persisiting i have sex with him. He aggrivates me ALL the time and I can see myself giving in. I know I will regret it as soon as I've done "the deed". I'm confused as to what I should do; should I choose the easy option and give in? or go by my wishes and wait? (link)
if you really dont want to have sex then tell him and if he dont like it then tell him to get over it and if you want to wait then wait it is your decision not his and i hope i helped


im not sure how long we have been friends...but i known who he was since like nov 2003 and we started becoming friends around this time last year so i guess you can say a year...but the thing was that i known the other person since july and i was more open to him then the one i known longer, so i noticed there was something wrong with that...do you have AIM or Yahoo?- thx again (link)
no i dont i am always on myspace.com but anyways i have no clue what to do on that b/c i am not that good of advice person i mean if you have any other questions for me let me know okaay well got to go hit me back

love nikki


the reason why we got into that fight was bc- he kept saying I was making him feel sry for him..and I think he was gettin jealous of my friend..bc I kept talking about him, though I didn't relize I was doin it..and I was gonna ask him to come over and tell him the whole thing of everything like I told my friend, bc I noticed I wasn't being fair to him, bc my friend (who had me call him in Dec) knows everything and always helps me (he is a guy as well and I have been friends with him since July), so I was going to tell him everything bc the 1st friend knows everything between on how my parents almost got a divorce and how my dad moved out for a month and how my sister treats me and ect..so I was going to be fair and tell him the whole thing face to face, bc it means more if u say it face to face I think..(you can see the persons emotions and ect) and yeah...thats how we got into a fight in the 1st place (bc=because). (link)
well yeah it is better to tell them face to face and how long have ya'll been friends two years or what see i am not that good on help but i have helped plenty and all you need to do is just tell im and tell him ask him what is the matter well thats all i can say for now i know i wasnt a bigh elp but i tried i hope what i gave you worked

best of luck
nikki


Ok. There us this guy named Josh. We have had plans to go out after my best friend had broken up with him (for the 50th time). We wanted to wait a while so she wouldnt get mad and so she would get over him. Well it turns out she isnt over him and hes not over her, but he still likes me. So i see him flirt with her all the time, and it really hurts. I know he still likes me because we always flirt together all the time. But i just dont know what to do. I don't think he can choose between me or her. I REALLY like him. But i dont want my best friend to hate me. And i am affraid that if she goes out with him again i will be really hurt and depressed, i have a funny feeling i wont want to hang out with her anymore. PLease help! I dont want to loose my best man or my best friend!! (link)
well talke to her and ask her if shestill has feelings and you dont need to go out with your best friends ex that is the number one ruule in friendship but i aint critizing you or nothing like that but just talk to her and tell her you like him alot and if she gets mad then dont worry about him b/c if you let a guy come between your friendship then he isnt worth it ya know trust me i know what i am talking about it happened to me and i lost my bestfriend i wwas for sure that she didnt like him no more but i was wrong i mean but i relized a guy aint worth lossing your friendship over well i hope i helped
best of luck and keep me posted
nikki


This morning my boyfriend is being a major jerk. I don't know why, but it's like he doesn't even care how I feel today. I wish he would just talk to me. I am trying to send him hints, but it's not working! How can I get his attention? (link)
stop him in the hallway and ask him what is up with him and tell him why do u not notice me and stuff like that just tell him i hoped i help
best of luck
nikki


I have been talking to my friend online that I havent talked to in forever. We have known each other for about a couple of years. When I saw his face again, I remembered how hot he was. I trust this dude when he says things because there are things that he told me a long ago that he has kept telling me when I started talking to me again. He wouldnt have remembered them because we havent talked in a while. Then at school, I still really like my best friends brother, Vince. I have liked him for a while now and a crush for me doesnt usually last this long. Then theres my ex. I have been talking to him more and more and I found out when we were messaging each other that he still misses me and still wants to be with me. He has a g/f but he "says" that hes going to break up with her. Its a long story of our history though, but I dont know if I should give him another chance. Although, God has let me see that we are going to get married in the near furture. What should I do. (link)
i think you should talk to your ex and tell him how you feel and then your friend well still talk to him b/c he is your friend dont stop talking to him okay i hoped i helped
best of luck
nikki


my boyfriend always trys to get me to do things in front of other guys... and when i dont' he gets mad and says stupid and prude. he gets his other guy friends to rag on me. and the other night i was on my rag. he wouldn't leave me alone.. so i took out all my anger on him... then he told me i was lucky to have him... hes realy sweeet wen nobody else is around.. and i dont' want to break up with him...what should i do? (link)
i think you should sit him down and talk to him i mean guys are jerks maybe he is a show off and what you need to do is tell him what he is doing and tell him you dont like it how it makes you feel and tell him if things dont change then your going to break up and if he says fine and ya'll break up then he wasnt worth it and plus you can find somebody else
i hoped i helped
best of luck for ya'll and keep me posted k


I know this is long but please help me!! Here is the thing my friend and I got gotten into a fight, (he's goin to be 15 in July and I just turned 15 at the end of March, he lives a few mins from me (just on the other side of our town..he goes to a Catholic school and I go to a public school) the only thing it was it was mostly my fault, I take the blame for starting the whole thing...he was pissing me off and my friend convinced me to call him back in mid-december and ask him to come over so we could talk, he refused and it made the problem even worse, he didn't get why I wanted to do it face to face and no over the phone or AIM. He had swimming so he wouldn't be at youth group on Thursday till Feb. I saw him once since I last saw him in November and that was in January at our friend's father's wake. The whole time we were there, when I looked at him I could see that he was looking at me, I was just to pissed off to look at him or even talked to him so I was trying to focus on my friend then him so which I did. Till this day I still haven't seen him since then. There were nights were I would be up till 2 AM thinking about him and the whole situation we gone threw. We started talking again in Mid-March, we talk here and there and our friendship is getting back to what it used to be. Last night I was thinking about 2 of my friends and some reason I started thinking about him again and the whole problem. I am confused after a month of talking again and all, why am I am thinking about this all again? We both agreed we would drop the whole thing and forget about it, but for me I feel that it is hard to do because even if he doesn't see it I still feel it there and that it's something that I want to just get over for good. I am starting to miss him since its been almost 5 months since I last saw him, I should be seeing him this Thursday but I am not sure. I told him that I may not be the same when he last saw me, and he asked "why?".. I said "because it's going to feel akward when I see you because if everything that we went threw and how I haven't seen you in so long"..he said "I shouldn't feel that way towards him because he doesn't" and that actually got me to smile for once..to the point of how I was in a good mood for once since November. I was tempted to call last night and I had my friend help me (the whole who suggested I called him back in Decmeber) and so I called him last last night just to say "Hi, Whats up?"..but there was no answer. I figure I would do it again tonight, but I am not sure. What should I do? I want to write another poem but I can't get to the right words out. I guess I can only write when I am pissed not when I am in a good mood? Someone help me please!! (link)
well i think the reason you are thinkking about itagain is b/c you still have it on your mind and i need some more info on what happen why did ya'll get in a fuss

nikki


Okay there's this one guy and i like him and he likes me. But he was put on the spot and went back out with his girlfriend. Whenever im with him he's like.. i need to find a way to get rid of her! Does anybody know what he can say to her so that they can breakup without her knowing it was because of me?! (link)
tell him to tell her this i dont want to be in a relationship right now and just tell him to tell her sorry but it is not her fault it is his i dunno just trying to h elp

best of luck


how dose it feel to have sex i never had it but i want to try it? (link)
well if you really want to have sex for the first time then make sure you love the guy and he isnt going break up with you after . well how old are you? well if u are a virgin then it will hurt just a little bit but everybody's different i mean like i had sex and it hurt me but then i got use to it and it felt good but if you think you are ready for sex then think again b/c make sure ya'll are going to be together for a while b/c you dont want to regret it do? well i hope this helps and the best of luck to you
nikki


my b/f is such a jerk he only cares about himself. He calls me names and screams at me. He used to push me around. I can never be mad im always the wrong one. He allways says the meanest things. I go through so much at home and he dont care he still calls me names and says he hates me. (link)
hey well i just got out of a relationship that lasted 5 months and my ex done the same thing he told me he didnt love me that he just wanted sex then he would say i was ugly but in the begging he was a sweet guy and i think you need to get out of that kind of rlaationship before it gets worse. i mean i know you probally love him but it isnt love trust me if this keeps on then you will need help but i dont think you should be in it take my advice well first of all how old are you and him/ get back with me k
nikki




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